Special offer

Tree Fallin' for a Higher Purpose - Free Fallin' with Emotions

By
Industry Observer with Nature As Neighbors

Tree Removal Stirs Up Emotions and Reflection

Last night, I tossed and turned in troubled sleep anticipating today's events. This morning, a local tree service arrived to fall four large fir trees on our property. My love of trees and nature was colliding with the need to create a space to build the foundation for our parent's backyard cottage. Finally, my husband reached through the dark, found my hand, and said wisely, " Don't worry, the trees are moving on for a higher purpose. Their branches and limbs will be turned into mulch. The trunks will be cut into logs and, in several winters, they will warm our homes. Besides, the new place will be perfect for your mom and dad." 

We live in a multi-generational home with my sister and her husband. Right now, our parents are living upstairs with my husband and me. Dad is 87 and has dementia, mom is nearly 90.  They need us, they also need their privacy, as do we. My sis and her husband have the lower floor. The two-story home is large enough to provide plenty of space for two couples - we also have separate entrances. There is no need for shared living space. Right now, we're making the best of the situation. Once mom and dad have their own home, in late October, we will all have complete privacy again. It will be good for all of us. 

Trees and Nature and The Cycle of Life

Therefore, this clearing is necessary. The trees have to go. And after all, we still have plenty of other large fir trees on our acreage. However, for this nature lover, the process brings mixed emotions.  How long did these trees stand providing oxygen, shade, and wind shelter?   As I dig deeper, there's an epiphany,  it occurs to me the cycle of life is taking center stage today. Perhaps, that's part of the melancholy I'm feeling. I'm reminded of Ecclesiastes 3:1-8, wisdom recognizes that everything in life has its own season - in human activities as in the realm of nature. "There is a season, a time for every purpose under heaven."

Posted by


Debb Janes  Bernie Stea
Brokers/REALTORS®
Call or Text 360-608-4900

We help buyers and sellers in Camas, Washougal, Brush Prairie/Hockinson, Salmon Creek, Felida, and other Vancouver, Washington Areas. 


We bring our passion for nature and beautiful environments to Real Estate. Multigenerational and family estates, country land and homes, and small farmsteads are our speciality.


We agree with our clients, "The true luxury of rural living is having elbowroom for the soul.

 

Comments(14)

Dick Greenberg
New Paradigm Partners LLC - Fort Collins, CO
Northern Colorado Residential Real Estate

Hi Debb - It's great to be making progress on the house for your parents, but I understand your ambivalence - I've always felt a strong connection to trees and have mourned every loss of them.

Aug 12, 2016 06:30 AM
Debb Janes

One more reason to love you. :) 

Aug 12, 2016 06:33 AM
Noah Seidenberg
Coldwell Banker - Evanston, IL
Chicagoland and Suburbs (800) 858-7917

Wow Debb, I am with you. Trees are like turtles. You can laugh but it is true, they live way longer and get way larger than we do.

Aug 12, 2016 06:38 AM
Debb Janes
Nature As Neighbors - Camas, WA
Put My Love of Nature At Work for You

Noah, no laughter from me. I get where you are coming from and agree. I have so much respect for both - they humble me. D

Aug 12, 2016 06:42 AM
Sheri Sperry - MCNE®
Coldwell Banker Realty - Sedona, AZ
(928) 274-7355 ~ YOUR Solutions REALTOR®

Hi Debb Janes EcoBroker and Bernie Stea JD - I know how you feel about this.  I have had some serious safety and fire concerns with trees on my property and it broke my heart to have to cut them down.  What really frosts me are homeowners who top trees to get a better view. There is something sacrilegious about that! 

Aug 12, 2016 06:58 AM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Debb and Bernie,

Every so often, I miss the trees we loved on our property.  They all were specimen trees that UCLA had planted on the lower end of the hill.  The Chinese Elm was very sculptural looking, and we used to take time to make sure the ivy stayed away.  It was always magical working down there, as if the trees were expressing their joy for our care.  A

Aug 12, 2016 08:03 AM
Beth Atalay
Cam Realty and Property Management - Clermont, FL
Cam Realty of Clermont FL

Debb, when you love nature as much as you, trees become like your pets, they're part of your family. Good thing is, you will get the see the mulch every day and think of the tree during warm winter nights.

Aug 12, 2016 08:08 AM
Lou Ludwig
Ludwig & Associates - Boca Raton, FL
Designations Earned CRB, CRS, CIPS, GRI, SRES, TRC

Debb

I know how you feel we had to remove an old growth on our home-site.

Good luck and success.

Lou Ludwig

Aug 12, 2016 12:28 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Debb, I completely understand your ambivalence about your firs being fallen.  Have you considered milling & treating the fallen softwood for your parent's cabin?  

Aug 12, 2016 02:17 PM
Bob Crane
Woodland Management Service / Woodland Real Estate, KW Diversified - Stevens Point, WI
Forestland Experts! 715-204-9671

Congrats on the step forward toward the cottage, and take heart in knowing that trees are a renewable resource, and new trees will grow fast to replace these four.

Aug 12, 2016 04:06 PM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good morning Debb Janes EcoBroker and Bernie Stea JD ,

I understand your mixed emotions about your firs being fallen. But one more step towards the cottage for your parents. Your family is lucky to have each other.

Aug 12, 2016 09:10 PM
Dianne Goode
Raleigh Cary Realty - Raleigh, NC
Realtor/Broker

I too am One with the Lorax -- I love trees.  But, as you say, there's a time and a purpose.  It sounds like the cottage for your parents will be a blessing to your whole family.  Plant four young trees elsewhere on your property, as a rememberance to the four old ones whose time had come.

Aug 12, 2016 10:21 PM
Debb Janes

Dianne Goode We are on the same wavelength, that is exactly what we're going to do. 

Aug 13, 2016 01:37 AM
Kristin Johnston - REALTOR®
RE/MAX Platinum - Waukesha, WI
Giving Back With Each Home Sold!

I hate seeing trees come down, but I do know sometimes it is necessary...great photo!

Aug 13, 2016 01:39 AM
Mark Don McInnes, Sandpoint-Idaho
Sandpoint Realty LLC - Sandpoint, ID
North Idaho Real Estate - 208-255.6227

I usually use the term "tree hugger" with sarcasm.  After your post I can feel your sincerity and will say kudos to a "tree hugger" that is passionate and warm. Pretty damn good hubby to boot in knowing your feelings so well.  Mark

Aug 13, 2016 02:12 PM
Debbie Reynolds, C21 Platinum Properties
Platinum Properties- (931)771-9070 - Clarksville, TN
The Dedicated Clarksville TN Realtor-(931)320-6730

I feel that same way when I see a healthy tree cut down. But it is part of life and if done for a purpose and correctly it can improve our lives.

Aug 16, 2016 12:27 PM