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Don't Complicate the Simple

Reblogger Roy Kelley
Industry Observer with Retired

Map out the needful route to accomplish the goal and stick with it.

Original content by Maria Sapio RS334568

When it comes to walking through a business transaction, I have found that there are two types of people...


                                                Those that seem to
                            'Over-Complicate Everything'
                                        and those that
                                       'Keep It Simple'
 


Those that seem to over-complicate everything are a challenge from the initial email/phone call/text or hand shake.  I find myself having to read and re-read emails and having to ask numerous times for extra clarification.  I tend to walk away from a conversation with my head spinning and feeling like there's a dark cloud of confusion hovering overhead.  



Those that keep it simple are a pleasure from the start.  They are the 'get it done' personality style.  They want to keep the transaction flowing and free from unnecessary clogs.  They are usually easy to work with and return calls/emails/texts in a timely manner.  I tend to walk away from a conversation feeling like it has been productive and helpful.

There is no way to transform an 'over-complicate everything' type of person into a 'keep it simple' type of person, but I have found that implementing the following, helps me maintain my sanity:

1.) Keep interactions to a minimum.  Emails and phone conversations are short and sweet and include bullet points for easy reference.
2.) Acknowledge when it's best to revisit a particular point at another time if emotions are running wild.
3.) Recognize that I have no control of their frenzy nor do I need to enter into the unnecessary drama.

4.) Map out the needful route to accomplish the goal and stick with it.

                                             

5.) Understand that 'this too shall pass' and this transaction will not last for eternity but if stamina in running on low, perhaps having a conversation with my broker is a good idea.

Thankfully I have found that the 'over-complicate everything' type of person is rare and most transactions tend to be 'keep it simple' style.









Maria Sapio

Berkshire Hathaway/Homesale Realty

801 Belvedere Street, Suite 100

Carlisle, PA 17013

License #RS334568

Cell: (717) 226-6857

Office: (717) 245-2100
https://www.facebook.com/Mariasapiorealtor
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Posted by

Roy Kelley, Retired, Former Associate Broker, RE/MAX Realty Group

Gaithersburg, Maryland  

Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Please be sure to leave comments at the original blog by Maria Sapio

Oct 12, 2016 04:15 AM
Les & Sarah Oswald
Realty One Group - Eastvale, CA
Broker, Realtor and Investor

Great choice for a reblog. Heading over to her blog to comment. 

Oct 12, 2016 04:18 AM
Beth Atalay
Cam Realty and Property Management - Clermont, FL
Cam Realty of Clermont FL

Hi Roy, I missed this post, thank you for the re-blog.

Oct 12, 2016 04:43 AM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Thank you very much for your comments. It is always good to hear from you.

 

Oct 12, 2016 05:03 AM
Maria Sapio
Keller Williams of Central PA - Carlisle, PA
Real Estate Agent- Carlisle, PA. Mariasapio.com

Thank you Roy Kelley for re-blogging this post ... I always appreciate your encouragement!

Oct 12, 2016 05:21 AM
Donna Foerster
HomeSmart Realty Group - Parker, CO
Metro Denver Real Estate Assistant

Maria Sapio is one of my favorite bloggers. I like her choice of topics and her style of blogging.

Oct 12, 2016 09:08 AM
Kristin Johnston - REALTOR®
RE/MAX Platinum - Waukesha, WI
Giving Back With Each Home Sold!

Great reblog...I missed the original so I appreciate you resharing!

Oct 12, 2016 11:18 PM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Good morning Roy. Terrific choice for a re-blog. Complicating the simple is a problem.

Oct 12, 2016 11:47 PM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Thanks, again, for your feedback. It is always good to see your comments.

Oct 13, 2016 12:11 AM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Good Monday morning to all. We expect mild weather in Maryland this week and are thankful for the extension of the growing season. Have an outstanding week.

Oct 16, 2016 08:09 PM