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Making the Home Connection In More Ways Than One

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Real Estate Agent with DFW FINE PROPERTIES 0506509

 

 

MAKING THE HOME CONNECTION

 

Purchasing a home is much more than meeting certain criteria, such as location, desired number of bedrooms, baths, square feet, garage spaces, price range, lot size, etc. Whether it is a Seller's Market or a Buyer's Market, if the buyer can't find what they are looking for, perhaps there's more to the story and it may go deeper than achieving the basic criteria.

 

SOCIAL CONNECTION

People come in all types of personalities. Whether you're an Extrovert or an Introvert or if you're a family of a combination of different personalities, if the social connection to the community doesn't appear to be right, you're probably right, you haven't made the right home connection. Education is important. People who enjoy the company of others need people, places, and things to do. Others, who are Introverted by nature, may want more peace and quiet and live in an area where there is breathing room. Living too close or not close enough to people and places where there is likely to be a strong, social connection may be the reason why people don't buy right away.   

 

EMOTIONAL CONNECTION

The emotional journey to make a connection may take longer for some than others. The emotional tone will depend on the individual's point of view in searching for that perfect home.  Many buyers get excited about doing their own search on the INTERNET. Pictures do not always tell the whole story. If one doesn't identify with the property, and that connection isn't there, there's likely to be sadness and frustration. Even when the location and all the criteria is met, if the emotional connection is off by one, the house gets skipped. Not only is the emotional connection to the buyer important, it's very hard to understand by the seller. Having the right sales person who understands people and their needs is critical.

 

INVESTMENT CONNECTION

When a buyer is making an investment connection, they are making a commitment. Putting pressure on people to make a fast decision is a touchy subject. In a Seller's Market, people may not have the luxury of postponing on making a decision. On the other hand, in a Buyer's Market, there's more time to decide - but that can be a gamble and a costly mistake too. 

 

SALES AGENT CONNECTION

Psychologically speaking, an experienced agent who is knowledgeable about the market and who is good in understanding people and their needs has a Sherlock Holmes type of personality. It's not just luck or rational thinking that drives success, it takes effective communication and both parties have to be good listeners and rational thinkers too. 

 

DEVELOPING A HOME CONNECTION

Whether it's a home or life story, every experience must start with a good foundation. There must be structure and a frame that fits an individual' story. Though the beginning may be sketchy, having the right tools and working with the right people who understand marketing and strategy will help a prospective buyer make the right home connection in more ways than one. 

 

 

©Patricia Feager 9/3/2016

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PATRICIA FEAGER, REALTOR®
DFW FINE PROPERTIES
3575 LONE STAR CIRCLE SUITE 315
FORT WORTH, TEXAS 76177

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Paralegal (Southeastern Career Institute)
Associates (3) (College of Lake County)
KU (University of Kansas)

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Comments(46)

Lisa Von Domek
Lisa Von Domek Team - Dallas, TX
....Experience Isn't Expensive.... It's Priceless!

Patricia Feager Congratulations on the well deserved Feature!

Sep 03, 2016 08:47 AM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 FHA, CHFA, VA Mortgages - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Patricia this is an excellent well written blog and well earned feature.

Sep 03, 2016 10:05 AM
Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP
DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Selling Homes Changing Lives

Gene Mundt, IL/WI Mortgage Originator - FHA/VA/Conv/Jumbo/Portfolio/Refi  - Learning how to cope with emotions and to keep ones own emotions in check is a skill. Your years of experience in the business of Mortgage, Appraisals, and sitting at the table at closing trained you to become even greater at what you do because you developed techniques to stay calm and keep others more relaxed during stressful situations. You truly bring a wealth of knowledge to all of us here on ActiveRain and especially to the customers and clients you serve. I'm proud to know you. 

Sep 03, 2016 02:18 PM
Gene Mundt, IL/WI Mortgage Originator - FHA/VA/Conv/Jumbo/Portfolio/Refi

How kind of you ... thank you, Patricia Feager.  The feelings are definitely mutual.  Again ... thank you so much ...


Gene 

Sep 04, 2016 03:59 AM
Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP
DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Selling Homes Changing Lives

Bruce Walter - Your vote of confidence in me is truly appreciated. I value your expertise too! Whenever money is involved, there's bound to be anxiety and how we respond to others or help them cope with issues outside of theirs or our control has a direct impact on the outcome and whether or not they would do business with us in the future or refer us to others. A phony never gets far. People see right through that. 

Sep 03, 2016 02:22 PM
Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP
DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Selling Homes Changing Lives

Jon Quist - Therein lies the solution - "figuring out to get our clients to a good comfort level," while staying in control, in the true spirit of professionalism is the key to success!

Thanks Jon!

Sep 03, 2016 02:25 PM
Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP
DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Selling Homes Changing Lives

Shirley Coomer - Isn't it amazing how the same home can have a different emotional impact on every individual who walks in the door? Learning how to keep buyers and sellers calm and helping them cope with rejection, disappointment, and not take things personally is a challenge. Having patience with emotional decision-making can make or break us...

Sep 03, 2016 02:29 PM
Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP
DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Selling Homes Changing Lives

Lou Ludwig - Your applauds are truly appreciated! Establishing rapport and trust without being judgmental and getting the job done successfully by understanding individual needs is a talent and takes practice!

Sep 03, 2016 02:33 PM
Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP
DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Selling Homes Changing Lives

Laura Cerrano  - Understand the emotional connection with empathy is very important! Thank you.

Sep 03, 2016 02:33 PM
Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP
DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Selling Homes Changing Lives

Sham Reddy - Awe! Thank you! Understanding marketing and strategy can be rewarding in more ways than one!

Sep 03, 2016 02:35 PM
Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP
DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Selling Homes Changing Lives

Karen Kruschka  - Considering emotion plays a big role in the decision-making process, we need to be mindful that it takes courage to make the right connection. Agents need to be careful with other people's emotions and act accordingly with respect. 

Sep 03, 2016 02:41 PM
Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP
DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Selling Homes Changing Lives

Thanks Richie Alan Naggar - I always appreciate your insights! Thank you. 

Sep 03, 2016 02:42 PM
Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP
DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Selling Homes Changing Lives

Lisa Von Domek - Thank you!!!

Sep 03, 2016 02:42 PM
Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP
DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Selling Homes Changing Lives

Thank you George Souto!!! 

Sep 03, 2016 02:43 PM
Jessie Cochran
Counts Real Estate Group, Inc. - Panama City, FL
Panama City Realty Group

I like to think of being an agent as the great equalizer - drawing a line between the emotional and financial aspect of the purchase

Sep 03, 2016 11:10 PM
Jennifer Mackay
Counts Real Estate Group, Inc. - Panama City, FL
Your Bay County Florida Realtor 850.774.6582

Grats on the feature Patricia Feager - well deserved on this well written piece

Sep 03, 2016 11:20 PM
Praful Thakkar
LAER Realty Partners - Burlington, MA
Metro Boston Homes For Sale

Patricia Feager - it all begins with emotional connection. The moment we have trust relationship (connection), everything else is simple - it just follows.

Sep 04, 2016 12:00 PM
Melissa Jackson REALTOR
Trinity Premier Properties - Azle, TX
Helping You Make The Right Move

Congratulations on the gold star!  

Sep 04, 2016 01:30 PM
Amanda S. Davidson
Amanda Davidson Real Estate Group Brokered By Real - Alexandria, VA
Alexandria Virginia Homes For Sale

Patricia, congratulations on your feature, very well deserved. Emotions are such a big part of our business and we have to understand our clients emotions in order to best serve them. Once the emotional bond is formed respect and trust just naturally follow. You are such a talented writer, I am always so impressed with your posts. 

Sep 04, 2016 10:56 PM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
HomeSmart Real Estate - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Patricia what a great post!  You've really summed up so much that goes into buying a home in a unique and interesting way. Love it!

Sep 06, 2016 04:11 AM
Peter Mohylsky, Beach Expert
PMI. Destin - Miramar Beach, FL
Call me at 850-517-7098

Great feature and a very good post to bookmark and review occasionally.

Sep 07, 2016 08:26 PM