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The Loss of Luxury....A Casualty of Divorce

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Real Estate Agent with EXP Realty 414-525-0563 57026-90 Broker

  In  our market in southeastern Wisconsin, the pricing for a luxury home begins at $500,000.  Wisconsin is also a community property state...making the division of property "equal."  There are ways that divorces are settled to make the most sense....one spouse gets all of this and none of that. The second home property divisionand investments may equal the equity in the primary residence, etc.  That is the job of the financial advisor or attorcommunity property statesney to determine. It is our job to determine the value of the real estate...in some cases to sell it and in other cases for one spouse to keep it or buy out the other.  Couples who have luxury homes often find the reality of property division a difficult one.  The luxury they knew but in half means a drastic change in lifestyle. It likely means a different kind of car the next time around, a smaller house in a different neighborhood...and the proceeds that they thought they had can be diminished by legal fees, rent of another residence until the divorce is final....and the list goes on chipping away at the luxury lifestyle.

      If they hire "the right" Realtor ...THEN they will get the price that they "deserve" and more equity to divide. The "market decides" is a hard concept when it leaves a hole in a lifestyle that they once enjoyed and now compromise and downsize have replaced that with the necessity of property division.  

     We  are obligated to be honest....about the price ....we illustrate it to both members of the couple ...their lawyers and sometimes  a court commissioner or Family Court Judge.  Letting go of Luxury.....at least for now ....is difficult...and we work to advise and get the highest and best possible price to allow each member of the couple to begin their fresh start. 

     If you or anyone you know and likely you do know someone who is divorcing...in Southeastern Wisconsin, Call the Hansons...the only Realtors certified in divorce having bichesuccessfully completed hundreds of divorce related transactons.  Experience in this delicate and sometimes emotionally charged niche makes the transaction go much more smoothly.  We would be honored to be of service.

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Sally K. & David L. Hanson, ABR, CDPE, CSS, e-Pro,ILHM, REDS


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Gita Bantwal
RE/MAX Centre Realtors - Warwick, PA
REALTOR,ABR,CRS,SRES,GRI - Bucks County & Philadel

I always feel sad when I show homes of couples getting a divorce. 

Sep 18, 2016 09:08 PM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

Good morning, Sally and David... the sudden realization how divorce impacts one's financial well-being is often the cause of many discussions and arguments about the real value of a home about to be sold.

Sep 18, 2016 10:22 PM
Sally K. & David L. Hanson

The house has beocme part of who they are Nina Hollander  and now...it is more difficult to imagine who they will be and how they will live.

Sep 18, 2016 10:29 PM
Scott Godzyk
Godzyk Real Estate Services - Manchester, NH
One of the Manchester NH's area Leading Agents

I have some clients going through this now although the Mr. states openly he is losing more luxury than the Mrs.. As the listing agent i am neutral and advise both on real estate questions and refer back to their own lawyers when they ask about legal questions Sally K. & David L. Hanson  

Sep 18, 2016 11:04 PM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

This is certainly an important topic. Thank you very much for sharing your experience.

Sep 19, 2016 12:27 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Good morning Sally and David. The truth is necessary and I'll bet difficult too.

Sep 19, 2016 12:36 AM
Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
Retired New Hampshire Home Stager

It can be such a mess. I've done staging consults for divorce situations and only one of them was pleasant. The others have been awkward to say the least.

Sep 19, 2016 01:25 AM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Sally and David -- your combination of experience and success will certainly help those in need of your services during the particularly difficult time surrounding a divorce.     

Sep 19, 2016 01:30 AM
Sybil Campbell
Fernandina Beach, FL
Referral Agent Amelia Island Florida

Sally and David, I went through a divorce a few years ago and of course I listed my own home but I do not miss the luxury because now I have a husband who has shown me what it means to be loved and cherished as a wife should be by her husband!

Sep 19, 2016 02:00 AM
Sally K. & David L. Hanson

Good for you Sybil Campbell  our divorcing clients are not that far from the trauma and drama that they can see into another relationship...or be lucky enough to have one.

Sep 19, 2016 02:18 AM
Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400
The Top Team @ Charles Rutenberg Realty 255 Executive Dr, Plainview NY 11803 - Plainview, NY
Long Island Condo and Home Specialists

Yes, this is true. Lots of drama, especially in the luury markets.

Sep 19, 2016 05:21 AM
Debbie Reynolds, C21 Platinum Properties
Platinum Properties- (931)771-9070 - Clarksville, TN
The Dedicated Clarksville TN Realtor-(931)320-6730

I have seen some dramatic changes in lifestyle for both of the spouses. Parting has a price associated with it and it takes understanding and compassionate agetns like you to help people readjust.

Sep 19, 2016 11:28 AM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 FHA, CHFA, VA Mortgages - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Sally and David having to change life style is never easy under any circumstances.  Divorce turns lives upside down.

Sep 19, 2016 11:44 AM
Gabe Sanders
Real Estate of Florida specializing in Martin County Residential Homes, Condos and Land Sales - Stuart, FL
Stuart Florida Real Estate

Good morning Sally and David.  Those folks finding themselves in the unfortunate situation of a divorce can at least make a wise decision by picking you as their Realtor.

Sep 20, 2016 09:24 PM
Lise Howe
Keller Williams Capital Properties - Washington, DC
Assoc. Broker in DC, MD, VA and attorney in DC

letting go can be so hard, but i always encourage my clients going through the divorce to picture themselves on the other side of the process in a new home with new friends and a new happy lifestyle- it is really hard if you don't have  good vision of where you can go to and how you can be happy afterwards

Oct 08, 2016 09:41 PM
Joe Pryor
The Virtual Real Estate Team - Oklahoma City, OK
REALTOR® - Oklahoma Investment Properties

As I have said to you before, you work a difficult niche of the market with divorce and short sale. Given the choice a short sale would be my preference.

Oct 17, 2016 12:45 AM