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The Art Of Listening...

Reblogger Gabe Sanders
Real Estate Agent with Real Estate of Florida specializing in Martin County Residential Homes, Condos and Land Sales 3090099

I loved this post from Maria Sapio and thought you might like it as well if you missed it when she first posted it.  This is something that I constantly need to work on.

Original content by Maria Sapio RS334568

The other day I was painting a piece of furniture.  I was down on the floor with my paint brush in hand looking at the piece from every angle to be sure I had
painted each nook and cranny.  


As I was laying there twisted like a pretzel, I wondered 
..."How often do I simply look at a particular piece of information from only one angle and miss so much more...??"


Real Estate is a listening business...


Yet does listening go beyond the simplicity of paying attention...??


I think good listening -

-Starts with the ability to be quiet 
-Hear the words and voice inflection 
-Repeat and sum up what was heard
-Await further clarification
-Ask intentional, thought provoking questions that lead to further depth of understanding

To Sum Up: Be Quiet/Hear/Sum Up/Await/Ask

Truly Listening takes time, requires patience, and must flow from a true desire to fully hear what is being conveyed.

Perhaps listening is one of the greatest gifts we can offer to each other...

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Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

Active listening really does help reflect back the feelings of the other person.

Sep 20, 2016 04:31 PM
Charles Stallions Real Estate Services
Charles Stallions Real Estate Services Inc - Gulf Breeze, FL
Buyers Agent 800-309-3414 Pace and Gulf Breeze,Fl.

goes back to the two ears two eyes and one mouth theory of life LOL

Sep 20, 2016 09:03 PM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Good morning Gabe. What a fabulous re-blog. Maria really made it real.

Sep 20, 2016 09:06 PM
Gita Bantwal
RE/MAX Centre Realtors - Warwick, PA
REALTOR,ABR,CRS,SRES,GRI - Bucks County & Philadel

Thank you for reblogging the post. I hope others will read it too.

Sep 20, 2016 09:43 PM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

This is an excellent selection for a reblog. Some of us need to work on our listening skills.

Members should be following the blogs by Maria Sapio

Sep 20, 2016 10:38 PM
Maria Sapio
Keller Williams of Central PA - Carlisle, PA
Real Estate Agent- Carlisle, PA. Mariasapio.com

Thank you Gabe Sanders for choosing to re-blog my post.
With appreciation,
Maria 

Sep 20, 2016 10:42 PM
Debbie Reynolds, C21 Platinum Properties
Platinum Properties- (931)771-9070 - Clarksville, TN
The Dedicated Clarksville TN Realtor-(931)320-6730

I liked this post too Gabe. It was very well written by Maria Sapio.

Sep 20, 2016 11:35 PM
Robert Bob Gilbert
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices Anderson Properties - Katy, TX
Your Katy TX ( West of Houston) Real Estate Expert

Gabe, Good re-blog. Listening skills are becoming a lost art form. 

Sep 21, 2016 05:53 AM
William Feela
WHISPERING PINES REALTY - North Branch, MN
Realtor, Whispering Pines Realty 651-674-5999 No.

I have worked very hard at improving my listening skills.  Not always easy

Sep 21, 2016 07:32 AM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

It's an art and craft and a science all rolled into one in my opinion

Sep 21, 2016 04:56 PM
Gabe Sanders
Real Estate of Florida specializing in Martin County Residential Homes, Condos and Land Sales - Stuart, FL
Stuart Florida Real Estate

Thank you for stopping by and taking the time to read my re-blog.

Oct 10, 2016 06:36 AM
Gabe Sanders
Real Estate of Florida specializing in Martin County Residential Homes, Condos and Land Sales - Stuart, FL
Stuart Florida Real Estate

Thanks for your comments, always appreciated.

Oct 10, 2016 06:36 AM