Thanksgiving Reflection.....

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Real Estate Agent with Keller Williams 414-525-0563 57026-90 Broker

 Three years ago our Thanksgiving changed forever...our lives changed forever....My Mom who had been living with us for the six months before that....Passed away.

     My now ....former...Sister and Brother were here from California...we sat at the table and held hands and gave my Mom, then 92 years old, permission to leave...she wanted to ...and now she had gotten to say good bye to all her children...and to David who was every bit as much a child to her as any of us.  We had decided we would go into her room candle remembranceand let her know that we loved her....and that she had our permission to leave us now. Those are words easier to say than they are to live....and as I came into her room first...she had just left moments before.

    For reasons I will not detail and are too painful to ezpess....the family as I knew it for a lifetime was irretrievably broken.

      I write this not for sympathy..or to dampen your own family celebration.  I write it to tell each of you who has a family that surrounds you this day...to know and appreciate that ...savor the moments, take pictures, make memories and from David and Sally Hanson...our precious family of two....we extend our best wishes for you and yours this holiday weekend.

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George Souto
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Sally and David saying the final good-by to a parent or anyone close to us is not easy.  My wife and I have lost both our parents, but we were their to give our final good-by to both her mother and my father.  That was not an easy experience to go through, and an experience neither of us will ever forget.

Hope you and David are able to spend time today with those closest to you today, and give thanks for the blessings you have, especially the blessing of being with them.

Nov 24, 2016 02:18 AM #1
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Jay Markanich
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Though you didn't go into that much detail I remember that story when you and I spoke once before.

While easy for me to say, that is as comfortable a way to go as any, I suppose.

My parents have been gone for over 4 decades.  And like you, we find ourselves alone this Thanksgiving.  But no problem!  The food and thanks will be just as good.

Nov 24, 2016 02:44 AM #2
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Barbara Todaro
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Your story is one I will never forget.... you and David are blessed to have each other.... enjoy each other and all the friends you have....Happy Thanksgiving, Sally.... hugs from me.

Nov 24, 2016 02:54 AM #3
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Dorie Dillard
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Good morning Sally K. & David L. Hanson ,

I remember this and it is hard to believe it has been 3 years already! You two are strong, love each other and life and have many friends. Life has changed for you but the journey continues and I wish you a very Happy Thanksgiving.

Nov 24, 2016 04:00 AM #4
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Wayne Martin
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Happy Thanksgiving Sally and David. Never a good time for this. Having so much family around makes it easier. Thank you for sharing. Enjoy your day!

Nov 24, 2016 04:31 AM #5
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Gita Bantwal
RE/MAX Centre Realtors - Warwick, PA
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Thank you for sharing the story. Happy thanksgiving to you and your family 

Nov 24, 2016 05:51 AM #6
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Ginny Gorman
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A very touching Thanksgiving memorial Sally K. & David L. Hanson and I hope you reflect on the great times you once all had together...sending love & good thoughts!

Nov 24, 2016 05:51 AM #7
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Sandy Padula and Norm Padula, JD, GRI
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And a very pleasant and Happy Thanksgiving to you both, Sally K. & David L. Hanson. I already did 8.5 miles and expect to go another loop before the day is over!

Nov 24, 2016 05:54 AM #8
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Ed Silva
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Hope you have a wonderful day and cherish the good memories of your Mom.  People let the least important  things in life control their lives.

Nov 24, 2016 06:36 AM #9
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Michael Jacobs
Coldwell Banker Residential Brokerage - Pasadena, CA
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Good morning, Sally and David -- holidays are filled with memories.  Some are happy while others are sad as your thoughtful post shows us.   Thank you for the caring attitude and approach to life you share with us everyday.

Nov 24, 2016 07:09 AM #10
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Scott Godzyk
Godzyk Real Estate Services - Manchester, NH
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Well said Sally K. & David L. Hanson , yours is a lesson I will remember as our busy lives are nothing without family. Happy Thanksgiving to you and your family,

Nov 24, 2016 07:29 AM #11
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Gabe Sanders
Real Estate of Florida specializing in Martin County Residential Homes, Condos and Land Sales - Stuart, FL
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Hi Sally and David.  It's always difficult to deal with the loss of a loved one.  But, our memories can keep them in our hearts.

Nov 25, 2016 04:25 AM #12
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Kristin Johnston - REALTOR®
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Hoping you had a wonderful day with family...I sure did

Nov 25, 2016 06:38 AM #13
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