I’ve been feeling like a fraud…

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Real Estate Agent with Amerivest Realty

I haven’t written an ActiveRain blog post in almost a year…. because I’m not as much of a Realtor as I used to be…

I was a FULL-TIME (and then some) Realtor for 8+ years. I built a reputable business and had established my name in the St. Louis Metro East area. I helped a lot of buyers and sellers, I drove tens of thousands of miles with clients in my car, I was invited to multiple clients’ weddings, I was even on House Hunters.

When my husband and I decided to move to Florida, I was excited to master a whole new market. But, my heart just wasn’t in the day-to-day Realtor grind anymore. I didn’t love my new sales contracts. I hated my new property disclosure forms. I didn’t like that my “clients” were suddenly “customers” and the “transaction” was my “client” – or something like that. No guarantee I even have that outlined correctly.

I still have my license and I sit in a builder’s model home one day a week. I enjoy my weekly 7-hour open house because I’m helping people shop in the neighborhood I live in and love. I can feel good about that. (And, we use the builder’s contract which takes pressure off of me advising which of four potential purchase contracts would be best in any given situation.)

So while I’m not Realtor-ing around the clock… I’ve been WRITING!

I was always happiest on the days that I wrote blog posts about my real estate adventures (and other randomness). Admittedly, my subject matter often strayed to more personal stories - like painting our house or cutting our grass.

So, I've started a new blog (not hosted by a real estate-centered website) where I feel more ok about writing about my new pug puppy and my writing efforts.

I'm working on a BOOK!  (It's scary to admit that, but I'm 80,000 words in...) 

I'm also exploring some freelance opportunities.  (If anyone is interested in help with marketing materials, letters, emails, blog posts, website content, or property descriptions.)

Enough rambling -  this is probably my last ActiveRain post (at least for now). I’d love for you to follow me (and my new adventures) at: www.TaraLynnWin.com

Or, you can subscribe to my blog by following this link: https://feedburner.google.com/fb/a/mailverify?uri=TaraLynnWin&loc=en_US

Thank for all the comments and support over the years - and hopefully you'll be hearing more from me soon.

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Alan May
Coldwell Banker Residential - Evanston, IL
Helping you find your way home.

I've always felt as though I had a book in me, but none of it ever comes out.

Nov 30, 2016 09:39 AM #29
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Chris Lima
Atlantic Shores Realty Expertise - Port St Lucie, FL
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Congrats on the feature Tara and much success and happiness with your new chapter.

Nov 30, 2016 10:24 AM #30
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Lisa Bieri
Door County Realty Inc. - Sturgeon Bay, WI
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Best wishes!  I've book-marked you site and will follow you faithfully!!

Nov 30, 2016 11:20 AM #31
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Mike Bjork
American Pacific Mortgage - Redondo Beach, CA

Best of wishes on your new venture, Tara!  You have to follow where the heart lies.

Nov 30, 2016 11:37 AM #32
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Jon Kolsky
Kolsky Realty & Management - Long Beach, CA
Licensed California Real Estate Broker

Tara Winfield ~ even though I know you don't need it - I wish you all the luck in the world in your new adventures. I love your title, but the content is even better, so thank you for that. I also want to thank you because your title and premise of this post offered me an idea for my next post

Nov 30, 2016 02:24 PM #33
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Mike Frazier
Carousel Realty of Dyer County - Dyersburg, TN
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I cannot imagine moving to another state and trying to start a real estate career all over again.

Nov 30, 2016 02:40 PM #34
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William Feela
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Realtor, Whispering Pines Realty 651-674-5999 No.

Change can be difficult.   Wishing you luck in your new endevor

Nov 30, 2016 03:09 PM #35
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Maya Garg
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Wish you all the best in your new venture

Nov 30, 2016 07:18 PM #36
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Andrea Cameron
Ultima Real Estate - Cedar Park, TX
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Thanks for sharing this part of your journey! Wishing you great success as you forge ahead in this new area of your life's calling :)

 

Nov 30, 2016 07:42 PM #37
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Stavrula "Sam" Crafa, RNC,GRI, CDPE, PSA
Future Home Realty - Seminole, FL
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Best of luck on your book and new adventure.

Nov 30, 2016 07:44 PM #38
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Dörte Engel
RE/MAX Leading Edge - Bowie, MD
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Dear Tara,

That sounds like a lot of fun, especially, if you love it. Check back with us from time to time to let us know, how it is going. It is always fun to live vicariously, when you had a bad day & recall all the other roads you could have taken.

Nov 30, 2016 08:34 PM #39
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Ed Silva
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Ne beginnings are what so many of us understand.  It may well have been what made you successful before you relocated.  Now you can follow a new path and find a new joy

Dec 01, 2016 05:04 AM #40
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Terry McCarley
REMAX Realty Team - Cape Coral FL - Cape Coral, FL
REALTOR, SRES, CDPE - Cape Coral, FL

Congratulations on your new venture!  I live in Cape Coral and have for almost 30 years.  I can't imagine trying to start real estate all over in another state.  Things are very different state to state so I think it would be very difficult to adapt to the changes.  Glad you found something that inspires you!  Wishing you much success with your writing

Dec 01, 2016 05:59 AM #41
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Larry Johnston
Broker, Friends & Neighbors Real Estate and Elkhart County Subdivisions, LLC - Elkhart, IN
Broker,Friends & Neighbors Real Estate, Elkhart,IN

Good morning Tara Winfield , It sounds ike things are looking up for you.  You need to stop by with some updates on your book, so we can cheer you on. If you need some encouragement, Active Rain is here.  Have a great Holiday Season and good luck in 2017.

Dec 01, 2016 06:39 AM #42
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John Dotson
Preferred Properties of Highlands, Inc. - Highlands, NC - Highlands, NC
The experience to get you to the other side!

Tara,  sounds like you have your hands full without the real estate "headaches."

When you find something you love GO FOR IT - until you don't love it anymore.  Life is way to short to beat your head against a wall.

Hope your Christmas is Merry and Cheerful and filled with inner Peace!

Dec 01, 2016 02:37 PM #43
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Mary Hutchison, SRES, ABR
Better Homes and Gardens Real Estate-Kansas City Homes - Kansas City, MO
Specializing in Brookside, Waldo, Prairie Village

Good for you--such an honest post!  Glad to hear you are following your heart by writing!  I think once you establish yourself in this business and understand how difficult it can be...well you know it would be worse moving and starting again!

Dec 01, 2016 03:07 PM #52
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Jan Green
Value Added Service, 602-620-2699 - Scottsdale, AZ
HomeSmart Elite Group, REALTOR®, EcoBroker, GREEN

Very cool!  Writing is so therapeutic!  Kind like working in the dirt.  I've considered it to, but mine would be titled, "What to Expect When You're Expecting Back Surgery!"  Not exactly a best seller!  Good luck :) 

Dec 01, 2016 06:39 PM #53
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Tara Winfield we all have a story - and a book in us, isn't it? Some gets published and some remains in the heart...

All the best for new venture.

Dec 02, 2016 09:05 PM #54
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David Martin
Fairfax Realty - Fairfax, VA
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Good luck with what ever you choose to do and with your new adventures 

Dec 01, 2017 06:01 AM #55
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Inna Ivchenko
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I hope, you get better in a new place by now. I'll check your blog. But do stop by sometimes in here too. 

Dec 13, 2017 11:28 PM #56
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