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Stop being a Social Media Idiot

Reblogger Gabe Sanders
Real Estate Agent with Real Estate of Florida specializing in Martin County Residential Homes, Condos and Land Sales 3090099

For those still needing some New Year's resolutions, here are some excellent tips (if they apply to you) from Robert Siciliano regarding your social media presence:

 

 

Original content by Robert Siciliano

Leave personal details off your Facebook page.

Does the whole world—or even your private circle, many of whom you haven’t seen in person for years, or even at all—have to know you’re laid up from hernia surgery (i.e., vulnerable, defenseless)?

Try this experiment for a week: Assume that the only visitors to your Facebook are 1) future possible employers, 2) master gossip spreaders and reputation bashers, and 3) your future in-laws (if you’re not married). This should really change the game plan of how you post.

Never send naked photos of yourself.

Not even to your significant other. After all, in many cases of leaked nude images…the significant other is the leaker! If your lovey-dove wants to see you in your birthday suit, then present yourself that way in person—after you know for sure all the cameras in the room are turned off.

Enough with the selfies.

It’s gotten to a point where all selfies look alike: Some doofus holding up the phone and staring INTO the phone. Whatever happened to the nice images of yesteryear, where someone, posing nicely, was facing the viewer? Selfies are fine if you’re showing off your abs when the selfie next to it of 90 days ago shows the Pillsbury Dough Boy, but please, nobody is special enough to justify endless selfies, including those for which you corralled a bunch of people to take part in it.

Instagram is not for food images.

Don’t waste your time. Think “borrrrrring!” Who really wants to see your beet salad? If you want to promote your recipe skills, start a website.

“Like” only recent posts.

Nobody pays attention to likes on old posts.

Cross out cross-posting.

Post an item on your Snapchat story, then put it in a private message…NOT.

No ODRs, no oversnapping.

Avoid opening but not replying on Snapchat. Avoid double-snapping someone.

Say no to screengrabbing.

Read that again. Don’t grab a Snapchat unless you want the sender to know who did it.

For parents…

Be mindful of commenting on your teenagers’ pages. Be sincere if you must, like a congratulations for qualifying for the state wrestling finals.

Robert Siciliano CEO of IDTheftSecurity.com, personal security and identity theft expert and speaker is the author of 99 Things You Wish You Knew Before Your Identity Was Stolen. See him knock’em dead in this identity theft prevention video.

Andrzej Niemyjski
Realty One Group - Sun City West, AZ

great reblog and great set of pointers from Robert Siciliano 

Jan 02, 2017 11:42 PM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

It's really true that you really have to engage and have to really care about people as well as your business.

Jan 02, 2017 11:43 PM
Gary L. Waters Broker Associate, Bucci Realty
Bucci Realty, Inc. - Melbourne, FL
Eighteen Years Experience in Brevard County

As far as I know I have never done any of these. My resolution for 2017... do the same!

Jan 03, 2017 02:57 AM
Sandy Padula & Norm Padula, JD, GRI
HomeSmart Realty West & Florida Realty Investments - , CA
Presence, Persistence & Perseverance

No question, Gabe Sanders, 'The Early Bird gets the Worm' and you are having a feast with this one. Great re-blog!

Jan 03, 2017 03:06 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

Great reblog, Gabe... miss the first posting by Robert. And the title certainly got my attention.

Jan 03, 2017 05:30 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good morning Gabe Sanders ,

Thank you for this re-blog..it's excellent. I'm off to comment on Robert Siciliano post.

Jan 03, 2017 05:39 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

Nice choice for a reblog and I have always tried to adhere to these types of things with my social media, but it is always good to keep in mind.

Jan 03, 2017 08:34 AM
Mark Loewenberg
KW of the Palm Beaches - Palm Beach Gardens, FL
KW 561-214-0370

and 4th on the list of potential folks visiting your church's pastor.. just to keep you on your toes!

Jan 03, 2017 10:22 AM
Karen Fiddler, Broker/Owner
Karen Parsons-Fiddler, Broker 949-510-2395 - Mission Viejo, CA
Orange County & Lake Arrowhead, CA (949)510-2395

Yeah, that's me. I'm a bit of an idiot when it comes to busines on social media.

Jan 03, 2017 11:57 AM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Thank you very much, Gabe, for sharing this reblog.

Have an outstanding week.

Jan 03, 2017 04:48 PM
Lou Ludwig
Ludwig & Associates - Boca Raton, FL
Designations Earned CRB, CRS, CIPS, GRI, SRES, TRC

Gabe

Business professionals . . . . social media should be professional.

Good luck and success.

Lou Ludwig

Jan 03, 2017 06:54 PM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

I haven't really found that I do a lot of the Snapchat but I've seen others do it, and it can be harrowing.!

Jan 03, 2017 11:55 PM
Vern Eaton
Askov, MN
Realtor 651-674-7449

Many of these are the reason I don't do social media

Jan 04, 2017 08:40 AM
Peter Mohylsky, Destin BeachPro
PMI. Destin - Miramar Beach, FL
Call me at 850-517-7098

Thanks again for the repost.  Great information for all to read and heed.

Jan 05, 2017 03:02 AM
Evelyn Johnston
Friends & Neighbors Real Estate - Elkhart, IN
The People You Know, Like and Trust!

This post was worth the reblog! Thanks for getting it back out there!

Jan 05, 2017 07:13 PM
Robert Bob Gilbert
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices Anderson Properties - Katy, TX
Your Katy TX ( West of Houston) Real Estate Expert

Gabe, Thanks for this re-blog as I did not see this post. Those are good tips but I admot I am not sure what he means in some cases!! 

Jan 06, 2017 12:36 PM
Gabe Sanders
Real Estate of Florida specializing in Martin County Residential Homes, Condos and Land Sales - Stuart, FL
Stuart Florida Real Estate

Thank you for stopping by and taking the time to read my re-blog.

Feb 05, 2017 01:45 PM
Gabe Sanders
Real Estate of Florida specializing in Martin County Residential Homes, Condos and Land Sales - Stuart, FL
Stuart Florida Real Estate

Thanks. Your comments are always appreciated!

Feb 05, 2017 01:45 PM