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She opened her heart and her home.

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Real Estate Agent with Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 UT DRE# 6541633-SA00

She opened her heart and her home.

 

 

Our family will be traveling to honor and put to rest an amazing person, my mother-in-law LaDean. As a young 13 year old, she welcomed me in her home and fed me when hungry (which was often back then). There was always a chair waiting at the dinner table and a sincere connection that held strong for over 43 years. When I married her son, it was like I'd found my way back home. Always a hug and kiss hello and goodbye. We laughed, cried, shared, loved and enjoyed the time spent together.

 

She was born during the Great Depression, one of 9 children. Mom learned a work ethic early in her life, it was necessary for the family's survival. One of her biggest loves was riding horses. Who knew that as a young teen, riding on the handlebars of a bicycle, would turn into 62+ years of marriage? Mom and Dad worked hard to raise and teach their children to be responsible, productive, honest people. She has left quite a legacy, 6 children, 18 grandchildren and 22 great grandchildren.

 

Always there when we needed her and just a phone call away for one of her recipes or to get advice. She was a soft place to land and it’s hard to say goodbye to someone who held such an important role. I so wish there was more time to spend and that her life had not been lost to illness, that the last couple of years could have been different for her. Mom brought much beauty and love to the world, making a true difference to those who knew her. Goodbye for now Mom, until we meet again.

 

Amen.

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Comments (14)

Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

What a beautiful tribute to someone who was such an important part of your life. Thank you for sharing a little bit of LaDean with us.

Jan 11, 2017 06:36 AM
Maria Sapio
Keller Williams of Central PA - Carlisle, PA
Real Estate Agent- Carlisle, PA. Mariasapio.com

Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - What a breathtaking post.  Your heartfelt words have touched my heart and have offered me a 'soft place to land' this morning.  What a life, what a legacy, what a profound impact one beautiful person can make - and the ripple effects of her life live on forever ...
May peace carry you and the memories embrace you -

Jan 11, 2017 06:37 AM
Doug Dawes
Keller Williams Evolution - 447 Boston Street, Suite #5, Topsfield, MA - Topsfield, MA
Your Personal Realtor®

Good Morning Wanda Kubat-Nerdin 

Sorry to learn of the passing of your mother-in-law. She sounds like quite a people person. 

Jan 11, 2017 06:37 AM
Gloria Valvasori, Accredited Senior Agent
BETTER HOMES AND GARDENS REAL ESTATE SIGNATURE SERVICE - Mississauga, ON
REAL Experience | REAL Commitment | REAL Results!

Such a wonderful story.. and a beatiful and heartfelt tribute to someone who was in your life for such a long time, and played such an important role.  It's always difficult to say goodbye to someone we love... Thanks for sharing this personal moment.

Jan 11, 2017 06:40 AM
Mark Don McInnes, Sandpoint-Idaho
Sandpoint Realty LLC - Sandpoint, ID
North Idaho Real Estate - 208-255.6227

Warmly written and felt by anyone that reads.  Your love shines through.  M

Jan 11, 2017 06:43 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Good morning Wanda and I am so sorry for your loss. Your tributr to your Mother in Law is lovely and clearly your relationship was very special.

Jan 11, 2017 06:43 AM
Sandy Padula & Norm Padula, JD, GRI
HomeSmart Realty West & Florida Realty Investments - , CA
Presence, Persistence & Perseverance

Wanda Kubat-Nerdin An excellent tribute and now it is up to you to carry that Welcome Torch by welcoming others to your home.

Jan 11, 2017 06:45 AM
The Scott Loper Team Bux-Mont Premier Properties
Keller Williams Real Estate - Montgomeryville - Lansdale, PA

So sorry for your loss. What a beautifully written tribute.

Jan 11, 2017 06:56 AM
Sharon Lee
Sharon Lee's Virtual Assistance - Jonesborough, TN
Retired and loving life

Wanda-Very sorry for your loss. It is so hard to lose someone who gave you so much in your life. HUGS.

Jan 11, 2017 07:18 AM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Wanda,

What a lovely tribute to your mother/mother-in-law.  What a wonderful story you shared with us.  A

Jan 11, 2017 07:24 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

Hi Wanda... so sorry for your loss, because in your case it is a very, very big loss of an important person in your life's journey. And you've written such a beautiful tribute to your mother-in-law... it made me cry reading it. You were so fortunate to have someone so wonderful to care for you. I hope your happy memories of LaDean sustain you and comfort you in the days to come.

Jan 11, 2017 09:50 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

THANK YOU ALL so very much for responding and leaving such beautiful sentiments. My time here today has been very limited as I attempt to write the eulogy about her life before we put her to rest. She is terribly missed already. 

Jan 11, 2017 07:42 PM
James Dray
Fathom Realty - Bentonville, AR

Hi Wanda.  Such a tribute and I know from your heart.  Take care,  our thoughts will be with you and your family. 

Jan 12, 2017 02:36 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!

Hard to think she is no longer here on Earth James Dray. At the luncheon after the service, I kept looking around for her until catching myself. 

Jan 16, 2017 07:51 PM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Wanda -- a beautifully written post.  Your Mother-In-Law seems to have been a very special person and hopefully those wonderful memories will remind you of the good times you shared.  I'm very sorry for the loss to you and your family.   

Jan 16, 2017 10:09 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!

Thank you Michael Jacobs. The room was packed with people who knew and loved her and the heart-felt tributes spotlighted a lady who cannot be duplicated, replaced or forgotten. I so appreicate your kind words.  

Jan 16, 2017 07:53 PM