What does “Thinking outside the box,” look like?

What is a box?

     The box we are interested in today is the one the mind is too often trapped in----usually unaware, except for the weight of the heavy lid---or the lack of "light"ness.box   

According to Wikipedia:   "Box describes a variety of containers and receptacles...... A decorative box normally may be opened by raising, pulling, sliding or removing the lid, which may be hinged and/or fastened by a catch, clasp, lock, or adhesive tape. Whatever its shape or purpose or the material of which it is fashioned, it is the direct descendant of the chest, one of the most ancient articles of domestic furniture...... Objects are often placed inside boxes, for a variety of reasons."

     This sounds all too much like the mind.  This "chest" of drawers and hidden compartments that holds all the things of our lives that are often useless---much like the storage boxes in an attic---put there for a "variety of reasons."  You know the ones the rats have gotten into and smashed, eaten, or pissed on?

     Wouldn't it be nice if there were a "Black Box" that we could open up and see why we crashed so that it wouldn't happen again?

     How about a "Lock Box" that we could program to let us in at the appointed time?

     How about a "Glory Box" or "Hope Chest" so that when we got to where we were going we would have everything we need instead of all of the things we don't?  (Of course we would need a "Tool box" to open the Black Box and the Glory Box.)

     And it probably would take so much time we better bring along our "Lunch Box" as well.

     Since this is a home inspector's blog I suppose we will also need an "Electrical Box" so we can see what the hell we are doing---or in case we "blow a fuse."

     I think the real problem is, that when we try to open the box we call our mind, we think we are inside of XBox and we are loosing the game; or, we have opened "Pandora's box" and wish we had never begun.  I wonder how many people realize that among all of the "evils" present in Pandora's box there was also another evil---"Hope."  I like to think of hope as "frosting on a turd."  When something is really bad we sugar coat it---hoping that things will get better.  While hope may at times be a "necessary evil" it should in no way be mistaken as a way of life.  Sooner or later we have to deal with the way life is and move on.

     But thinking "outside" the box really doesn't have anything to do with any of these things.  It has to do with the space around whatever box it is---in spite of, or without regard for, the structure or context of the box itself.  It is letting the box contain what it contains while we dance around it causing it to transform (or be forgotten) from the outside in----instead of from the inside out. 

     It is very difficult to Box your way out of the Box.

Charles Buell 

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10 Comments on What does “Thinking outside the box,” look like?

Buell - thinking outside the box is thinking outside the bun:-)

05/08/2008 10:13 AM by Peter Z. Nikic


Charles - What a wonderful post.  And if I may get somewhat political, when you speak of hope being a necessary evil - folks should remember this when they are listening to a particular presidential candidate frequently use that word in his speeches.   Just something to think about. :)   Thanks for this post.

05/08/2008 10:48 AM by Kathy Scott | McHugh Realtors


Peter---good point---I think?

Kathy, thanks for your comment.  Since I started thinking about "hope" in this way I have been much more hopeful:)  Seriously though, it is amazing how much importance people place on hope and how little it actually accomplishes.  Are we going to just keep on doing everything possible----or hope it gets done?

05/08/2008 10:55 AM by Charles Buell, Seattle, WA, Home Inspector (Charles Buell Inspections.com)


HHHmmm, Interesting Box topic.

Sean Allen

05/08/2008 12:22 PM by International Financing Solutions


WOW, a very deep thinking post Charles.

Hope is or can be a sustaining force for someone in what would seem to be a Hopeless situation until the situation or individual changes.

Many people do throw this word around too much, and it has become Sugar coated crap.  But I believe that it has a much deeper need and use.

Thinking outside the box is hard.  Humans are usually very closed minded beings.  My box doesn't fit your box, so I want you in my box.

Great post, I find you to be very a thoughtful man and very thought provoking as well, thank you for that. 

05/08/2008 07:04 PM by David Holden DRH Home Inspection Akron, Ohio Summit (DRH Home Inspection Akron, Ohio Summit County Home Inspector)


Sean, good to see you coming by

David, wouldn't it be nice if we could all dance together outside of our boxes?

05/08/2008 07:38 PM by Charles Buell, Seattle, WA, Home Inspector (Charles Buell Inspections.com)


Deep subject Charles. You forgot to mention the "Soap Box" - LOL

05/09/2008 07:34 AM by Michael Thornton - Nashville, TN area Home Inspector (Complete Home Inspections, Inc.)


Charlie,

Thanks for setting us straight with your comment on my blog re the AR troubles yesterday.  I came over to reciprocate, and to check out your emoticons.  The blog post was interesting as usual, a testament to your writing skills, but no emoticons!?

Mike in Tucson

05/10/2008 09:19 AM by Mike Jones (Tucson Mortgage Company, LLC)


Michael, there are so many different kinds of "boxes" we can get into (and on) isn't there?

Mike, thanks for stopping by, guess I should add that I don't use the emoticons all the timesunsmile

 

05/10/2008 09:29 AM by Charles Buell, Seattle, WA, Home Inspector (Charles Buell Inspections.com)


I like them, though!  You're the only person on AR to do this.  Thanks for responding to my comment.

05/10/2008 10:44 AM by Mike Jones (Tucson Mortgage Company, LLC)


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