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Keeping Calm: Strategies for Reducing Buyer Stress

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Keeping Calm: Strategies for Reducing Buyer Stress

In a fast-paced market, emotions can easily run high. In this kind of market, buyers can quickly start feeling defeated - the possibility of winning in a multiple-offer can seem next to impossible. When this happens, it is critical that agents reflect on how they can keep their buyer both objective and calm so that they can make smart and effective decisions on their next offer.

Here are four ideas that will help your buyers keep a level head throughout the home search.

Educate Your Buyer
Showing buyers list prices for homes comparable to their housing goal is not enough. Educate your buyers on what the probable selling price of homes where they are looking. This is essential to helping them be more realistic about what they can truly buy. The better your buyer understands the market, the easier you will be able to work with them as a team.

Think Outside the Box
Buyers often mistakenly and easily believe that price and contingencies are the only points for negotiation. Help position them for success in their next offer by coming up with creative options that make their offer stick out and give them an advantage. For example, offer:

  • A more flexible closing period.
  • To remove the seller's garbage.
  • A rent back agreement.
  • Upkeep on the property's lawn until closing.

Change Your Target
Buyers can only afford what they can afford. Having them look and compete in a price range that they aren't likely to win in is both cruel and unprofessional. Counsel your buyers on how different price brackets are behaving in terms of days-on-market and if multiple offers are coming into play. Help them set the right expectations and position for success. They may need to look at a different neighborhood or housing product that has a more generous days-on-market if they have trouble acting quickly. They may need to compete at a lower price bracket if their purchase offers are being rejected over and over.

Keep Perspective
It is imperative that agents keep the buyer's emotions intact. You need to show them that they are not the only ones experiencing these challenges. Show them a spreadsheet of past properties that have closed with listing and closed prices. This shows them how many properties have sold above list price so that they don't feel alone. The more your buyer understands the market, the more likely that they will remain calm.

Every buyer's needs are different and to keep them calm you need to give them what they need. For some buyers, it may be more communication. Others may need more information. Some will need extra hand-holding. Others need education to correct their expectations. Figure out what they need - that is your job!

In a sellers' market, don't forget that the most important thing the buyer needs from you, is your knowledge, direction and most of all communication.

 

By Denise Lones CSP, M.I.R.M., CDEI - The founding partner of The Lones Group, Denise Lones, brings over two decades of experience in the real estate industry. With expertise in strategic marketing, business analysis, branding, new home project planning, product development, and agent/broker training, Denise is nationally recognized as the source for all things real estate. With a passion for improvement, Denise has helped thousands of real estate agents, brokers, and managers build their business to unprecedented levels of success, while helping them maintain balance and quality of life.

The Lones Group, Inc.

Comments(8)

William Feela
WHISPERING PINES REALTY - North Branch, MN
Realtor, Whispering Pines Realty 651-674-5999 No.

WE need to stay calm at all costs and the will help keep our clients calm also

Mar 24, 2017 09:32 AM
Denise Lones

Agreed. Best way to have the confidence and sense of control too is for the agent to have mastered knowledge of what's happening in their local market. Know those absorption rates, know what's happening in development, and know how product is moving. It's not just good service for your client or good for the agent's confidence, it keeps an agent from being caught by surprise when the market shifts too. Thank you for your comment William! - Denise

Mar 24, 2017 12:27 PM
Li Read
Sea to Sky Premier Properties (Salt Spring) - Salt Spring Island, BC
Caring expertise...knowledge for you!

Wise words all...especially that "change the target" concept.   Always appreciate your savvy posts.

Mar 24, 2017 09:54 AM
Denise Lones

Thank you Li. I'm grateful how you always take a moment to leave a comment. Thank you for the smile today! - Denise

Mar 24, 2017 12:23 PM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

Multiple offer situations bring out the worst in people, agents and buyers alike. It is a stressful time and staying calm and focused and having a positive attitude will help your buyers move through the process. You offer some great advice and it is not always about the price.

Mar 24, 2017 02:37 PM
Kimo Jarrett
Cyber Properties - Huntington Beach, CA
Pro Lifestyle Solutions

Buyers should know about the market area, valuation and projected future trends to justify and quantify an offer to buy from their agent. Are your buyers willing to pay a premium to buy into a highly desirable neighborhood or compete to win if multiple offers are being submitted?  

Informing your buyers about the process and expectations will be determined by their candid discussions about these questions and other issues which should eliminate any anxiety and stress. Serious buyers IMO have no stress because they already know they have the means to buy what they want, isn't that true? Buy what you can afford to buy, that's the key to sold.

Mar 25, 2017 03:06 AM
Donna & Larry Johnson
Keller Williams Real Estate - West Chester, PA
Chester & Delaware County

As a Realtor you can set the tone for your clients. They always look to you for guidance from start to finish. If you stay calm they will also.

Mar 25, 2017 05:59 AM
Sarah Rummage
Benchmark Realty LLC, Nashville TN 615.516.5233 - Nashville, TN
Love Being Realtor® in the Nashville TN Area!

Always be calm with fellow Realtors and be professional.....easy to work with. If listing agent has confidence in you, the buyer's agent, that you will pull your load, be fair to all, follow deadlines, etc., that can go a long way in getting your offer accepted. The seller might take a chance on a sloppy agent in down times, but in multiple offers now, the buyer's agent can make almost as big an influence on offer acceptance as buyer's qualifications and offer details. 

Mar 25, 2017 06:32 AM
John Wiley
Fort Myers, FL
Lee County, FL, ECO Broker, GRI, SRES,GREEN,PSA

Great tips.

If, as an agent, we are educated about the market and the process, we can provide the guidance to the consumer that will help their stress level decrease.

I know that is my goal.

Thanks

Mar 25, 2017 08:57 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Hi Denise- these are excellent ways to help buyers reduce their stress.  The more you educate and prepare your buyers for what might happen, the less they'll feel the stress that comes from not knowing or the unexpected. 

Mar 26, 2017 12:31 PM