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Tagging gone wrong! Why deface and disgrace those that protect and served with their lives?

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Managing Real Estate Broker with Flexit Realty "Flexible Home Selling Solutions"

I usually do not take a stand on any issues that could be inflammatory or create ill will or discomfort for others...but I have an issue that has been smoldering for months.  Today a judge settled the issue but in my mind didn't take the penalty far enough.

I know that kids do dumb things...they are kids...  Teenagers can do some pretty incredible thinwar memorialgs in the name of being young, not knowing, didn't understand all those excuses.

We had a teenage "art student" write (spray paint) graffiti on the engraved names of dead soldiers at our downtown Veterans Memorial Park.  I have a hard time understanding why anyone would deface and disgrace those that protect and served with their lives.

I hear this freedom of speech issues which I enjoy by being able to post.  I was a wild child of the 60's...I served in Vietnam...I came back much different from who I was when I went...but I also had and have values.

The judge might have called him a disgrace big deal.  The kid laughs as he goes out of the court room.  The judge assigned him to community service...on Wednesday's this park is transformed into a lunch line for homeless and displaced people.  They are given hot dogs, nearly 700 handed out last week.  My father-in-law is know as the "Hot Dog Man", he and his wife hand out hot dogs every Wednesday without fail.  The homeless know him by and name and he knows theirs too!

The teenager was given another assignment...write a biography about one of the soldiers whose name he defaced.  I would have liked to see him write about each of the names not just one.  I would also like to see him clean graffiti from area all around where he did this.  That is just me...I want him to get a sense of pride and understanding that these people died for his freedom and mine.

I am just a wee bit irritated with the insignificance that the teenager placed on the act as "no big deal"!

Thanks for letting me have the soap box for one post.

Jim Albano
Prudential Damiano Realty - Little Falls, NJ
Team - Jean-Marie Vantuno / Realtors North Jersey Real Estate

Gary, incidents like these are disturbing to me too. You have to wonder where his lack of values comes from. My parents instilled in me that I not only had to respect my own property, but especially had to respect other peoples property. Those values seem to be overwhelmingly lacking in today's society. Not a good sign. And the fact that there is little consequence for actions such as this young mans doesn't bode well for the future.

May 10, 2008 02:48 PM
Gary White~Grand Rapids Home Selling Pro Call: 616-821-9375
Flexit Realty "Flexible Home Selling Solutions" - Grand Rapids, MI
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Hi Jim, I have to agree...down the road issues can change to bigger and more menacing.  Thanks for the comments Jim.

May 10, 2008 03:00 PM
Karen Webster...Grand Rapids, MI Realtor
5 Star Real Estate, Grand Rapids MI - Grand Rapids, MI

I think the judge was brilliant for sentencing outside the box..  THINK about what you did, junior.  Write about one of the heroes whose name you defaced.  I believe he also paid cleanup costs and he's volunteering at the vet's home.

May 10, 2008 03:24 PM
Adam Brett
The Adam and Eric Group - Fullerton, CA
The Adam and Eric Group, Fullerton's Finest

If I saw this happening I would take action - and I would be hard pressed to find a jury of 12 people to convict me for beating them within an inch of their lives.

May 10, 2008 03:28 PM
Gary White~Grand Rapids Home Selling Pro Call: 616-821-9375
Flexit Realty "Flexible Home Selling Solutions" - Grand Rapids, MI
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Hi Karen, you are right about him paying for the clean-up costs...I liked the biography of one of them but I would have liked to see the biography of all of them....that would have given a sense of the diversity of the people that defend out country.  Thanks for the comments Karen...I see you moving up on the list!  Nice job. 

May 10, 2008 03:38 PM
Gary White~Grand Rapids Home Selling Pro Call: 616-821-9375
Flexit Realty "Flexible Home Selling Solutions" - Grand Rapids, MI
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Hi Adam, vets have a little different outlook on things like this.  I served in a Recon unit in Vietnam...I walk around with some foreign metal every day as a reminder.  Thanks for your comments Adam.  You are probably right...you could find twelve to say much more than thank you.

May 10, 2008 03:41 PM
Tony & Darcy Cannon
Aubrey and Associates Realty - Layton, UT
The C Team

Gary, You are so right, the Freedom of Speech should not include destruction!  If ever there was a senseless act, this is it.  It is a shame that someone that has that right given to them, thinks it's no big deal to deface a memorial to someone that guaranteed that right!  Kind of like biting that hand that feeds you!  I agree he should have done a biography of all those brave men who had their graves disfigured, not only that his parents should have done the same with no copying!

May 10, 2008 05:41 PM
Kris Wales
Keller Williams Realty - Lakeside Market Center - Macomb, MI
Real Estate Blog & Homes for Sale search site, Macomb County MI

It would have been fitting if the judge could have ordered him to serve 2 years in our armed forces..

This sickens me Gary.

May 10, 2008 11:01 PM
Gary White~Grand Rapids Home Selling Pro Call: 616-821-9375
Flexit Realty "Flexible Home Selling Solutions" - Grand Rapids, MI
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Hi Tony and Darcy, I never gave the parents a thought...this kid was a freshman in a local art college.  I do not know if he was living at home or away from home.  But the thought never crossed my mind.  Thanks for your comments.

May 11, 2008 12:06 AM
Gary White~Grand Rapids Home Selling Pro Call: 616-821-9375
Flexit Realty "Flexible Home Selling Solutions" - Grand Rapids, MI
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Hi Kris, I would have liked to have seen that happen too.  Then tell his fellow soldiers that he was forced to join for defacing a soldier's memorial.  I'll bet that would have gone over well!  Thanks for the comments Kris.

May 11, 2008 12:08 AM
Gary L. Waters Broker Associate, Bucci Realty
Bucci Realty, Inc. - Melbourne, FL
Eighteen Years Experience in Brevard County

Gary - I would be outraged as well. What is wrong with a little respect for those who have served and given so much?  How about a little respect for someone else's property? 

May 11, 2008 01:19 AM