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Free Speech. Am I On The Wrong Wavelength?

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with Daytona Condo Realty, 386-405-4408

Cheri' Smith wrote a blog about Arianna Huffington

I heard about Arianna and her statements on Fox News, but I have to acknowledge my ignorance: I never heard the lady, or read what she writes. What surprised me, however, was a single phrase suggesting that Arianna Huffington "can take her liberal ideas back to Greece".

I perfectly understand that we all want the best for the country, we simply may see this best differently. The idea of getting rid of unwanted (a purge) is not something new under the sun, it is a stepstone to the ideology. Purist ideology of righteous people. Sounds so familiar...

I came from another country, and the notion of tolerance is the toughest for me. I was not born with it, I was not raised with it, it is a concerted effort on my side to embrace it, and it does not come naturally and it is not easy. Cheri' also lived in another country and is familiar with lack of freedom there. That's why it was even more surprising that she was defending the ways of ... these other countries.

I am stealing from my own comment, but I simply think that this is important.

If you are not ready to die for the right of people to express themselves, even if you do not share their views, you are not in America, because this is what makes it America. I did not make it up, this is a loose quote of so many, that I dare say this is a quote of the Americans.

So, please help me to understand whether free speech is still the American pride or just a prejudice? I thought it was a very bothering idea, but the commenters did not seem to mind it.

I am not defending or attacking Arianna Huffington here. I am defending THE BASIC RIGHT OF AMERICANS TO DISSENT.

Am I really on a wrong wavelength?

FYI. The last guy who got the closest to purist society was Adolf Hitler.

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Israel Barden
RE/MAX Big Bear Village - Big Bear Lake, CA

You have Arianna Huffington on one side and across from her is Ann Coulter. I don't like either one, but I believe to the depths of my soul that they have an inherent right to speak their minds. To do away with dissenting opinions, is the heart of Fascism. If the predations of radical Islam cost us our freedoms,they have already won a great victory.

May 12, 2008 07:00 AM
Jon Zolsky, Daytona Beach, FL
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Karen - I am not good with the associations, and groups. I guess I understadn what you mean, but the consolation is that I am not vying for any public office, and may escape the scrutiny.

In that sense silent majority is like life, you have different people around you, sometimes nice, sometimes not.

If what I write is liked - fine, if not... also fine.

Do you think that I need to angrily leave the group if I do not agree with someone's opinion?

May 12, 2008 01:34 PM
Jon Zolsky, Daytona Beach, FL
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Lisa - would be nice if we could maintain this "middle of the road" stance. Did we get to the point that only the events like September 11 unite us? That's sad.

 

May 12, 2008 02:02 PM
Jon Zolsky, Daytona Beach, FL
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Israel- It is tough to tolerate what some people say. It is tempting to shut someone, or to tell them to go away...

But we can't afford it for our own sake

May 12, 2008 02:14 PM
Karen Webster...Grand Rapids, MI Realtor
5 Star Real Estate, Grand Rapids MI - Grand Rapids, MI

Jon, it seems to me you are an intelligent, logical guy with well-thought-out answers that make a lot of sense.  You also have life experiences that make your viewpoint even more valuable.

I was just surprised to see your post in that group.  I wish you well whatever you decide to do. 

I made my first trip to Europe last summer (daughter in Peace Corps Romania).  Besides Romania, we visited Hungary and Austria.  I have a Masters degree, so I'm not stupid, but I had NO CLUE what people in those countries have been through.  Hero's Square in Bucharest where dissenters were gunned down.  Terror Museum in Budapest where people were detained for no reason, tortured, killed, sent to work camps.  These stories were not part of my education.  Maybe we learned the dates of pertinent events but nothing about what life was really like for the people. 

I can understand why zealots make you nervous.

May 12, 2008 02:32 PM
John Hersey
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices Homesale Realty - York, PA
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Jon,

Good post, I always like to hear what you have to say and I have told you that before.

Karen,

I am part of THAT group!  I have no problem with Jon and I don't think he has one with me.  Everyone has opinions and beliefs that differ from others.  I have a feeling if I looked at some of the people you associate with through certain groups you belong to, I could say the same thing that you said above...

These are the people you're associating yourself with in the silent majority group. 

Does that feel comfortable to you?

I have not been involved at all with that discussion but that does not mean I don't agree or disagree with parts of it, I just haven't had time to go through all of it and post.  I don't think it is fair that you try to put people into groups when you do not even know half of the group.

 

May 12, 2008 02:56 PM
Karen Webster...Grand Rapids, MI Realtor
5 Star Real Estate, Grand Rapids MI - Grand Rapids, MI

John, the fact that Cheri's post was FEATURED as the shining example of what the group aspires to puts it in a different category from, "Well, jeez, it's a big group.  It's not fair to draw conclusions when you don't know half the people in it."  

Do yourself a favor and read the post and all of her responses.  You might view this comment of mine differently. 

May 12, 2008 03:19 PM
Jon Zolsky, Daytona Beach, FL
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Karen - I went back to that post and read carefully all 85 comments. Even wanted to leave another comment, but it is over, Cheri' got tired fighting and told us "no more".

It s a sad story when a person refuses to acknowledge a mistake, a slip, a lightheaded statement, and it all escalated into a grumpy debate over floating issue, which suddenly, according to Cheri', became a debate about the religion, which is a surprise to me.

As for the group, for me this is a place where I post (and a few others). I do find some of the stuff here offensive, so I do not comment, or jump and object. As you certainly understand, this is anonymous, as we are all behind computers, so I do not feel like I am part of any group, meaning that I have to adhere to certain group policy, and that we all have certain group mentality.

I am sure you saw something in Eastern Europe, that was shocking. I already understand that Americans in general do not know that much about what was happening there, and what is still happening in North Korea, Cuba and other places.

As a nation, Americans tend to assume that the world is either like us, or wants (and ready) to be like us provided they have a chance. I think a lot of problems in American foreign policy stems from these assumptions.

May 12, 2008 03:37 PM
Jon Zolsky, Daytona Beach, FL
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John - thanks for stopping by.

 

May 12, 2008 03:45 PM
Hugh Krone
Weichert Referral Associates - Hamburg, NJ
Realtor, Sussex County NJ

Jon I always respect your opinion even when I don't agree .You made some  valid points in Cheri's blog and it probably would have stayed civil except the attack Libs went straight for her morals and beliefs. I do understand where you were coming from but i still agree with Cheri. I know its hard for most people to understand but i believe our life here is but a short time and  Eternity is forever.

May 12, 2008 03:52 PM
Jon Zolsky, Daytona Beach, FL
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Hugh - with all due respect, Hue, it was not about religion. And her post was not about the religion. She draw religion as a defence.

And again, I think this was a lighthearted statement, which she chose to defend. This could not work. What then is the difference with Rev. Wright, where he blames America for everything that she does or does not?

Religion is not a defence of conveninece, as Christ would not silence people, and would not alienate them...

I did not take some of her comments personally. I am an atheist, always was like everyone else in the Soviet Union. Right now a lot of Russians claim they became religious, but it would be better to say that they are trying to fill the void and replace the ideology with religion. I just stay the way I was.

So, all references to decency and morality as derivative from religion did not play well with me. I do not know anything about religion, but I respect the beliefs of others, or, better say, the mere fact that they believe. Those who are not the believers  deserve the same. Whether they get to hell or not is up to higher authorities.

I really do think that Cheri's pastor would have had a lot of issues with her comment.

 

May 13, 2008 01:21 AM
Karen Webster...Grand Rapids, MI Realtor
5 Star Real Estate, Grand Rapids MI - Grand Rapids, MI

No, Jon, it was not originally about religion.  You were the first reply that gently questioned Cheri's viewpoint and she shot you down with both barrels.  Then she made it about religion and proceeded to try to convince us (herself?) she's holier than any of us and there's only one way to see things.

Wrong for so many reasons that I won't rehash here, but that's what she does. 

Her sniping at your English was unforgivable.  Hey, hers isn't perfect.

You're right, Christ wouldn't silence people.  Someone, at the end of the comments, stated that Cheri is seeing things through God's eyes and implied that the problem is that the rest of us don't get it.  Oh, please.  Ridiculous.  Whatever happened to love thy neighbor?  For that matter, why doesn't she turn the other cheek?  Let alone judge not lest ye be judged.

She can believe whatever she wants, I have a problem when she makes vicious attacks on anybody who's not in lockstep with her.  Because THEY can also believe whatever THEY want.  That's how it works.

I don't think she did any good for the cause of conservatism, to put it mildly.

The description of the Silent Majority group says liberals are welcomed with open arms.  Not seein' it, guys.

May 13, 2008 10:15 AM
» Bill Burress Nationwide Mortgage Originator
» Bill Burress Nationwide Mortgage Originator - Fort Myers, FL

Karen W:

You wrote, ".....the fact that Cheri's post was FEATURED as the shining example of what the group aspires to puts it in a different category from, "Well, jeez, it's a big group.  It's not fair to draw conclusions when you don't know half the people in it."  

I am the one who featured Cheri's post. 

I thought you were trying to make arguments for free speech. With this comment, it seems you are trying to diminish what Cheri is trying to say in her post or perhaps silence her, then you peck at Jon for being a Silent Majority member.  I personally invited Jon to Silent Majority and consider him a tremendous asset to our group. How dare you try to get him to drop out of Silent Majority Group just because you disagree with one of our member's posts.

You seem to have become a proponent of what you are protesting so vehemently against, which is censorship. 

 

May 13, 2008 10:21 AM
» Bill Burress Nationwide Mortgage Originator
» Bill Burress Nationwide Mortgage Originator - Fort Myers, FL

Karen:

You said, "The description of the Silent Majority group says liberals are welcomed with open arms.  Not seein' it, guys."

 FYI: There are liberals that are members of Silent Majority.  You'd be very surprised.  With a group that is one of the most active groups on ActiveRain it's hard for anyone to stay away.  Like one liberal said, "It's like watching a train wreck.  You don't want to look but you do."

May 13, 2008 10:26 AM
William J. Archambault, Jr.
The Real Estate Investment Institute - Houston, TX

Bill B.,

Thank you for sticking up for Jon!

If people would only read his profile and his bolgs they'd know this is an American! I'm as conservative as anyone should get and I'm proud to know of him. I tried to tell him, but he didn't answer his phone. Something for another day.

As for some strange wording it's fun, and who am I to talk? At least he spells it right, which is more than I can say.

These attackers claiming to be conservative and Christian are an embarrassment. No one in there right mind has ever vote Democrat, but reading these self apointed judges lets you understand how sane people could vote against them.

Let me stand with the guy, with the strange words and noble ideas every time!

 

Bill

May 13, 2008 10:45 AM
Karen Webster...Grand Rapids, MI Realtor
5 Star Real Estate, Grand Rapids MI - Grand Rapids, MI

Let me stand with Jon as well.  I like what I've seen from him.  I've defended him above.   

You know what, Bill B?  You're entitled to your opinion.  As is Cheri, Jon and everybody else in this wonderful country.  As am I.  I'm not trying to silence anyone.  I'm just not agreeing.  Big difference.  Also not spewing venom at anyone who disagrees with me.

I'm also not saying "How dare you..." anything.  Now, THAT would be squelching freedom of speech, right?

P.S. I knew you featured Cheri.

William Archambault, YOU understand!

Gonna go watch American Idol.  Peace.

May 13, 2008 12:44 PM
Jon Zolsky, Daytona Beach, FL
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Karen - Thank you for your so well thought comment. Your assessment of Cheri's claims for sainthood are absolutely correct IMO.

As for me "gently" questioning, I was caught napping. I was reading the post, then I was reading the comments, and suddenly I lost confidence. Just for a moment, but I asked myself whether what I read, heard and started believing in was just a smokescreen...

For that short moment I felt very uncomfortable. Usually sensitive Americans seemed OK with this statement about sending unclean to other pastures. I was in disbelief, I thought this was a joke gone a bit far, and I thought she would acknowledge it. She didn't. But I needed the answer for myself.

So, I posted the same question in this blog. Then there were numerous comments on Cheri' blog and then it simply escalated.

As for English, I think Cheri' jumped not on me, but on Simon, which is really funny, as Simon is from England.

With me that would be simply stating the fact, and I wouldn't mind it, absolutely not. But Simon is a different story, so he got offended and made a shot to linguistic knighthood himself claiming that he has perfect English. Even my 16-year old grandson says he is "near perfect". But this happened when it was no longer a debate, but an artillery duel at full force, when everything is loud, and the shades disappear...

I am grateful to everyone who commented. I got the answers that I needed.

May 13, 2008 01:43 PM
Jon Zolsky, Daytona Beach, FL
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Bill - I did not know I was attacked, especially by Karen, but I appreciate your kind words very much. I am awfully sorry for the phone call not being returned, I spend the whole day with a client from El Salvador, and this is a client who came to us of the Internet, and, what is even more impressive, after reading my blog on AR. And this is flattering.

So, I owe you a phone call. Even though with my English one of us (not necessarily at the same time) may have difficulty understanding each other.

I still write better than I speak

May 13, 2008 02:15 PM
Jon Zolsky, Daytona Beach, FL
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Bill B - I wrote a comment, clicked submit, and after a while it returned an error page, and the comment was gone. Happens more often lately.

Anyway, I just wanted to say that I have accepted the invitation. I saw some interesting people here, and I am watching some of them.

Do I agree with everything here? No. Do I like everything that is said here? No. By the same token I am sure not everybody liked what I wrote, and I am sure some people were angry with my comments. Well, this is life.

On a personal note I think it is easier to listen to people when they speak, not when they scream. But this is an art and I am for one is not the master of it.

As for featured post (Cheri's), I did not pay attention to it. I am invited to a party, and I am not the one who sets the rules. I do not know the criteria for feauture, not do I care much about it.

 

May 13, 2008 02:52 PM
» Bill Burress Nationwide Mortgage Originator
» Bill Burress Nationwide Mortgage Originator - Fort Myers, FL

Jon:

Thanks for your kind words.  I very much like your contributions to Silent Majority.  Again, though we don't always see eye to eye (it would be scary if we did), I like reading your posts which are usually very heart felt.  It is quite fascinating to see your perspective as an immigrant to America.  Myself, being born here, there are too many things I take for granted in this great country.

 

May 14, 2008 12:47 AM