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My Work Life Balance Equates To a Stroll On A Balance Beam Blindfolded

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The Challenge of Work-Life Balance is one that I “tolerate” every day.  I market for a team, and they are a new team with a “well-known name” for a team name.  For that, I’m thankful, because my job would be 10 fold what it is now. 

 

 

My marketing is now and will be intense for the remainder of 2017.  I market every day and take very little time for myself. Last year, my life was very balanced with working everyday but having many hours to do what I love to do.

My passion is strength training in preparation for heavy weightlifting.  It takes focus, clean eating and proper attention to strengthening every muscle every week. My age doesn’t make it any easier. I’m 70, and it’s more difficult for muscles to respond as quickly as those in a 30 year old body.

 

 

What I’ve done, to make my life a bit easier, is provide an area in my basement for additional workouts.  When and if I feel I need it to clear my head and/or work additional time to complement the early morning workout, it’s there. It’s worked well for me. I used it often in the winter months.

I consider this year a year of “biting the bullet.” I’ve pulled all stops this year, and I “market like I mean it.”  It’s almost as a machine would work, but I continue to remind myself that it’s only this year.  I can say that with confidence because we have subdivisions in a variety of stages.  One is closing tomorrow; another is going before planning board; and another we are negotiating but it’s all approved! Next year, we will be well on our way to having a productive year without my working around the clock.

 

Next year, my personal goal is to compete with my age group. I don’t imagine there will be too many 71 year olds lifting hundreds of pounds, but that age group may be 50 year olds with whom I compete.  I don’t know where the cut-off is.

 

Those are my thoughts, and the summary of my current work-life balance.  There IS light at the end of the tunnel, and for that, I’m thankful.

 

This is an entry to Jeff Dowler’s challenge.

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Barbara Todaro, Great Grandmother to Caleb, Santino, Aiden and Gianni       

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Comments(28)

Barbara Todaro
RE/MAX Executive Realty - Happily Retired - Franklin, MA
Previously Affiliated with The Todaro Team

I'm so thankful for that Sheila Anderson ....beats a straight jacket!!

May 04, 2017 01:45 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

BarbaraT- you are a force of nature and I have no doubt that you will compete and shine in the competition for your age group...and probably in the 50's group as well.  

May 04, 2017 01:55 PM
Barbara Todaro
RE/MAX Executive Realty - Happily Retired - Franklin, MA
Previously Affiliated with The Todaro Team

I get tense just thinking about it....very exciting Kathy Streib ...hope it happens....

May 04, 2017 02:56 PM
Myrl Jeffcoat
Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Realtor - Retired

If I had to attempt a try at lifting that weight, Barbara, my hands would be securely wrapped around that bar, which would be permanently cemented to the floor!

May 04, 2017 03:19 PM
Barbara Todaro
RE/MAX Executive Realty - Happily Retired - Franklin, MA
Previously Affiliated with The Todaro Team

Myrl Jeffcoat when I first lifted, I had all I could do to lift the 45 pound bar with no weights on it.... I thought it was outrageously heavy for a small woman to be lifting .... I trained every week and after two weeks of constant strength training, I added 5 pounds to the bar....I kept doing that for a year....faithfully.... and ate clean every day.... I'm now working on my 205 pound lift.... I'll be doing it very soon....maybe next week...then I'm on to 210....at 250, I'll be ready to compete....

May 04, 2017 03:27 PM
Pat Starnes-Front Gate Realty
Front Gate Real Estate - Brandon, MS
601-991-2900 Office; 601-278-4513 Cell

Your title is hysterical; I had to read your post. One can imagine a stroll on a balance beam blindfolded would be quite the challenge! Couple your marketing with your passion for weight-lifting and you are one BUSY woman.

May 04, 2017 05:51 PM
Barbara Todaro
RE/MAX Executive Realty - Happily Retired - Franklin, MA
Previously Affiliated with The Todaro Team

Hi Pat Starnes I thought it was a  perfect description.... 

May 04, 2017 05:56 PM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
Probate Real Estate Services

Barbara, I imagine professional balance beam gymnasts can stroll and flip blindfolded.  That is what practice to perfection creates ... the ability to do a job with our eyes closes.  Fun read. 

May 04, 2017 06:11 PM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hi Barbara -- you show us that anything is possible with proper preparation, consistency and determination.  Over and over and over again.  

May 05, 2017 06:30 AM
Barbara Todaro
RE/MAX Executive Realty - Happily Retired - Franklin, MA
Previously Affiliated with The Todaro Team

Kathleen Daniels the emphasis is on "professional".... I need both eyes wide open and focused no matter what the task may be.... 

May 05, 2017 06:32 AM
Barbara Todaro
RE/MAX Executive Realty - Happily Retired - Franklin, MA
Previously Affiliated with The Todaro Team

Hi Michael Jacobs and add to all of that focus and discipline.... 

May 05, 2017 06:33 AM
Jane Chaulklin-Schott
TEAMCONNECT REALTY - (407) 394-9766 - Orlando, FL
TeamConnect Luxury Homes - Orlando, Florida, 32836

Barbara Todaro, I believe I am in sync with the comment of Myrl Jeffcoat who says it so perfectly for me.  Hahaha !  "... my hands would be securely wrapped around that bar, which would be permanently cemented to the floor."

May 05, 2017 10:14 AM
Barbara Todaro
RE/MAX Executive Realty - Happily Retired - Franklin, MA
Previously Affiliated with The Todaro Team

Jane Chaulklin-Schott I could train both of you and you'd be lifting small vehicle....

May 05, 2017 10:35 AM
Chris Ann Cleland
Long and Foster Real Estate - Gainesville, VA
Associate Broker, Bristow, VA

Sounds like there is change happening in Franklin and you are putting in extra hours to market appropriately.  

May 05, 2017 10:42 AM
Barbara Todaro
RE/MAX Executive Realty - Happily Retired - Franklin, MA
Previously Affiliated with The Todaro Team

Chris Ann Cleland we have many subdivisions coming....I need to keep searching for land....

May 05, 2017 11:02 AM
Hella M. Rothwell, Broker/Realtor®
Carmel by the Sea, CA
Rothwell Realty Inc. CA#01968433 Carmel-by-the-Sea

Barbara: I totally admire your dedication to your health and fitness. I'm all over the lot, used to go to the gym and thoroughly enjoyed it, then got into jogging. Have always played a lot of tennis. When I'm in Hawaii, I do a lot of swimming and snorkeling. Here in Carmel-by-the-Sea, I do a lot of walking, it's just that kind of town. It seems to be my MO that wherever I go, I will get a lot of exercise, but am not sticking to one thing. Same with real estate, I do all kinds, in 2 states. I get bored easily, need daily challenges. Guess that's what my contest entry should be about.

May 07, 2017 10:47 PM
Barbara Todaro
RE/MAX Executive Realty - Happily Retired - Franklin, MA
Previously Affiliated with The Todaro Team

Hella M. Rothwell, Broker/Realtor® I just read and commented on your contest entry....I loved it....  you're a constantly moving force... 

May 08, 2017 03:11 AM
Mick Michaud
Distinctly Texas Lifestyle Properties, LLC Office:682/498-3107 - Granbury, TX
Your Texas Lifestyle is Here!

I'm impressed!  Looks like you will give Jack Lelane a run for his money on his longevity in the health/fitness/training area.  He was at it into his late 80's or 90's. 

May 08, 2017 07:55 AM
Kasey & John Boles
Jon Gosche Real Estate, LLC - BoiseMeridianRealEstate.com - Boise, ID
Boise & Meridian, ID Ada/Canyon/Gem/Boise Counties

You are a workhorse Barbara.  I love your title and I love the photo! -Kasey

May 10, 2017 07:32 PM
Hannah Williams
HomeStarr Realty - Philadelphia, PA
Expertise NE Philadelphia & Bucks 215-820-3376

Good for you Barbara Todaro everyone should have something they love to do and you certainly do

May 11, 2017 08:41 AM