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Tenacity and adapting can get you through it!

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Real Estate Agent with Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 UT DRE# 6541633-SA00

Tenacity and adapting can get you through it!

 

Growing up poor wasn't a choice, it was simply circumstances and environment. As a child, I endured bullying by other kids due to being different than them and yearned for the normalcy that other kids experienced.

 

While physically small, I more than make up for that in tenacity. From a young age, I learned about how important a determined work ethic played in earning a good living. 

 

As a teen, I continuously fought off old, familiar feelings of shame, low self-esteem knowing I wanted a better life. When taking a job, I gave it everything and more. If I delivered auto parts, I was the VERY BEST at that job! When one thing didn't work, I adapted, trying something else.

 

Tenacity and adapting still plays a large part in my personal life and daily business. Knowing that family members and clients depend on me constantly motivates me forward, towards success.

 

A weakness is the inability to hide how I feel inwardly toward overly bearing, bully-type people. My face is very telling, body language and by then the other party knows full well. The built-up tolerance for pompous, self-entitled people who strong-arm others has waned through the years.

 

Those who bully as children often grow up to be worse. They seek out targets and then act. Glad to be in an industry where I can make the choice about who I work with day, day out and to surround myself with positive, motivated people who treat others with The Golden Rule.

 

Yes, it still exists, thankfully!

 

We can all make a HUGE impact in people's lives in small ways without necessarily going BIG and BOLD.

 

This is an entry to: Strengths Vs Weakness: An ActiveRain Challenge by Carol Williams .

 

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Buying or selling a home in southern Utah? Call me at 435.632.9374 or contact me at wanda@buynsellutah.com to help because Wanda Can!

 

 

A portion of every successful real estate transaction goes to Bed 'n' Biscuits to help fund Switchpoint, a local homeless shelter.

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Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

Thank you so much for your support Sheri Sperry - MCNE®! I do like your new profile pic, you look beautiful.

May 27, 2017 05:15 PM
Myrl Jeffcoat
Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Realtor - Retired

There is a Clint Eastwood line from the movie, "Heartbreak Ridge."  It is "Improvise, Adapt, Overcome."

May 27, 2017 05:15 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

You are very kind Alexandra of Ron and Alexandra Seigel. Everything that has happens up to this moment makes a person who they really wish to be. Going in a positive direction has been my life goal.

May 27, 2017 05:18 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

Sharon Lee, Thank you so much. We are alike in many ways! 

May 27, 2017 05:19 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

Had a time trying to find the right approach to avoid sounding like a victim because THAT I am not! Wanted it to be inspiring and relatable. Thank you for stopping by and offering your view Jeff Dowler, much appreciated! 

May 27, 2017 05:21 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

Myrl Jeffcoat, Some days include all three in our industry simultaneously! It definitely is a realistic guideline to follow. 

May 27, 2017 05:23 PM
Myrl Jeffcoat
Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Realtor - Retired

Your childhood sounds a great deal like my own.  I was the tiniest kid in the class.  I think we do adapt and develop a little tenacity because of it!

May 27, 2017 07:10 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

It can take you to the darkest of places if you are unable to bounce back after being traumatized time and again Myrl Jeffcoat. I chose to fight for my right to a good life! Looks like you have too.

May 27, 2017 07:17 PM
William Feela
WHISPERING PINES REALTY - North Branch, MN
Realtor, Whispering Pines Realty 651-674-5999 No.

We need to be head strong at times to get to the goal we have set

May 27, 2017 07:32 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

Yes we do William Feela, even if fear is pushing you back! Have a fantastic weekend.

May 27, 2017 07:35 PM
Debbie Reynolds, C21 Platinum Properties
Platinum Properties- (931)771-9070 - Clarksville, TN
The Dedicated Clarksville TN Realtor-(931)320-6730

The Golden Rule works well and only wish everyone used it as their guide. Have a good weekend, Wanda.

May 27, 2017 08:33 PM
James Dray
Fathom Realty - Bentonville, AR

Good morning Wanda.  I learned a long time ago to read peoples body, facial expression and the like.  Once someone has their mind made up just step back and enjoy

May 28, 2017 02:25 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

I'm also a Golden Rule proponent, Wanda and I think that's one thing that makes us both have little tolerance for pompous people!  Wonderful, heartfelt post, Wanda!

May 29, 2017 07:44 PM
Bob Crane
Woodland Management Service / Woodland Real Estate, KW Diversified - Stevens Point, WI
Forestland Experts! 715-204-9671

Thanks for sharing Wanda, it is important to sit down and evaluate ourselves once in a while.

bob

May 29, 2017 11:37 PM
Carol Williams
Although I'm retired, I love sharing my knowledge and learning from other real estate industry professionals. - Wenatchee, WA
Retired Agent / Broker / Prop. Mgr, Wenatchee, WA

Hi Wanda,
Thanks for sharing your story!  It sounds like you've learned to use the negative experiences of your childhood to your benefit and for the benefit of those you work with!  

May 30, 2017 06:25 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

What a world it would be Debbie Reynolds if that happened!

May 31, 2017 08:16 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

Body language is unspoken but is heard loud and clear James Dray!

May 31, 2017 08:20 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

Thank you so much Debe Maxwell, CRS. We can definitely use more of The Golden Rule in business!

May 31, 2017 08:21 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

Bob Crane, This challenge certainly did that for me!

May 31, 2017 08:21 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

Thank you Carol Williams for the 'thinking' challenge!

May 31, 2017 08:22 AM