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Another Way to Aid A Smoker

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Real Estate Agent with REMAX Platinum

The Mourning Dove Foundation is dedicated to the fight against Cancer.  This group recently introduced a new program. Please read the information below to learn more about it.

 

                                                                                        

                                      www.mourningdovefoundation.com

 FIRST ANNUAL SMOKER'S GIFT TO OUR LOVED ONES FROM "LOVELAND"

On December 3, 2006 we at The Michigan Group lost a member of our family, Vikki Loveland; to lung cancer. Vikki was 53. When she died, three children, eight grandchildren (there's a ninth one coming that she'll never see), and her soul mate of 35 years lost their "anchor". She also left four other "children" that called her "Mom" and twelve other "grandchildren" that called her "Grandma Vikki" behind.

In May of 2007 we named our area at the Brighton, Michigan area Relay For Life "Loveland" in Vikki's memory.

            Vikki was a smoker as was her husband. They both quit the day after she was diagnosed. They remained cigarette free for almost four years while she fought her cancer.

            In late May of 2006, after two major operations, two separate sessions of chemotherapy, and two separate sessions of radiation treatment; Vikki and her husband knew that it was a matter of time before the battle was over.

Vikki's biggest worry was for her family and their welfare after she was gone. She was always the family "anchor" while her husband was their "rock".

The last six months of her life was spent talking to her husband about what had to be done after she was gone.

During Vikki's final week, she and her husband discussed her fears about her family (and him). She asked him to promise her that he would take care of a number of her worries. Her husband kept every promise he made to her in the days before her death..............except for the one concerning her major worry about him.

In March of 2007, Art started smoking again.

This year on May 16th, (our local Relay for Life's starting date); Art is going to keep the only promise that he didn't keep to his soul-mate of 35 years while she was on her deathbed.

He is going to donate the money he would have spent for cigarettes (2 packs a day) for the first week he quits to The American Cancer Society. Members of his family are donating smaller amounts as a show of support.

If you smoke.... and have ever thought of quitting.... please join Art in both quitting and raising money for cancer research. Please give the ones that love you a gift from "Loveland" this year. Make the effort to quit smoking and, donate what you can..... up to what smoking would cost you for one week to The American Cancer Society. After one week, keep the money. You've earned it.

THIS FUNDRAISER IS OPEN TO ALL RELAY FOR LIFE TEAMS........EVERYWHERE.

TO START A NEW CHAIN EMAIL GO TO: www.mourningdovefoundation.com

DOWNLOAD THIS LETTER, "VIKKI", AND START YOUR OWN FUNDRAISER THROUGH EMAIL.

TO PARTICIPATE IN THIS FUNDRAISER GO TO:  www.mourningdovefoundation.com  AND CLICK ON ACS DONATIONS.  ALL DONATIONS GO TO THE AMERICAN CANCER SOCIETY. PLEASE HELP ALL OF US. SUPPORT THE WAR ON CANCER.

  

  

  

  

If you love someone that smokes, please tell them that you support them in their effort to quit and, as a show of support; sponsor them for one week May 16th thru May 25th.  It's tough to quit smoking. It's tougher to bury someone you love because of smoking. The money we raise may save their lives someday.     

Stop by and visit Team Loveland May 16-17 at the Brighton MI  Livingston County High School Track. 

This family fun-filled event is dedicated to wiping out Cancer!              

  

                                                                                                                       

  

                                                                                                                         

                                                                       

  

 

 

                                                                               

  

  

           

           

Comments (5)

BLR Guy
BLRGUY(Beach & Luxury Realty Inc) - Saint Pete Beach, FL

Smokers just don't realize that their addiction doesn't just hurt them...but everyone around them.

There isn't any benefit to smoking and only has negative affects....so,I will never understand why anyone would even start.It is beyond comprehension!

Nice post Mary!

May 11, 2008 11:46 PM
Linda Tremblay
Long & Foster Real Estate, Inc, PA License #AB065488 - Doylestown, PA
Associate Broker - Bucks County, PA Real Estate Services

Quitting smoking was the hardest thing I think I ever did.  I have been smoke free for at least 6 years after trying and failing numerous times.

May 11, 2008 11:50 PM
Dennis Sanchez
Coldwell Banker Tenafly - Hackensack, NJ

I heard quitting smoking is very very hard, that is why I never started, but I hope the people that started can somehow quit.

May 11, 2008 11:56 PM
Karen Gentry>>Charlottesville, Virginia Real Estate Professional
RE/MAX Excellence-Charlottesville VA - Charlottesville, VA

People who smoke know they are hurting themselves but they can not stop.  It is just like eating or breathing to them.  We need to help people never start so they will not be hooked to this terrible addition.  I have see people dying from cigarette damage, go out and light up.  It breaks my heart.  From watching others suffer, thankfully I have never wanted to smoke. I wish more people were smoke free.  Young people seem to be smoking more than ever now.

May 12, 2008 12:28 AM
Lu Kalaj
Vision Realty Centers - Brighton Township, MI

Smoking is truly a habit.  Its that need to do something because you've always done it.  Quitting takes consistent talking to ourselves.  Thank you for blogging, and I trust this will help someone stop smoking.  Lu

May 14, 2008 03:38 AM