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Sellers Should Not Be Home for an Open House

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Real Estate Agent with Elizabeth Anne Weintraub, Broker DRE #00697006

 

My husband still recalls the disparaging term he used to describe the sellers of our house, based on the state from which they hailed, primarily because they refused to leave when we first toured our home. If they hadn't been there, he would not have made judgments about them. And judgments can color a buyer's opinion.

We've all met the sellers who think they are "helping." But the stuff they disclose is astonishing.  Like the sellers in Sacramento who told buyers last week all about the troubles they've had keeping the AC running to cool off the house during a recent hot spell. And that was on their way out of the house for a home inspection. Now the buyers expect the HVAC to be replaced.

You also will not believe what I told a seller yesterday when, at the last minute, he decided he would rather be home for our open house. I was chuckling to myself as I dozed off last night just thinking about it. You can read more in my personal blog today at this link: Why Sellers Should Leave During an Open House.

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Elizabeth Weintraub is co-partner of Weintraub & Wallace Team of Top Producing Realtors, an author, home buying expert at The Balance, a Land Park resident, and a veteran real estate agent who specializes in older, classic homes in Land Park, Curtis Park, Midtown, Carmichael and East Sacramento, as well as tract homes in Elk Grove, Natomas, Roseville and Lincoln. Call Elizabeth Weintraub at 916.233.6759. Put our combined 80 years of real estate experience to work for you. Broker-Associate at RE/MAX Gold. DRE License # 00697006.

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Comments(14)

Sandy Padula & Norm Padula, JD, GRI
HomeSmart Realty West & Florida Realty Investments - , CA
Presence, Persistence & Perseverance

Elizabeth Weintraub Sacramento Real Estate Agent, Top 1% of Lyon Agents This is so true. I have a listing in Florida where the seller insisted on 'perching' in his recliner all during open house events and would always 'chime in' answered visitors questions. Once he got started, he would never stop. I finally got it under contract and the selling agent directly asked he not be present for the home inspection. He was hilariously indignant, but complied.

Jun 12, 2017 07:46 AM
Chris Ann Cleland
Long and Foster Real Estate - Gainesville, VA
Associate Broker, Bristow, VA

I had a seller a month or so ago that refused to leave for an open house and wouldn't allow one if they weren't allowed.  I begrudingly did it after counseling the seller not to engage with buyers.  That went right out the window and she chatted it up with every buyer.   It worked though because the judgments being made about who she was based on her decor (which she also refused to take down) were found to be false.  

If she'd taken my original advice about taking down the decor, I think she would have been under contract a lot quicker.   Just goes to show, always take your agent's advice.

Jun 12, 2017 12:03 PM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hi Elizabeth -- I remember sellers who wanted to stay at home during an open house event(a slower market which favored buyers).   They did it once and then realized they really weren't up to spending the time at an open house when they could be somewhere a lot more fun.  

Jun 12, 2017 03:35 PM
Elizabeth Weintraub Sacramento Broker
Elizabeth Anne Weintraub, Broker - Sacramento, CA
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Sandy Padula and Norm Padula, JD, GRI NMLS#1483386 It's amazing how they hire us to do our jobs and then some of them do everything in their power to prevent us from doing our jobs.

Jun 12, 2017 04:16 PM
Elizabeth Weintraub Sacramento Broker
Elizabeth Anne Weintraub, Broker - Sacramento, CA
Put 40 years of experience to work for you

Chris Ann Cleland When you try everything and they just don't see it your way, then I go with whatever and let the chips fall where they may. I figure I've done my best to warn and advise, and if they fail to heed, what happens is not on me. Besides, it's their house. If they want to mess up their profit, they are allowed.

Jun 12, 2017 04:18 PM
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Elizabeth Anne Weintraub, Broker - Sacramento, CA
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Michael Jacobs I believe open houses are fun for agents but I don't personally see the appeal for sellers. It tends to inhibit buyers as well if sellers are there. I've had some show up unexpectedly just to watch from the sidelines, and they didn't interfere, which was OK.

Jun 12, 2017 04:20 PM
Myrl Jeffcoat
Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Realtor - Retired

I fully agree.  Sellers should leave when there is an Open House going on.  Just think of it as free baby sitting, with a special afternoon off.

Jun 12, 2017 04:51 PM
Joan Cox
House to Home, Inc. - Denver Real Estate - 720-231-6373 - Denver, CO
Denver Real Estate - Selling One Home at a Time

Elizabeth, homeowners do not know how to keep quiet, and the very reason they should not be at open house or showings!  

Jun 13, 2017 06:12 AM
Elizabeth Weintraub Sacramento Broker
Elizabeth Anne Weintraub, Broker - Sacramento, CA
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Myrl Jeffcoat What are we babysitting? The kitchen faucet?

Jun 13, 2017 07:34 AM
Elizabeth Weintraub Sacramento Broker
Elizabeth Anne Weintraub, Broker - Sacramento, CA
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Joan Cox I think they know how to be quiet. They just don't know what is the wrong thing to say because people tend to not consider consequences. They often don't think ahead nor analyze how their comments could be interpreted.

Jun 13, 2017 07:37 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Elizabeth- so right!  I remember consulting on the home of a retired agent (many years retired) who proudly told me she would be home for the Brokers Open as well as the other open houses and all of the showings. I felt sorry for her agent!

Jun 13, 2017 06:57 PM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

Just had a similar experience with a seller who decided to sit on the front porch while I showed a home on Sunday, Elizabeth. We were not sure how much give there was in her price, but by the time she told us why we were selling and how motivated they were we knew we could offer way less for the home than we'd thought we could initially.

Jun 14, 2017 05:43 AM
Elizabeth Weintraub Sacramento Broker
Elizabeth Anne Weintraub, Broker - Sacramento, CA
Put 40 years of experience to work for you

Kathy Streib They don't understand the detriment. Asking them to see it the way a buyer would and to pretend to be a buyer, well, they might still defend their position, but it's worth a shot.

Jun 14, 2017 07:22 AM
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Elizabeth Anne Weintraub, Broker - Sacramento, CA
Put 40 years of experience to work for you

Nina Hollander I think sellers don't know that agents are trained to look for clues for their buyers, and they will use those clues in an offer.

Jun 14, 2017 07:23 AM