ATTITUDES ARE MORE IMPORTANT THAN SKILLS

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Look at your real estate business an ask yourself this question about your organization.  Do I spend most of my time developing my team in the areas of skills and knowledge?  I am guessing the the majority said yes.

It seems that when many managers hire people they spend a tremendous amount of time on resumes, skills and knowledge. And yet people usually don’t fail because of lack of skills. It is usually bad behavior, bad actions, or bad attitude.

Several years ago, I heard Zig Ziglar speak. He said, “Your attitude determines your altitude.” What do YOU think about when you hear the word attitude? When I ask this question at workshops people usually respond with examples what they consider a bad attitude. It may even have a negative connotation to you. The fact is that people do not put enough emphasis on how attitude affects performance. Attitudes DO affect performance. In fact, they affect everything that we do.

There is a strong link between attitude and performance. Let’s start with defining what attitude means in this context. An attitude is a pattern of thought. It affects how we approach everything we do. You can change your attitude, your outlook, and how you think but it will take real commitment, discipline and desire to change your old habits. Would you agree? In other words, you can do it, but you’re really going to have to work hard at it.

The way we think impacts our habits and behavior and this has impact on the outcomes we receive. If we want to get different and lasting outcomes, it’s not enough to change our behavior. We must start with changing our attitudes. This will, in turn, change our behavior, which will result in a change in our outcomes and results.

We have developed attitudes from our past experiences. All of us can think of an unpleasant experience that we have had in the past. We may have tried to start a business or work in sales. Then something negative happened. Did you ever have an experience of getting supposedly well-meaning advice from friends who wanted to protect you from failure? Or have you suffered sales rejection and who hasn’t?   You probably wanted to avoid another unpleasant experience again so you focused on what didn’t work rather than the rewards of success. Let’s explore this.

Would you agree that you need to have passion to be successful? I do. What is your passion? What drives you? If you have a sales job and your heart is not in it you might want to consider stopping that and searching for what you really desire. On the other hand, if you really love, let’s say, real estate sales you should be focusing on the rewards. You will have obstacles but you can plan for them and anticipate them. Changing your thought patterns and your outlook means changing your attitudes. Focus on the reward of more sales rather than the rejection.

 

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Then make sure that your new behavior is consistent with your new attitude. Stay focused on what you want and what can go right, in short what you can become.  Read a similar blog on our web site titled ATTITUDES ARE MORE IMPORTANT THAN FACTS.

 

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Gene Mundt, IL/WI Mortgage Originator - FHA/VA/Conv/Jumbo/Portfolio/Refi
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I think as we age, this becomes even more true, Grant Schneider ... your "tude" either is a roadblock or the boost you need.  Your attitude colors everything ... even how receptive you are to new things and learning.  Older professionals with the right "tude" far way better ...

Gene

Jul 18, 2017 09:35 AM #39
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Melissa -great.  I think that attitude is the starting pint.

Endre - I know you know this.  Many of my clients don't.

John - yes, we are a product of our past.

Gene - good way to put it.  It colors everything.

Jul 18, 2017 10:32 AM #40
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I agree with you. I also think our attitudes are forged from a great many things - early training, past experience, ingrained beliefs, and of course - fears.

Sadly, our expectations (attitudes) dictate our results, so negative expectations produce negative results.

Jul 18, 2017 02:50 PM #41
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Lou Ludwig
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Grant

A persons attitude will determine how they use their skills.

Good luck and success.

Lou Ludwig

Jul 18, 2017 05:36 PM #42
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Debe Maxwell, CRS
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Hi Grant! You know, my coach does require a minimum sales level to become a student but, the most important thing to him is being 'coachable.' If you think you're great, then you're not! It's about asking yourself what you can do to improve and as Barbara said, having the fire in your belly to do what it takes to achieve success. 

Absolutely wonderful post, as always, Grant! And, I love Zig Ziglar's altitude sentiment - it's SO true!

Jul 18, 2017 07:46 PM #43
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Grant Schneider - Zig is right - our attitude defines the altitude!

And of course, who we are surrounded by is also important.

Jul 18, 2017 09:38 PM #44
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Good morning Grant.  So true, no matter how skilled someone is, it won't get them very far without the right attitude.

Jul 19, 2017 04:29 AM #45
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Marte - that is the problem. Negative events also determine our attitudes.

Lou - yes, that is right.

Debe - being coachable  is huge.  The willingness has to be there.

Praful - yes, negative people can affect us.

Gabe - it will only hold them back.

Jul 19, 2017 04:51 AM #46
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Thanks for the inspiration today.  I have heard this quote before and loved it.

“Your attitude determines your altitude.”

Jul 19, 2017 09:02 AM #47
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I love the quote too. Thank you for the inspirational post

Jul 19, 2017 05:26 PM #48
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Gita Bantwal
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I agree you can not teach good attitude.

Jul 19, 2017 05:27 PM #49
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Sybil Campbell
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You are so right Grant.  Attitude makes all the difference in everything we do.

Jul 19, 2017 06:08 PM #50
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Belinda - it is one of Zig's best.

Gita - thanks, glad you agree.

Sybil - yes, it affects everything.

Jul 20, 2017 08:55 AM #51
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Oh yes Grant Schneider  let us keep up that positive attitude  and passion sometimes I have to back off as my passion is a little to strong ...I know I need to let the clients digest as they are afraid and need to think -- Great post

Jul 20, 2017 09:16 AM #52
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Hannah - I know that sometimes passion in working with clients could come accross as over selling.

Jul 24, 2017 05:44 AM #53
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Skills can be taught. Attitude - you either have it or you don't. If you don't have the right attitude then quit and do something else.

Jul 28, 2017 03:17 AM #54
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We all remember the "little engine who could" ....and did...it has to start there !

Jul 28, 2017 04:42 PM #55
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Dave - that is a very good point on attitude.

Sally and David - that starts with I Can.

Jul 30, 2017 03:10 PM #56
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Attitude is about mindset. If you have positive thoughts, you will usually have a good attitude. You are correct that attitude affects every aspect of our lives. That's why I try to have a positive mindset/attitude so that I have positive outcomes. 

Aug 01, 2017 09:39 PM #57
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Sam -that is right.  You can't put negative in and get positive out!

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