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I received sad news five years ago today!

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On Sunday August 19, 2012, my phone rang at about 9:00 am.  I saw that the call was from my late brother's home phone.  Before answering the phone I said out loud, "This can't be good news".  My brother had been diagnosed with cancer in May of 2012 so I fully expected the call to be news about him.  You could have knocked me over with a feather when I heard this from my sister-in-law: "Sybil, I wanted you to know that your mom passed away last night."

 

My mom had been in an assisted living facility for a few years but as far as we knew she was in pretty good physical health.  She didn't have cancer or heart problems.  She was 85 years old when she passed away on the day that would have been my late father's 88th birthday if he were still alive.  I like to think she decided that she didn't want another year to pass without him and so she simply went to sleep and didn't wake up the next morning.

 

Mom when she was young

 

 

 

This is a picture that was taken in her younger days.

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Sybil Campbell, REALTOR®, ABR, SFR, SRES

Long and Foster, REALTORS®

(757) 876-0140

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Pat Champion
John Roberts Realty - Eustis, FL
Call the "CHAMPION" for all your real estate needs

I know your Mom will always be in your heart with your special memories of her.

Aug 19, 2017 07:59 AM
Sybil Campbell
Fernandina Beach, FL
Referral Agent Amelia Island Florida

Yes she will Pat Champion, thanks for your comment.

Aug 19, 2017 08:00 AM
Kristin Johnston - REALTOR®
RE/MAX Platinum - Waukesha, WI
Giving Back With Each Home Sold!

Aww, thank you for sharing your story with us....I agree with Pat above too!

Aug 19, 2017 08:09 AM
Will Hamm
Hamm Homes - Aurora, CO
"Where There's a Will, There's a Way!"

Sybil, I knowwhat it is like to get that phone call.  My mom was only 77 and miss her so much to this day.

Aug 19, 2017 08:53 AM
Joe Pryor
The Virtual Real Estate Team - Oklahoma City, OK
REALTOR® - Oklahoma Investment Properties

After I got back from cancer treat in late 2008 I was glad I got a little time with my Mom before she passed at 95. These are hard losses.

Aug 19, 2017 09:48 AM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Sybil,

Sorry to hear that news, and yes, I think she was being called by your father.  It is something we all go through.  A

Aug 19, 2017 12:11 PM
Sybil Campbell
Fernandina Beach, FL
Referral Agent Amelia Island Florida

Thanks Kristin Johnston - REALTOR®, it is healing for me to share the story.

Aug 19, 2017 03:19 PM
Sybil Campbell
Fernandina Beach, FL
Referral Agent Amelia Island Florida

Will Hamm, No one can ever replace a good mom.

Aug 19, 2017 03:19 PM
Sybil Campbell
Fernandina Beach, FL
Referral Agent Amelia Island Florida

Yes they are hard Joe Pryor.

Aug 19, 2017 03:20 PM
Sybil Campbell
Fernandina Beach, FL
Referral Agent Amelia Island Florida

Ron and Alexandra Seigel, I think she was ready to die.

Aug 19, 2017 03:21 PM
Lynnea Miller
Bend Premier Real Estate - Bend, OR
Premier Real Estate Service in Central Oregon

Your mother was a beautiful woman, Sybil Campbell . My mother turned 88 last week and I am blessed both she and my 90 year old dad are still alive. I do think that when one does pass, the other will follow shortly. I am happy your mom went so peacefully.  I hope it is the same for my parents.

Aug 19, 2017 05:11 PM
William Feela
WHISPERING PINES REALTY - North Branch, MN
Realtor, Whispering Pines Realty 651-674-5999 No.

Keep the memories alive and she will be alive in your mind forever

Aug 19, 2017 06:27 PM
Debbie Reynolds, C21 Platinum Properties
Platinum Properties- (931)771-9070 - Clarksville, TN
The Dedicated Clarksville TN Realtor-(931)320-6730

You look so much like your mother and know you miss her. You may be right that she missed your dad too much and didn't want to go on.

Aug 19, 2017 07:10 PM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

Somehow, no matter how long our mothers live, we are never ready for that reality and we never forget the day or moment we get the news. You can have comfort in knowing that she passed peacefully.

 

Aug 20, 2017 04:55 AM
Sybil Campbell
Fernandina Beach, FL
Referral Agent Amelia Island Florida

You are indeed blessed Lynnea Miller!

Aug 20, 2017 02:29 PM
Sybil Campbell
Fernandina Beach, FL
Referral Agent Amelia Island Florida

You are right about that William Feela.

Aug 20, 2017 02:30 PM
Sybil Campbell
Fernandina Beach, FL
Referral Agent Amelia Island Florida

I like to think that is whay she passed away on his birthday Debbie Reynolds.

Aug 20, 2017 02:30 PM
Sybil Campbell
Fernandina Beach, FL
Referral Agent Amelia Island Florida

I know what you mean Nina Hollander, I can still remember exactly where I was standing when I received the call.

Aug 20, 2017 02:31 PM
Lou Ludwig
Ludwig & Associates - Boca Raton, FL
Designations Earned CRB, CRS, CIPS, GRI, SRES, TRC

Sybil

My prays are with your mother . . . .  Thank you for sharing your story.

Good luck and success.

Lou Ludwig

Aug 21, 2017 06:15 PM
Sybil Campbell
Fernandina Beach, FL
Referral Agent Amelia Island Florida

Thank you Lou, have a great week.

Aug 21, 2017 06:32 PM