My Gifts of Appreciation Goes To a Wise, Wonderful and Giving Member of ActiveRain

I found in my Great Thoughts of the Centuries Book a short writing that was written so long ago no one would recognize the author. But the vision and wisdom is no less true today.

" The sage does not accumulate for himself. The more that he expends for others, the more does he possess of his own;the more that he gives to others, the more does he have himself".

I have for months been trying to understand how to create a unique web age that I could use in my personal blog that would allow me to collect market data and be able to link in a template post to the already assembled data page.

I asked several people and mostly no one really understood what I was seeking to do. Using technology and describing it is often miles apart.

I had remembered on Active Rain seeing just such a market report. I wrote an e-mail to this person and he responded and we set a time to talk about it.

Our appointment was set for a Saturday morning and I figured it would be a 15 minute call at the most. I would either understand it or I wouldn't but it wouldn't take long to find out. At 45 minutes of intense training complete with an overview and all the mechanics, software and site changes, I was on my way. I realized that this seemingly small idea took him months and months to learn and figure out for himself. And he was giving me every detail of how to go about it, things to watch for and even things to learn before I started the project. I was overwhelmed of what all was involved in this and the learning of systems and software that were required to produce the reports he does so simply and beautifully.

This person I wish to give my gift of appreciation to is Gary Bolen. I owe him a debt of gratitude. He not only explained the entire detailed process it but also offered that should I want to hire a local high school or college tech person to do this for me to save some time, he would speak with them and guide them through the entire process.

My Gift of appreciation goes to Gary Bolen as an example that all of us could and many of us try to emulate. To help our community members with whatever they need to be able to embrace success in their lives and careers. This is also the measure of a man ( man or women) that would give to a stranger believing that they are sincere and in need or could use their help or guidance.

I hate contests and don't enter them. I promised I would share this because the motivation is right. Gary is a most deserving gentleman that cares about others, shares with others and his reward is the satisfaction he gets from helping. In my view we are all blessed because of people here on ActiveRain like Gary. He and his wonderful attitude of helping just because he was asked is something we should all try to emulate as often in our lives as possible.

I started with the writing by Lao-Tse, and it was written in 565 BC. The reason I choose it is because my Dad taught me his version that I have quoted here on ActiveRain several times. "William,you only get to keep in life that which you are first willing to give to away" . Now go back to the beginning of this post and you will see where my Dad obviously learned this from. At least it sounds like it to me.  I told Gary this quote and he agreed that he and his brother Richard live their lives just that way as well. First always willing to give it away to take possession of what they already own.

 
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45 Comments on My Gifts of Appreciation Goes To a Wise, Wonderful and Giving Member of ActiveRain

Hi William, you are exemplary yourself for recognizing the wonderful Bolen blog.  

05/16/2008 03:18 AM by Susie Blackmon NC Realtor, Maggie Valley, Waynesville (COLDWELL BANKER)


William, what a wonderful post on appreciating an outstanding blogger here in the Rain. You did a great job with this.

I was afraid to enter this contest...there's just way too many people here that I admire and couldn't pick just one.  Have a wonderful weekend!

05/16/2008 05:24 AM by Linda Scanlan (I Left Real Estate)


Gary Bolen's blog is a masterpiece.  His market reports are just a taste of the excellence we enjoy on his blog. 

05/16/2008 07:43 AM by Lenn Harley, Homefinders.com, MD & VA Real Estate


It is so nice of you to show appreciation to other Rain members.  I applaud you for this post--Excellent!

05/16/2008 07:44 AM by Diane Bell, Hilton Head Real Estate, Bluffton (Charter 1 Real Estate, Hilton Head, Bluffton, SC)


Beautifully written William!  The Bolen Bro's are tops of the blogging world. With great insight and living with those principles... it is no wonder you chose to give appreciation to a wonderful giving person.

05/16/2008 11:36 AM by Celeste "SALLY" Cheeseman (RA), HAWAII Real Estate & HAWAII Relocation (Century 21 Liberty Homes -Mililani, Hawaii)


William, awesome ThemThem to Gary. The neat part of this contest is the points get paid forward to the person who has touched your life in The Rain. Gary sounds like he went above and beyond your expectations. To cool.

Thanks for sharing with the Group.

Have a great day in The Rain,

Duane

05/16/2008 11:46 AM by Duane Marlink, Rate A Home (Rate A Home)


Hello Susie, How wonderful of you to express yourself that way. I do appreciate Gary's willingness to lay all this out and to help me so clearly understand what is involved in what I want to accomplish. I have been having trouble with my computer of late and someone associated with a wonderful ActiveRain member called me from Hawaii to resolve the issues. Where on earth could we get this kind of help just for the asking of it. How can one even begin to explain to value that we all receive totally free to help when help is needed. I know of nothing in my entire lifetime that could even come close to what people are so willing to provide here on ActiveRain. I am totally awe struck at the amazing help offered here.

As I mentioned I am not all that interested in contests but because the reward goes to where it was earned, I wanted everyone to know of my experience. The truth is there is not a member on the site that if they reached out would not get the same things from the many talented givers on this network.

I am reminded of the Master Card advertisement that ends it's ad with the words "Priceless". That is the best word to describe our AR membership. Priceless indeed! PS, I have no spell checker that is working as yet so hopefully this comment will not have spelling errors,lol

05/16/2008 12:18 PM by San Diego Real Estate Voice authored by William Johnson GRI CRS e-PRO (RE/MAX Associates)


William, LOL on your spellling error.....

05/16/2008 12:23 PM by Duane Marlink, Rate A Home (Rate A Home)


Hi Duane, I needed to leave a couple to see if the IE Spell checker would work. It did , so that is now resolved,:-). Thanks for noticing.

05/16/2008 12:30 PM by San Diego Real Estate Voice authored by William Johnson GRI CRS e-PRO (RE/MAX Associates)


Hi Linda, Linda, nothing could be more true. Focus on one was not easy except that this one  was the most recent,lol. But there are so many that have contributed so much to me. Hopefully I have kept up my end of the bargain as well. I always try and hopefully have done the task as well as expected or better. I usually always give more than asked and love to do that here on AR and in life in general. Others have treated me the same. I can you tell it makes me feel so amazing though that words can not properly reflect the feelings I have.

05/16/2008 12:51 PM by San Diego Real Estate Voice authored by William Johnson GRI CRS e-PRO (RE/MAX Associates)


William- First I want to say I understand about "contests"...this one was actually done at the suggestion of 2 different members who liked the idea of acknowledging others.I also want to say I agree with your assessment of Gary Bolen....nicely done William, and thanks for entering.....for the right reasons :)

 

05/16/2008 12:53 PM by Kathy McGraw ~ Calif Broker (CELLing Realty)


Hi Lenn, No truer words have been spoken. You are also one that has made a such real difference in my life. Your friendship and willingness to guide and advise. And I left you out of this piece that it was actually you that started all this in the first place when you told me how my site was suffering from title tags and the failure of the site to be recognized properly. That is still be worked on , infact Jim had set me in a class on Monday on how to better utilize the SEO that is not that difficult to learn and needs to be constant on the mind as we move forward with our blogging. Thank You Lenn for your friendship ,your genius and you wonderful sharingand caring ways. You are an amazing women  that has seriously touched my life. You are a real treasure!

05/16/2008 01:09 PM by San Diego Real Estate Voice authored by William Johnson GRI CRS e-PRO (RE/MAX Associates)


Hi Diane, Thank You so much for your wonderful comments and please know they are greatly appreciated.

05/16/2008 03:49 PM by San Diego Real Estate Voice authored by William Johnson GRI CRS e-PRO (RE/MAX Associates)


Thank You Sally, What can I say here? There are so many deserving members along with Gary. Picking one would seem to slight someone else, but not so. It is further testimony to all who contribute. Everyone deserves their special day in the limelight. The more we spread around the more contagious the infection of helping and sharing. And the way people do it with such enthusiasm and how fast it spreads is like an infection. Just a good one though.

Sally, You already know what you and Gary mean to me. You are like my own personal treasure. Any many many people feel that way as well because you care, you let it show and it is refreshing. You want nor ask nothing, you do it because you can and you know it has a far greater value and makes a difference in the lives you touch. It says volumes about you and Gary too, he is the same way,proving again that likes attract, especially where life values are concerned.

Enjoy the day! Celebrate that you make so many hearts sing!

05/16/2008 04:05 PM by San Diego Real Estate Voice authored by William Johnson GRI CRS e-PRO (RE/MAX Associates)


 Hi William, what a nice way to thank someone. There are so many people helping each other here in the Rain so it's always nice to hear the details. Have a great weekend.

05/16/2008 04:27 PM by The Blog Artist - marti garaughty (The Art Of Marketing You)


Hi Duane, Thanks you so much for commenting, your insight is appreciated. Gary not only  did exceed my expectations but the whole network is enhanced by so many willing an able persons that love to help those who need their expertise. How fortunate we all are to part of this ever changing but  always consistent place where so much knowledge resides and is shared so often with those us that need particular help in one area or another.

05/16/2008 04:34 PM by San Diego Real Estate Voice authored by William Johnson GRI CRS e-PRO (RE/MAX Associates)


Hi Kathy, many thanks for you kind comments. I promised I would share this and I am so fortunate to be able to get it up for your contest, all being winners for writing about those things or people that they are grateful for and appreciate. The whole of AR wins when other recognize and are reminded of what we all share here on the network. It is as I mentioned to you before, " Priceless"

05/16/2008 04:38 PM by San Diego Real Estate Voice authored by William Johnson GRI CRS e-PRO (RE/MAX Associates)


Hi Marti, thanks for dropping by and enhancing this post with your kind comments. What you say is so true and we all need to be reminded once in a while of those special efforts that make such a difference in our of our experiences. You have added much here to the Rain and I would also thank you for the help you have been to me and so many others. You are a tribute to the exact spirit that AR has conveyed to me and all the others that embrace the ideas and the resources that are here to help each of us excel best. You are Appreciated!

05/16/2008 04:41 PM by San Diego Real Estate Voice authored by William Johnson GRI CRS e-PRO (RE/MAX Associates)


Hi William...that was a perfect appreciation post. You expressed your feelings so well. I am sure he will be touched when he reads it!

05/16/2008 08:15 PM by Joan Mirantz- Concord New Hampshire Realtor (Keeler Family Realtors)


Hi Joan, I suspect that if he is like what I think he is, he will be a bit embarrassed,lol. I am sure he will appreciate it though, especially that he more than earned this little tribute. He spent a lot of time and effort to learn all that he knows and here I was asking for help and he just so freely offered it all. Pretty darn gracious in my book and I am the beneficiary of his wonderful know how.

05/16/2008 08:33 PM by San Diego Real Estate Voice authored by William Johnson GRI CRS e-PRO (RE/MAX Associates)


Hi William,

Loved the quote in your second paragraph. Nice to hear how others are willing to extend a hand of friendship sharing their  knowledge so willingly. Sounds to me like you had wonderful Dad, why am I not surprised?

05/16/2008 09:48 PM by Orange Co. Real Estate~Lynda Eisenmann, Broker-Owner, Brea, CA (Preferred Home Brokers)


William what a beautiful testimonial.  I must agree, Gary has simply the best marketing reports I have seen.  How kind of him to share an assist you!  Another great example of the generosity here on AR.

05/17/2008 07:48 AM by Lake Norman Real Estate ~ Diane Aurit (RE/MAX at the Lake)


Hi Lynda, It takes one to know one as the saying goes. You are the same type. The wonderful, kind , sharing and experienced type that gives and gives. You are such a credit to our profession. You defy the old paradigms that in order to win to have have beat someone else. You have a set wonderful example of how to be a part of a social network and that is to make, value and enjoy friends and clients. That is the best testimony any of us could ever hope you. Thanks you for always being there. You are a treasure!

05/17/2008 08:44 AM by San Diego Real Estate Voice authored by William Johnson GRI CRS e-PRO (RE/MAX Associates)


HI Diane, How nice to see you and to hear from you. I first want to apologize that I missed subscribing to your posts. I corrected that before writing this. I will not miss you again. I will be a regular reader of your sage and wonderful local posts.

Thank you so much for your very kind comments. Gary was so wonderful to do this for me. He said he was complimented that I asked. Wow, they are only the best reports I have seen and so consistent.

He and Richard are one of the many reasons AR is so different from the rest. Real talent and expertise and always willing to share and to teach others. Who could ask for more than that.

There was a saying that is defied here on AR. Remember the old quote you get what you pay for. That old saying is dead here.You get almost anything you ask for and it is free for the asking. So many people here take such pride in providing the best in any category of information. where else could we get so neatly packaged and so available with the research already done. since I see no reason bothering to look, the answer is obvious.

How fortunate we all are for being a part of network that shares the Gary's the of the world. Thankfully there are many here in all categories and it is just layed out so easily for us to find it, to use it and then hopefully to share it again with others.

05/17/2008 09:03 AM by San Diego Real Estate Voice authored by William Johnson GRI CRS e-PRO (RE/MAX Associates)


William, this was a wonderful tribute.  Gary Bolen is one of my favorite bloggers on Active Rain because of his expertise and engaging style of communication.  It is a rare thing to meet individuals who are givers in the way you describe.  I'm sure it also inspires you to give of yourself as well...that's ultimately the greatest outcome of such an experience.

05/17/2008 10:11 AM by Lola Audu~ Audu Real Estate~ Grand Rapids, MI Broker


Good Morning Lola, Thanks you so much for your very kind comments. It does inspire me as it also does countless others. There are givers and takers in this world and we on AR are so fortunate that our numbers skew to the former and not the latter. You personally are just such an example. Your gift of wisdom and well focused care to the members here, does indeed set you apart from the many. It is a fine tribute to AR to have people like you and Gary and the countless others that just give and in so doing make the lives of others so much more fulfilling. It is remarkable how well AR as a group has usurped this concept and makes it so available. One begets the other and on it goes. Where could any of us get so much good information, personalized guidance, tried and true concepts that work, teachings and guidance principles for our careers and all bundled so nicely in one place for easy access. The best part of all the accumulated knowledge that is so willingly offered is that it also becomes a right of membership in the network. It continues because it enriches us, inspires us and even commands us to be open to repeating it over and over for others as they seek to gain their strength, their knowledge and their passions. With all else that might be wrong in the world, AR provides daily testimony of whats right with it.

05/17/2008 10:26 AM by San Diego Real Estate Voice authored by William Johnson GRI CRS e-PRO (RE/MAX Associates)


I can think of few others who better exemplify the art of unselfish transference - that of giving of what they know so freely, without reservation. That has been on of the hallmarks of our community since day one, and the Bolen Brothers continue to carry the torch.

I look forward to the day when we're sitting together in a boat, soakin' up some rays, listenin' to some good tunes, and sharin' our lives!

05/17/2008 10:31 AM by Rich Jacobson ~ ActiveRain Community Builder (ActiveRain Corporation)


Good Morning Rich, I feel really honored that you stopped by and shared that. It says so much in just a few words. I also suspect that when you are there ( in Lake Tahoe ) you also enjoy some one of this countries most magnificent settings. The water is cool, the clarity is amazing ( now down to 70 ft ) and the majestic scenery and perfection has rendered it one of the most beautiful lakes and communities in our country and one of my most favorite destinations. I look forward to meeting in persons ( Gary and Richard Bolen) those that are responsible for such wonderful " unselfish transference".

PS, I was so surprised when I got up this morning at 4:00AM and saw that this post that was promised for a contest " Gifts of Appreciation" was featured. I wholly intended that it was my gift of appreciation and sought no recognition of any kind for wanting to share what so graciously given me. Thanks to the AR moderator that has been so kind to me, others ( more than what was even hoped for) will get to know one of the many true givers ( Gary) here that make this community so wonderfully awesome! Present company not excluded.

05/17/2008 10:56 AM by San Diego Real Estate Voice authored by William Johnson GRI CRS e-PRO (RE/MAX Associates)


William - thanks for all your contributions. The best Active Raines are those who give without limit or measure, and there are many of them, including you.

05/17/2008 08:01 PM by Sharon Simms St Pete Florida CRS CIPS CLHMS (RE/MAX Metro)


William - thanks for all your contributions. The best Active Raines are those who give without limit or measure, and there are many of them, including you.

05/17/2008 08:01 PM by Sharon Simms St Pete Florida CRS CIPS CLHMS (RE/MAX Metro)


Wow. Am touched. Truth is we're trying to treat others as we'd like to be treated.

The market for us right now is good... and tough.  I can always tell when we're dealing with an agent who's not on AR. They act different. Think this will become a post.

Can't tell you how much this means to us... call again when you can.

 

cheers

05/17/2008 08:49 PM by Gary Bolen (CRS) Lake Tahoe Real Estate Information (Dickson Realty - South Lake Tahoe)


and thank you even more than that agin. tis you that is the prince, kind sir.

05/17/2008 09:14 PM by Gary Bolen (CRS) Lake Tahoe Real Estate Information (Dickson Realty - South Lake Tahoe)


Kudos to you both!  To Gary for...well, for being Gary.  And to William for taking the time to acknowledge him.

05/17/2008 10:28 PM by ARDELL DellaLoggia (Sound Realty)


Shoot, it's a contest.  Didn't see that.  OK...Kudos to Gary then :)

05/17/2008 10:28 PM by ARDELL DellaLoggia (Sound Realty)


Hi Sharon, Thank you so much for dropping by and for your hearfelt comments. You really touched me with the sentiment and I sincerely thank you.

05/18/2008 03:10 AM by San Diego Real Estate Voice authored by William Johnson GRI CRS e-PRO (RE/MAX Associates)


To Gary and Richard,

My sincere thank you for allowing me the privalge of working with you on the project and for the invaluable assitance that you gave me. It was way beyond what I could even have imagined. It is you and the others that feel and act as you do that makes AR the treasure that it is. I am personally honored by your response and thank you so much.

Most Sincerely and Friends Always,
William

05/18/2008 03:17 AM by San Diego Real Estate Voice authored by William Johnson GRI CRS e-PRO (RE/MAX Associates)


Hello Ardell, Thank you so much for coming to this post and expressing you kindness. I appreciate it when people such as yourself that have given so much here on AR honor me with your comments.

Most Sincerely,
William

05/18/2008 03:20 AM by San Diego Real Estate Voice authored by William Johnson GRI CRS e-PRO (RE/MAX Associates)


William - Congratulations to you and Gary.........as I said before you picked an excellent AR member to write about, and he and Richard, have given a lot to us.  I am happy that you took the time to send your Gift of Appreciation to him :)

05/19/2008 04:16 PM by Kathy McGraw ~ Calif Broker (CELLing Realty)


Hi Kathy, Thanks for providing the opportunity to do that with the Gifts of Appreciation format.

05/19/2008 05:55 PM by San Diego Real Estate Voice authored by William Johnson GRI CRS e-PRO (RE/MAX Associates)


William - thanks for the post. I've always appreciated your comments, and now can appreciate the contributions of Gary Bolen as well.

05/19/2008 08:54 PM by Sharon Simms St Pete Florida CRS CIPS CLHMS (RE/MAX Metro)


Hi Sharon, Thanks you so much for your kind comments. Gary and Richard do some wonderful writing and really know and understand how to optomize the SEO aspects of their posts. I am learning and hope to do my posts so much better in time. Thanks you again Sharon, you are appreciated so much.

05/19/2008 09:57 PM by San Diego Real Estate Voice authored by William Johnson GRI CRS e-PRO (RE/MAX Associates)


Kudos to you and to Gary Bolen, what a great group we have here at AR

 

All the best!

05/20/2008 01:25 AM by Kevin O'Shea, White Plains, NY Real Estate (American Classic Homes, Inc.)


Good Morning Kevin, Thank you so much for dropping by and your well wishes. We are indeed so fortunate to have our associations with a such a wonderful and powerful network where we still hold the value that helping our own is always in our best business interest as well as our individual interests. And offering that help so graciously. OUr resources when combined would far exceed what could be obtained with a Masters Degree in Real Estate. So much more information, resources and people that are willing to go out of their way to make it happen for you. An amazing tribute to any group in these times. We are the especially lucky ones for our participation and association to ActiveRain.

05/20/2008 10:11 AM by San Diego Real Estate Voice authored by William Johnson GRI CRS e-PRO (RE/MAX Associates)


William,

The Bolen boys are top notch, without a doubt!! Reading a post like this gives me the warmest feeling as I think about the people here that are so willing to give of themselves. To think ActiveRain has had a small part in facilitating this atmosphere makes me very proud. Of course, I am more proud of the members who embody the ideals AR attempted to set forth, and have absolutely blown away any expectations we ever had.

Thanks for the warm fuzzy feeling William! :-)

05/20/2008 11:40 PM by Bob Stewart - ActiveRain (ActiveRain)


Hi Bob, I am so flattered that you took your time to complement this post. And I thank you sincerely. ActiveRain has actually had a larger than small role in creating this atmosphere.

It goes back to that idea that " Build it and they will come". Well, they have come in droves by the tens of thousands and for those that take an active role, they have or will receive no less than a multitude more of what they have given.

As I mentioned in some of my comments, there are numerous networks out there and some are even quite good. What they don't have is the passion and the willingness of so many to help the rest. Their weakest link there is just that and many eventually disappear. Our weakest link is the challenge that each of the many willing members take on to help the others through the learning process and eventually become the blogger they seek to be. In the other networks is seems to just end there. Our members look after each other and declare no failure as long as their is evidence of desire and an willingness to try.

Those two contrasts may be the essence of ActiveRain. There is always time to improve as long as we stay involved the process of learning and one will never be left on their own when they most need help.

Bob, You and the rest of ActiveRain Corporate have a right to be proud. As long as you have that "warm fussy feeling", you will always be able to give the encouragement and the care that looks after us all. You all provide the way for just this extraordinary level of sharing from member to member. There are so many like Gary and Richard and I couldn't name them all if I tried and besides this would take many hours to read. But they are out there and they make up the best professionalism and talent that has ever existed in the professional category of social networks. How fortunate we all are for our association with all of you in the corporate office. Together we are making history, one talented and inspired member at a time.

05/21/2008 12:16 AM by San Diego Real Estate Voice authored by William Johnson GRI CRS e-PRO (RE/MAX Associates)


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