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The Day Started with a Sunrise & Ended with a Sunset…But in Between?!

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Real Estate Agent with eXp Realty of California, Inc. CA DRE #01490977

The Day Started with a Sunrise, and Ended with a Sunset…But in Between?!

 

 

It was an interesting, and varied, day today…part of what I enjoy about the real estate business, but a vivid reminder that personal time sometimes must come first, as it should!

 

 

Our day started off way before the sunrise, but we got to enjoy a gorgeous one as we arrived to check in for my wife’s surgery, a long-awaited moment. All went well, but it was, as these things are, a flurry of activity, with numerous staff, tons of questions, lots of paperwork, and a bit of a blur at 7 in the morning…and moments of feeling breathless that too much was going on, and at the same time the anticipation of so many months was now upon us.

 

Sunrise in Oceanside

 

To say the day was varied is an understatement.

 

 

There was lots of time while the surgery was happening to catch up with family, check and respond to email, answer some questions on ActiveRain, comment on some posts, and, admittedly, daydream a bit.

 

 

Then recovery, a time to visit with my wife, and listen to endless discharge instructions, with text messages flowing in…how is Mom doing? Several calls came in while we were en route home, about 4 hours after leaving for the surgery center, but I didn’t respond right then.

 

 

We got home, I got my wife settled, and I sat down to catch up…emails to 2 different buyers in Asia that I started working with (one a referral) who are looking for investments; communication with relocation buyers who are in escrow; removal of final contingencies; a quick loan pre-approval from a favorite lender on some other relocation buyers from Northern California: setting up showings for relocation clients for Wednesday and Thursday; checking in with our 2 daughters; a long talk with my Realtor cousin in Florida dealing with the recovery from Irma.

 

 

 

Mayo Winery Zinfandel giftCarrying on...a long phone visit with a good friend and agent who had recently referred a wonderful seller who closed a short time ago; checking in multiple times with my wife on meds, food, water and just plain company;

 

 

And then there was writing comments and responding to questions, plus 1 post on ActiveRain; checking on new listings for several clients; a bit of downtime to watch the news; fixing dinner; multiple holds for tech support on a minor issue; talking with my daughter about real estate and some decisions; and the list goes on.

 

 

I got to enjoy a glass of wine from a wonderful bottle sent to me by a recent seller client while watching the news!

 

 

The night is not over, but my post is!! And I missed the sunset. Plus I'm sure I forgot some things I did today. But I checked off items on my To Do list so all is well.

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Jeff Dowler, CRS
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James Dray
Fathom Realty - Bentonville, AR

Good morning Jeff.

Good to hear your wife's surgery went well.   I was exhausted just reading about your day.  Take a rest sir

Oct 18, 2017 02:34 AM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

Wow, what a day. I'm glad to hear your wife is doing well. That's the most important thing. I hope today is a little less stressful and you get to see the sun rise AND set.

Oct 18, 2017 03:25 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

Gorgeous picture, Jeff. You did have quite the day and glad to hear your wife is doing well. At the end of the day, we can only do what we can do... no apologies needed for the rest of the stuff. You clearly knew your priorities for the day.

Oct 18, 2017 03:46 AM
Sheri Sperry - MCNE®
Coldwell Banker Realty - Sedona, AZ
(928) 274-7355 ~ YOUR Solutions REALTOR®

Hi Jeff Dowler - I am so happy to hear that your wife is doing well. When you are in a hospital "discharge instructions" are the best news one could have!  I saw the bottle of wine and wondered when you might have been able to enjoy it with all that was going on....and then I read! 

Raise that glass to a week ahead with a little more "discretionary" time.

Oct 18, 2017 05:27 AM
Rebecca Gaujot, Realtor®
Lewisburg, WV
Lewisburg WV, the go to agent for all real estate

Jeff this is a a beautiful photo of the sunrise, and should be entered in Dick Greenway's photo contest.  Glad your wife's surgery went well and wish her a fast recovery.

Oct 18, 2017 06:26 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Good morning Jeff. I'm glad your wife is home and the surgery behind you both. Nice post and understood.

Oct 18, 2017 07:02 AM
Dagny Eason
Dagny's Real Estate - Wilton, CT
Fairfield County CT, CDPE Homes For Sale and Condo

I am glad to hear that your wife surgery went well and you are relieved now.  We all go through tough time. Good times come after hard times. Wish her a fast recovery.  

Oct 18, 2017 09:05 AM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Hi James Dray  - it was, as they say, a VERY full day, with more that I didn't mention. Most importantly the surgery went well and my wife is doing well. Follow-up appointment today, along with some out of town buyers!

Jeff

Oct 18, 2017 09:42 AM
Dick Greenberg
New Paradigm Partners LLC - Fort Collins, CO
Northern Colorado Residential Real Estate

Hi Jeff - I'm glad your wife's surgery was a success and that she's doing well. Days like that bring a good type of exhaustion - one mixed with relief and satisfaction.

Oct 18, 2017 03:27 PM
Lou Ludwig
Ludwig & Associates - Boca Raton, FL
Designations Earned CRB, CRS, CIPS, GRI, SRES, TRC

Jeff

You had a busy in-between . . . . The glass of wine was the just the right thing to relax.

Lou Ludwig

Oct 18, 2017 05:49 PM
Brenda Whitman, Live in Laramie Real Estate
Live in Laramie Real Estate, Laramie, Wyoming - Laramie, WY
Broker/Co-Owner, Laramie, Wyoming

...just reading about your day was exhausting.  You should sleep well after a day like that.  I'd wish you a more peaceful day tomorrow, but it sounds like you go at this pace all the time...

Oct 18, 2017 08:36 PM
Grant Schneider
Performance Development Strategies - Armonk, NY
Your Coach Helping You Create Successful Outcomes

Good morning Jeff - glad all went well with your wife's surgery.  Sometimes the day goes by and you don't remember where it went or what you did.

Oct 19, 2017 09:00 AM
Jane Peters
Home Jane Realty - Los Angeles, CA
Los Angeles real estate concierge services

Wow that was a busy day, Jeff. Hopefully things have calmed down enough for you to enjoy the gorgeous sunsets that come after the time change.

Oct 19, 2017 03:25 PM