The Truth Will Set You Free

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with Aspen Lane Real Estate Colorful Colorado CRE# 40005863

Something that gives me a great feeling of inner peace is to try to follow the teachings of the Buddha.

I am not Buddhist perse, but I do get great inspiration from the Buddha.

 

Here is one of my favorite quotes:

 

Three things cannot be long hidden:
the sun, the moon, and the truth.

I have found that speaking the truth is the best way to embrace life.  Sure there are times when those around us don't want to hear the truth, but they usually need to hear it.  

 

You don't have to be cruel when you speak the truth.  There are ways to deliver a truthful message without hurting others. 

 

I frequently have neighbors and friends ask me for my opinion.  Why? Because they know I will be truthful.  Just last week, a neighbor called and asked for my opinion about a home improvement project she was taking on.  She said she wanted my opinion because she knew I would be truthful.

 

If I know the truth will hurt, I try to keep quiet and let them do the talking by simply asking them questions about how they feel about the situation.

 

This way they uncover the truth on their own without feeling like someone else hurt their feelings. 

 

Thanks for the cool messages to help us meander through life Buddha!

 

 

 

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Susan Haughton
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Although I am the queen of tact, I find a lot of people coming to me for my outlook on certain situations precisely because I give them the truth, even if it is a brutal truth.  That's what they want to hear.  There are ways to deliver that aren't cruel, even if it is hurtful. 

Nov 05, 2017 06:53 PM #11
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Good morning Belinda. I like this and you. I have a thing for Budha too.

Nov 06, 2017 07:54 AM #12
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Nice post, I do read the teachings. That Buddha statue looks like he was on a diet.

Nov 06, 2017 08:31 AM #13
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Lovely post Belinda Spillman Buddha is wise...

Nov 06, 2017 07:05 PM #14
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There are many ways to be truthful without causing pain. It is an art form, but a beautiful one if mastered. 

Nov 07, 2017 08:10 AM #15
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Beth Atalay
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Hi Belinda, I love Buddha teachings and make a point of reading a few each day. We can all speak with love and be truthful that includes ourselves. 

Nov 08, 2017 09:35 AM #16
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Hi Belinda- I love what Buddha teaches us. The truth doesn't have to hurt as long as it's presented from the heart. 

Nov 11, 2017 11:14 AM #17
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Nov 11, 2017 06:07 PM #18
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Good morning, Belinda Spillman the only problem with homeowners reaching for that "truth" on their own is that it may take months to get there!!!  I like to bottom line it... 

Nov 12, 2017 06:43 AM #19
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Hi Belinda

I think it's especially important for buyers and sellers to be told the truth even though they may not want to hear it. There are usally ways to do this that make it easier to hear.

Jeff

Nov 12, 2017 07:31 AM #20
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Hi Belinda Spillman - "Tell the truth with compassion" is the "T" in the HEART principles.  You can never go wrong by telling the truth with compassion. 

Nov 12, 2017 07:36 AM #21
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Budda Buddies - we are certainly that and much more! Happy ones too!

Nov 12, 2017 01:36 PM #22
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Janice Hope Zaltman LEED AP
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Belinda Spillman Beautiful budda and love those hands. Have not seen one like that before. Thanks for the reminder to tell the truth when asked. Sometimes I give it without asking and that gets me in trouble. Many people only want to hear want they want to hear. 

Nov 12, 2017 06:44 PM #23
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Some people enjoy being hurtful and claim they are just being honest - UGH! 

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I try to listen Belinda Spillman to many spiritual leaders of many religions. I can appreciate the good and positive attitudes they are trying to instill...

Nov 12, 2017 10:10 PM #25
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Kat Palmiotti
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I agree about truth, and I also agree there are ways to say things truthfully and tactfully at the same time.

 

Nov 13, 2017 03:31 AM #26
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I really liked what you said about "self discovery" by asking questions and the truth reveals itself through the questions, as they discover the truth.

Nov 13, 2017 04:35 AM #27
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Love your message and method of working to help others find the truth.  That's a very powerful skill! 

Nov 14, 2017 08:45 AM #28
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Sharon Tara
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This brought back a funny memory for me. Long ago when I was just dating my husband...

my sister (only a teen at the time) asked how her pants looked. 

He told her the truth. Something about them not looking great or making her look big or something.

She threw a fit and let him have it.

He learned a huge lesson that day. LOL

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I completely agree. Telling the truth in a constructive, kind way is a skill that is extremely valuable. Thank you for sharing!

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