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Give of Your Time and Talents ~ You Will Be Blessed

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Real Estate Agent with Front Gate Real Estate Broker 11085

With the holiday season around the corner, many individuals in nursing homes are forgotten, so what can we do to spread joy at this time of year? There is always an opportunity if we look for it. 

 

I stopped at a nearby retirement home and approached the activities director about whether they had Sunday church services and if anyone played the piano. She cocked her head to ask if I was interested. My skills are rusty, but I replied affirmatively. She handed me the activity calendar to select a date for my debut.

 

As I left her office, I heard piano music wafting through the hall, so I inquired about it.

Lady on Piano 

The Activities Director informed me that a 106 year old resident was given carte blanche to play whenever she wanted. The lamp in the photo was brought from home so she could read the music.

 

I cannot tell you how uplifting it was to hear her play. Despite her advanced age, her fingers tickled the ivories.

 

When she left for Bingo, I timidly approached the piano and softly began to practice. There were a few blunders but no-one seemed to care.

 Be Home By Christmas

This is not what I expected. I went to the nursing home to volunteer my time and meager talent, but walked out inspired and blessed.

 

We should use our talents while we can, as long as we can, and not squander them. If a 106-year old lady can still play the piano, imagine what WE can do if we put our minds and talents to it.

 

 

 

#payitforward2017

Comments(72)

Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Hi Pat

Music can be so uplifting and no doubt there are many who appreciate you. What fun to see and her that 106 year old enjoying what she loves to do!

Congratulations on your well-deserving win.

Have a terrific weekend.

Jef

Dec 01, 2017 10:52 AM
Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

Congratulations.  I thought to myself YOU WIN when your post touched my heart when I read it.

Dec 01, 2017 12:32 PM
Pat Starnes-Front Gate Realty
Front Gate Real Estate - Brandon, MS
601-991-2900 Office; 601-278-4513 Cell

Belinda Spillman ~ I am thrilled and honored to have won second place in the contest. I'm really excited because it's my first time to win! Thank you so much. Now I'm off to read your post and to see who else won and took honors. Thanks for sponsoring this contest and thanks for lending your time to put it all together.

Dec 01, 2017 01:20 PM
Silvia Dukes PA, Broker Associate, CRS, CIPS, SRES
Tropic Shores Realty - Ich spreche Deutsch! - Spring Hill, FL
Florida Waterfront and Country Club Living

Pat, I loved your story and am very happy for you to have been placed in the winners circle!  Congratulations, well deserved!

Dec 01, 2017 02:13 PM
Gene Mock
Associate Broker ~ Premier Team, KW Realty - Leesburg, VA
GRI, CRB, CRS, ABR, CIPS, TRC, SFR, SRES

What a wonderful story.  We lost my mother-in-law on Easter Sunday at the age of 95.  She was still playing the violin that I gave her 26 years ago within days of her pasting.  Great minds!

Dec 01, 2017 06:44 PM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400
HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 - Pikesville, MD
Sell Your Home With Margaret Rome

Congratulations on a well deserved win. You make us all proud!

Dec 01, 2017 07:24 PM
Scott Seaton Jr. SLS Home Insp
SLS Home Inspections-Kankakee Will Iroquois Grundy Counties - Bourbonnais, IL
The Home Inspector With a Heart!

I love nursing homes. So much to learn and so much appreciation whenever they get visits

Dec 01, 2017 07:40 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Oh, I love this story, Pat! Very well said and point taken too!

Congratulations on your win - well-deserved, Pat!

Dec 01, 2017 09:43 PM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good morning Pat Starnes, Brandon, MS ,

I read this post when you first wrote it and new it would be a winner. I love your story..what a wonderful experience. Congratulations a well deserved win!

Dec 02, 2017 04:51 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Good morning Pat. What a lovely thing to do and I am sure you are appreciated. I love the lady with the lamp. Inspiring for sure.

Dec 02, 2017 07:26 AM
Hannah Williams
HomeStarr Realty - Philadelphia, PA
Expertise NE Philadelphia & Bucks 215-820-3376

Great story Pat Starnes, Brandon, MS  missed this when it was Featured but so excited you came in second place in the contest . well deserved

Dec 02, 2017 08:16 AM
Pat Starnes-Front Gate Realty
Front Gate Real Estate - Brandon, MS
601-991-2900 Office; 601-278-4513 Cell

Gene Mock ~ I'm sorry for the loss of your mother in law. These elders are so talented and sometimes forgotten, but they have much to offer and oh my goodness, the stories they can share.

Thank you sweet Hannah Williams . I was surprised to place in the contest but of course excited about it. :)

 

Dec 02, 2017 08:27 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

Congrats Pat for taking SECOND PLACE in the AR Pay It Forward Challenge. There has always been a soft spot in my heart for older people. They have a lot of wisdom, are comfortable in their skins but also may be the segment of the population that is sometimes set aside or pushed into a corner and ignored. I have taken line dancing lessons at the local Senior Center and an 86 year old was dancing cirlcles around me. I loved it!

Dec 03, 2017 11:27 AM
Lottie Kendall
Compass - San Francisco, CA
Helping make your real estate dreams a reality

Hi Pat - what a lovely story you shared with us. How did your piano debut go? Funny how we often get more out of it than we give.

Dec 04, 2017 08:29 AM
Pat Starnes-Front Gate Realty
Front Gate Real Estate - Brandon, MS
601-991-2900 Office; 601-278-4513 Cell

Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can! - our seniors know how to DANCE! It's so much fun to swing dance with those who do it so proficiently. They make even the novice look great, speaking from personal experience, of course.

Lottie Kendall ~ I played to a small group on Thanksgiving Day, Honey, his mom, and her sitter. Honey sang while Mom hummed along. Despite my mistakes, they all seemed to enjoy it.

Dec 04, 2017 09:37 AM
Jan Green - Scottsdale, AZ
Value Added Service, 602-620-2699 - Scottsdale, AZ
HomeSmart Elite Group, REALTOR®, EcoBroker, GREEN

Congratulationso on your second place win for the Pay it Forward contest! What a gift you give to others when you play.  Good for you!  Happy Holidays!

Dec 07, 2017 07:00 AM
Rebecca Gaujot, Realtor®
Lewisburg, WV
Lewisburg WV, the go to agent for all real estate

Pat, a great story. Congratulations on being a winner of the thankful challenge!  Definitely well deserved! 

Dec 07, 2017 09:17 PM
Steffy Hristova
HomeSmart Elite Group Tempe AZ Tel: 602.710.8161 - Tempe, AZ
Tempe AZ Realtor - Your Home Close to Your Work!

Hi Pat, what an inspiring story! 106 years of age and performing on the piano!

Dec 09, 2017 07:56 AM
Gayle Rich-Boxman Fishhawk Lake Real Estate
John L Scott Market Center - Birkenfeld, OR
"Your Local Expert!" 503-739-3843

Oh, Pat, there are SO many inspirational people in assisted living, and other long term care residences! To be 106 and still making a difference, WOW!! And I hope that she learned of how you were touched by her. 

I worked in long term care for 10 years and learned so much from older people--I have always gravitated toward them! Most of the ego stuff has dropped away, to find there is a fine human still in there and vital to the world. 

Dec 18, 2017 03:09 PM
Sybil Campbell
Fernandina Beach, FL
Referral Agent Amelia Island Florida

Pat, what an inspirational post, thanks for sharing ways we can reach out to the elderly in nursing homes.

Dec 20, 2017 10:59 AM