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Real Estate Agent with Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 UT DRE# 6541633-SA00

YOU talkin’ to ME?!

 

"I was unsure because you're glancing erratically at the screen of your phone, as if you’re expecting important information to come in."

 

When meeting with clients face-to-face, give them all of your attention.

  • Turn the phone off
  • Put everything else aside
  • Focus on being present

 

We are connected to our phones, constantly monitoring for new business information, a text, an e-mail or voice message. It can wait. Give clients in the here and now your undivided attention without unnecessary distractions, it is the least you can do for their sake.

 

Did I get your attention?...And yes, I'm talkin' to you!

 

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Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

Kat Palmiotti, How stinking rude he was for ignoring you and playing up to his phone! WOW, just WOW.

Nov 11, 2017 01:45 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

Yes, there are exceptions, we all have lives beyond business. Thank you for your insight Betsy N. Robinson - Serving the Sandhills, NC, much appreciated!

Nov 11, 2017 01:46 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

My clients will take calls and text during lulls when showing homes. They respectfully put the phone away when discussing important aspects of business, thankfully Chris Lima.

Nov 11, 2017 01:48 PM
Chris Lima
Yes, thankfully the majority understand the concept. However, I see signs in the Dr's office that discourages the use of cell phones as well as laws that prohibit the use of our phones while driving....."Houston, we have a problem." Oh, and the best example is the people that answer in church.....REALLY!?
Nov 11, 2017 05:16 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

Oh my gosh Shirley Coomer, My husband and I were out for dinner last week and almost every diner had their phones out scrolling...a little 18 month old was watching a movie! Crazy to think these people do not converse while sharing a meal out together. Why even go together?

Nov 11, 2017 01:51 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

Thank you so much Sheila Anderson, I felt the need for it to be said!

Nov 11, 2017 01:52 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

The art of conversation is getting lost through texting, emailing and social media. Smiley or sad face emoticons, thumbs up clip art or ROTFL-type acronyms just do not compare to the real thing Richie Alan Naggar

Nov 11, 2017 01:56 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

Thanks for that Richard Bazinet /MBA, CRS, ABR, it's true and can go a long way toward cementing  and bettering relationships!

Nov 11, 2017 01:57 PM
Michael Eisenberg
eXp Realty - Bellingham, WA
Bellingham Real Estate Guy

Conversation with those we are with should be our number 1 priority, sadly it often takes 2nd position to our phones. I'll always defer phone calls while I'm with clients.

Nov 11, 2017 02:00 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

I agree with you COMPLETELY, Wanda! If you ever call my phone, you will hear a message that relays this exact school of thought. Those in front of us take precedence - always!

Have a great Saturday, Wanda!

Nov 11, 2017 02:06 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

Yes, I do agree with Richie as well Margaret Goss. You can miss so much when not completely attentive and things can go downhill fast from there! 

Nov 11, 2017 02:30 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

That is respect and I do the same. I have a feature on my phone that will not allow incoming calls or texts when driving as well John Wiley

Nov 11, 2017 02:35 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

That is a very respectful practice Michael Eisenberg. Well done! 

Nov 11, 2017 02:37 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

With you on this Debe Maxwell, CRS. If I am available, I will answer the phone, if not leave a message...BEEP!

Nov 11, 2017 02:38 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!

p.s. Have a fantastic weekend yourself!

Nov 11, 2017 02:38 PM
Corey Martin
Martin Presence Group - Ruston, LA
Real Estate and Management Solutions

Being present is great advice for everyone always. I am always surprised to see the number of people sitting right next to eachother with their phones out who don't say a single thing to eachother. Electronics seem to be taking the human side out of humanity. Thanks for sharing. I hope you have a great weekend. 

Nov 11, 2017 05:42 PM
Jennifer Fivelsdal
JFIVE Home Realty LLC | 845-758-6842|162 Deer Run Rd Red Hook NY 12571 - Rhinebeck, NY
Mid Hudson Valley real estate connection

Wanda, I agree, focus on what you are doing and block out the distraction.

Nov 11, 2017 09:51 PM
Barbara Altieri
Better Homes and Gardens RE Shore and Country Properties - Shelton, CT
REALTOR-Fairfield County CT Homes/Condos For Sale

Wanda -- From what I see it's getting worse.  Just in the last day I was almost run into as I was walking in the mall by two women texting and walking.  There was actually physical contact. Then went out to eat and told my husband to take a look at another table.  Four people.  All on their phones.. texting, reading, whatever. No conversation.  It's annoying when I am with someone and that person is constantly checking the phone. I always put mine away when with clients.  It's just rude to not give full attention.

Nov 12, 2017 07:08 PM
Jan Green - Scottsdale, AZ
Value Added Service, 602-620-2699 - Scottsdale, AZ
HomeSmart Elite Group, REALTOR®, EcoBroker, GREEN

You are so right!  People are glued to their phones constantly!

Nov 12, 2017 07:29 PM
Athina Boukas
Virginia Capital Realty - Richmond, VA
Certified Residential Specialist (CRS)

It never ceases to amaze me: people answer or look at their cell phones during one on one meetings and interviews.

I had one interviewee (when I was a sales manager for a builder) reach into her handbag and answer her phone not once but twice during the interview.  

Nov 12, 2017 08:27 PM
Tony and Suzanne Marriott, Associate Brokers
Serving the Greater Phoenix and Scottsdale Metropolitan Area - Scottsdale, AZ
Haven Express @ Keller Williams Arizona Realty

Wanda Kubat-Nerdin "When meeting with clients face-to-face, give them all of your attention.

Turn the phone off

Put everything else aside

Focus on being present"

Right on target - and - re-blog!

Nov 18, 2017 02:47 AM
Sally K. & David L. Hanson
EXP Realty 414-525-0563 - Brookfield, WI
WI Real Estate Agents - Luxury - Divorce

FOCUS....make every client feel as though they are your ONLY client !

Nov 18, 2017 03:38 AM