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Countdown to Thanksgiving--thankful to be cancer free again

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Real Estate Agent with Compass CA DRE# 01215160

Twenty-four years after having my first bout with breast cancer, I was quite shocked in February to learn I had a second occurrence. 

In an instant, life changed and became a whirlwind of doctor appointments, tests, more tests, decisions to be made, action to be taken, treatment course to be planned. A diagnosis of cancer definitely takes over life for a bit, and keeping other facets of life moving forward is a challenge, but not an insurmountable one.

With wonderful support of family and friends, I managed, and am now cancer free once again.

with family, end-of-chemo partyI'm Thankful:

  • for my family who went with me to those early appointments where I was bombarded with information that I couldn't retain;
  • for my husband, Gene, who would drive me to oncology  and other appointments when I no longer had the energy to walk to them;
  • for Gene, daughter Susan and granddaughter Rachael for the healthy, nutritious meals they would cook and beverages they'd prepare to entice me to drink and eat well when my taste buds weren't cooperating;
  • for the rest of my family and friends for their support and consideration; the phone calls to check in on me, the guided meditation sessions, the cards, shortening and slowing hikes to accommodate my needs;
  • for family who planned an end-of-chemo party and the friends who attended;
  • for the medical community here in San Francisco who jumped into action when action was needed; who helped me plot my course; who always treated me with care and great competence.

on the trek to Machu PicchuI'm Thankful:

  • for having been able to continue working (between naps!) - to counsel buyers and sellers and continue to list and sell property, hold open houses, negotiate contracts;
  • for being able to squeeze in my long-awaited trip to Peru and the 4-day trek to Machu Picchu between my surgery and the start of chemo. It was tough, but magnificent, and the memories helped carry me though the chemo;
  • that my chemo ended almost a month ago!

I'm Thankful:

  • for being able to once again enjoy a big glass of water without feeling nauseated;
  • for being able to resume my yoga and Pilates--even though my energy is not fully back, I'm no longer dizzy when I bend!;
  • for being able to join in exercise classes at the YMCA, for hiking with Gene and with friends (my challenge: not to over-extend myself; to get extra rest; to help my immune system repair itself.)

I'm thankful to be cancer-free and for life itself!

 

M.C. Dwyer
Melody Russell Team at eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Felton, CA
MC Dwyer-Santa Cruz Mountains Property Specialist

What a wonderful thanksgiving post, Lottie.     So glad you squeezed your trip in to the middle of treatment.    I also am a BC survivor: surgery last December followed by chemo and radiation ending in August of this year.    My hubby and I traveled to see the total eclipse to celebrate finishing treatment.      You and I have a lot to be greatful for.

Nov 24, 2017 06:29 PM
Lou Ludwig
Ludwig & Associates - Boca Raton, FL
Designations Earned CRB, CRS, CIPS, GRI, SRES, TRC

Lottie

Your prays have been answered . . . . enjoy life.

Good luck and success.

Lou Ludwig

Nov 24, 2017 07:31 PM
Lottie Kendall
Compass - San Francisco, CA
Helping make your real estate dreams a reality

Hello M.C. Dwyer - my goodness, our health paths are similar. We do, indeed, have a lot for which to be grateful. Here's to our continued good health!!!

Lou Ludwig - yes, without a doubt my prayers have been answered. I plan to continue exploring and appreciating life for many, many year. 

Nov 24, 2017 09:45 PM
Lise Howe
Keller Williams Capital Properties - Washington, DC
Assoc. Broker in DC, MD, VA and attorney in DC

Lottie Kendall - I am so sorry that you had to go through this again - I went through breast cancer more than 15 years ago - i would hate to have to start that over again - glad you got your trip in to Macchu Picchu! 

Nov 25, 2017 05:15 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Hi Lottie! What an inspiration you are! Still working through this not only shows the strength that I'm sure you didn't think you had but, also helped get you through this! You are amazing!

I'm so happy to hear that you are cancer-free once again. You do have so much to be thankful for and we are thankful for you as well.

Nov 25, 2017 06:21 AM
Steven Nickens
Hawaii Life Real Estate Brokers - Wailea, HI
R(S)GRI ABR, Maui Real Estate Hawaii

Lottie, so happy for you. You have a strong spirit to live, enjoy the things in life that inspires you.  Thanks for the inspiration and God Bless you.

 
Nov 25, 2017 08:54 AM
Lottie Kendall
Compass - San Francisco, CA
Helping make your real estate dreams a reality

Good morning, Lise Howe - 15 years is good; remain vigilant. I was quite surprised after 24 years to have cancer make another appearance.

Hello Debe Maxwell, CRS -- my zest for living never left, and helped me get through the chemo, which I must say I didn't enjoy  I am a fortunate person, and very grateful.

Hi Steven Nickens - thanks for your good wishes, Steven. I have lots of living still to do and am planning to do just that! I hope you're having a great Thanksgiving weekend.

Nov 25, 2017 09:35 AM
Maureen Bray Portland OR Home Stager ~ Room Solutions Staging
Room Solutions Staging, Portland OR - Portland, OR
"Staging Consultations that Sell Portland Homes"

Congratulations Lottie on your excellent news, and thank you for sharing your journey with us.  Your post will give hope to others who are facing health challenges.  You also provided a number of great tips to those going through a health crisis, even if you didn't realize you were doing that.  I'm sure that your Thanksgiving celebration was extra-special this year!

Nov 25, 2017 11:36 AM
Lottie Kendall
Compass - San Francisco, CA
Helping make your real estate dreams a reality

Hello Maureen Bray Portland OR Home Stager ~ Room Solutions Staging - the reason I wrote about my cancer recovery journey is, as you said, to share hope and let people know that one can cope with a health crisis like mine. I can't thank my family and friends enough for being a strong support group. 

Nov 25, 2017 11:43 AM
Silvia Dukes PA, Broker Associate, CRS, CIPS, SRES
Tropic Shores Realty - Ich spreche Deutsch! - Spring Hill, FL
Florida Waterfront and Country Club Living

Lottie, that is wonderful news! I'm glad you were able to still enjoy life with the recurring diagnosis. 

Nov 25, 2017 06:08 PM
Lottie Kendall
Compass - San Francisco, CA
Helping make your real estate dreams a reality

Hi Silvia Dukes PA, Broker Associate, CRS, CIPS, SRES - thanks for your kind comment. Remember the adage, we can't change what happens, but can change how we respond to it. The only way for me was to keep working and playing as best I could. It worked! I hope you're having a wonderful holiday weekend.

Nov 25, 2017 06:56 PM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

What a wonderful thanksgiving post! I am glad you had such a wonderful support system, and were able to continue to work and travel. And most of all, that you are cancer-free again. What a great outcome!

Nov 26, 2017 03:50 AM
Lottie Kendall
Compass - San Francisco, CA
Helping make your real estate dreams a reality

Thank you, Kat Palmiotti - my support system was phenomenal, the outcome is great, and I'm well. You can believe my Thanksgiving was extra special this year.

 

Nov 26, 2017 10:16 AM
Yolanda Cordova-Gilbert
Richmond, TX

Lottie,

 I had no idea! I an thankful too that you are cancer free. Wow a 24 year span. I hope you had a wonderful Thanksgiving and that you to Peru! Good for you I want to Machu Pichu.

Nov 26, 2017 01:57 PM
Lottie Kendall
Compass - San Francisco, CA
Helping make your real estate dreams a reality

Hi Yolanda Cordova-Gilbert - thanks for your good wishes. This Thanksgiving was especially sweet, and we all have had a great weekend--great family time, good exercise and a house sold last night--all things to be appreciated.

The trek to Machu Picchu was amazing; memories are with me forever.

I hope you and Bob have had an equally nice weekend.

Nov 26, 2017 02:15 PM
Cynthia Larsen
Cotati, CA
Independent Broker In Sonoma County, CA

I'm sorry you had to go through that twice, let alone once! So thankful you are cancer free, what a wonderful holiday gift.

Nov 27, 2017 01:48 PM
Lottie Kendall
Compass - San Francisco, CA
Helping make your real estate dreams a reality

Hi Cynthia Larsen - as you might imagine, Thanksgiving  for me and my family was especially delightful this year. I hope you fared well when the fires raged. Good thing we're tough!!

Nov 27, 2017 06:17 PM
Cynthia Larsen

I still have my home, but I have many friends who lost theirs. It was extremely stressful, never want to go through that again. I'm glad you had more "thanks" in your Thanksgiving than usual this year.

Nov 27, 2017 06:45 PM
Debbie Reynolds, C21 Platinum Properties
Platinum Properties- (931)771-9070 - Clarksville, TN
The Dedicated Clarksville TN Realtor-(931)320-6730

Oh, what a blessing, Lottie. I hope you have beat it for good, never to hear from it again. You have a loving and supportive family.

Dec 03, 2017 07:07 PM
Lottie Kendall
Compass - San Francisco, CA
Helping make your real estate dreams a reality

Hi Debbie Reynolds - Thanks for your good wishes; I feel completely healthy and know I am cancer free -- a good feeling. Family makes all the difference.

Dec 04, 2017 07:26 AM
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