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Look On the Bright Side Day is December 21!

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Home Stager

Look On the Bright Side Day is December 21st!

 

Now, this is my kind of day! Naturally, I have no idea of its origin attitudebut what does it matter?!

 

Just the other day, we were having a conversation at breakfast with some friends.  I don’t even remember the topic but my thought was that since we would have no way of knowing the outcome of something, I chose to think that it all turned out well.

Whatever I thought would have no impact on the subject but could impact my day.

No, I’m not a (total) Pollyanna but while I try to be practical and logical in my thinking...when given a choice, I choose to Look on the Bright Side.

It’s a choice I make every day of my life. Admittedly, some days are harder than others, and some particular situations are downright difficult to keep that Bright Side lit up.

But what good does it do seek out and well in that place called Negativity?

 

Besides, being positive (looking on the bright side) is healthier for you psychologically and physically. Blood pressure stays down, depression can be kept at bay...all good things!

 

That said, it is well known that the holidays can be hard for many. As much as we like to think of our wonderful holiday memories, there are many who may be experiencing quite the opposite.

So if you can, try helping them look on the bright side this holiday. Give them a call, invite them to dinner or lunch. What about taking over some baked goods to them?

When a friend was going through a divorce during the holidays many years ago, we invited him to stay with us. He decorated his first Christmas tree with us and then we dragged him out to look at Christmas lights. Well, while he may not have been looking at the full 100-watt bright side of life, I think we were able to get him up to good 60 watts.

 

And on that note...I’ll leave you with several good notes...from Monty Python.

 

 

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Comments(27)

Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

There always seems to be a bright side and even through our most difficult times, it helps to remeber that there is a bright side to everything.

Dec 21, 2017 05:12 AM
Sally K. & David L. Hanson
EXP Realty 414-525-0563 - Brookfield, WI
WI Real Estate Agents - Luxury - Divorce

It's always a choice and one we can make every day and in every way....and change ourselves and our corners of the world a little bit to the sunny side of thngs.

Dec 21, 2017 05:32 AM
Myrl Jeffcoat
Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Realtor - Retired

Monty Python - My kids loved him when they were growing up at home.  I love the video.

Dec 21, 2017 05:34 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Good morning Kathy. We are creatures of habit and it takes work to change behaviors. Merry Christmas.

Dec 21, 2017 06:32 AM
Debb Janes
Nature As Neighbors - Camas, WA
Put My Love of Nature At Work for You

Here's another bright side thought - today is the shortest day of the year and tomorrow we start gaining daylight. 

Thanks for the  Monty Python. Love it. ;) 

Dec 21, 2017 07:46 AM
Lottie Kendall
Compass - San Francisco, CA
Helping make your real estate dreams a reality

Kathy -- you always find the best ways to illustrate your points. I'm sitting here smiling watching that silly Monty Python video!! 

Dec 21, 2017 07:56 AM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Kathy,

Love the Monthy Python, and we occasional sing that song.  We have already had more daylight and expect even more as the shortest day of the year is here. A

Dec 21, 2017 08:11 AM
Gita Bantwal
RE/MAX Centre Realtors - Warwick, PA
REALTOR,ABR,CRS,SRES,GRI - Bucks County & Philadel

I love your post and the video.thank you for sharing

Dec 21, 2017 09:15 AM
Susan Haughton
Long and Foster REALTORS (703) 470-4545 - Alexandria, VA
Susan & Mindy Team...Honesty. Integrity. Results.

I have the same approach!  I try to look at the bright side of every situation and give the benefit of the doubt until proven wrong.  It makes me happier for sure!

Dec 21, 2017 02:59 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Sharon Lee absolutely! It's a lot easier on our mind and bodies. 

Richard and Beth Witt I know you do from your always uplifting posts!

James Dray you've got that right. Better than being 6 feet under. 

 

Dec 21, 2017 04:17 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Thank you Wayne Martin Start each day with a smile!  

Donald Urschalitz we just need to open our eyes and see so much good going on. 

Joe Pryor on the positive side, you have a second home where it's warm and you're fixing it up to be just what you want. 

Dec 21, 2017 04:21 PM
Silvia Dukes PA, Broker Associate, CRS, CIPS, SRES
Tropic Shores Realty - Ich spreche Deutsch! - Spring Hill, FL
Florida Waterfront and Country Club Living

Kathy, everything has it's pros and cons, the way we look at things and act upon them, can make all the difference.

Dec 21, 2017 04:43 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

HI Brenda Mayette I agree...glass half full always works for me!

Brian England I agree with you...even though it may be harder at times, we have to try to find the silver lining. 

Sally K. & David L. Hanson we have choices and we can make them. For me, I choose to be happy and positive. 

Dec 21, 2017 04:47 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Myrl Jeffcoat Same here!  I've been humming that song all day. 

Sheila Anderson  Merry Christmas to you. Attitude is everything!!!

Debb Janes EcoBroker and Bernie Stea JD now that's music to my ears!!!!!

 

Dec 21, 2017 04:55 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Hi Lottie Kendall Thank you!!!  I love watching that video. 

Ron and Alexandra Seigel Larry and I took a walk after dinner last night and we were wondering when the days would start to get longer again!!! Thank goodness. 

Hi Gita Bantwal I'm so glad that you liked it!!

Dec 21, 2017 04:59 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

I agree, Susan Haughton if for no other reason, do it for yourself!!!   We  deserve it. 

Silvia Dukes PA, Broker Associate, CRS, CIPS, SRES our attitude makes a huge difference. 

Dec 21, 2017 05:04 PM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 FHA, CHFA, VA Mortgages - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Kathy the world needs more of the positive attitude you project.

Dec 21, 2017 05:38 PM
Sheri Sperry - MCNE®
Coldwell Banker Realty - Sedona, AZ
(928) 274-7355 ~ YOUR Solutions REALTOR®

HI Kathy Streib - just like today... the first day of winter.  Many think - it is the shortest day of the year and nothing but cold and snow. I see... days are getting longer and Spring is on the way... Attitude is everything!

Dec 21, 2017 07:48 PM
Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
Retired New Hampshire Home Stager

Thank you for the much needed reminder, Kathy! I do find myself leaning toward the negative more often lately than the positive. I do have to fix that!

Dec 22, 2017 05:39 AM
Kristin Johnston - REALTOR®
RE/MAX Platinum - Waukesha, WI
Giving Back With Each Home Sold!

ANother great post and I am sorry I am getting to it late, but so glad I didnt miss it!

Dec 23, 2017 07:31 AM