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It is Better to Light a Candle Than to Curse the Darkness

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It is Better to Light a Candle Than to Curse the Darkness

 

 white  candle   I researched this quote this morning to find it's author....it has been attributed to many people from Confucious to John F. Kennedy....in my sleeplessness....I thought it one that Lou Ludwig would have authored as well....he was the bright light in many of our days as we read through the posts on Active Rain.

       In my family home....and since in our own home when you wish someone well...you light a white candle. My Mother did it when someone  had an exam...a job interview, wasn't feeling well.  White candles, some people will tell you symbolizes the cleansing and protection of the body  providing peace and comfort to your spiritual side.   When you extinguish a white candle, the smoke signifies the release of negative thoughts.  Whether you choose to believe in this sort of practice or not...to me, there is great comfort in this symbolism..maybe because it was a family practice long before reading about color therapy...and maybe you will find it comforting as well.

      I can close my eyes and imagine that if each person wcandles manyho reads this...chooses to share or reblog it...would light a candle  how much brighter the whole world would be...starting with just one candle being lit.

     I am choosing to light our candle today in honor of the memory of  Lou Ludwig , a member of our community who contributed a guiding light for many of us, a positive energy to begin our day, thoughts that are timeless to share with others....choose to join me if you wish..and know that every bright light begins with a single candle. You have the power to ignite it. May you find comfort in his memory,  wisdom in his words and tranquility in knowing he is at peace having left us with many wonderful gifts unique to the person he was, serving as an icon and model for many people.  And so it is.

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Sally K. & David L. Hanson, ABR, CDPE, CSS, e-Pro,ILHM, REDS


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Gita Bantwal
RE/MAX Centre Realtors - Warwick, PA
REALTOR,ABR,CRS,SRES,GRI - Bucks County & Philadel

Sally, Lou will be missed. This is a beautiful post in his memory. Thank you for sharing the tradition of lighting a white candle.

Dec 24, 2017 05:07 PM
Jan Green - Scottsdale, AZ
Value Added Service, 602-620-2699 - Scottsdale, AZ
HomeSmart Elite Group, REALTOR®, EcoBroker, GREEN

I am so sorry to hear of Lou's passing.  Something or someone tugged at my heart strings to turn on AR and read this post.  I loved reading his posts as they were always heart felt and hit home.  He will be greatly missed!

Dec 24, 2017 06:02 PM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 FHA, CHFA, VA Mortgages - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Sally and David you have chosen a special way to honor Lou.

Dec 24, 2017 07:12 PM
Robert Vegas Bob Swetz
Las Vegas, NV

Nice post and Lou was my buddy ;o(

Dec 24, 2017 08:22 PM
Endre Barath, Jr.
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices California Properties - Beverly Hills, CA
Realtor - Los Angeles Home Sales 310.486.1002

Sally & David, I was in shock when I first heard the news, now I just miss him terribly, he was such an asset to this platform, Endre

Dec 24, 2017 09:23 PM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

xYou can’t solve a problem by condemning it and you can’t heal pain with more pain

Dec 24, 2017 10:40 PM
Elyse Berman, PA
LoKation Real Estate - Boca Raton, FL
Boca Raton FL (561) 716-7824

Sally,  What a beautiful post and tribute to Lou.  He was such an inspiration to so many of us.  I didn't grow up with the tradition of lighting candles, but it looks warm and beautiful.

Dec 25, 2017 03:41 AM
Scott Godzyk
Godzyk Real Estate Services - Manchester, NH
One of the Manchester NH's area Leading Agents

That was very touching and i enjoyed learning the meaning and message Sally K. & David L. Hanson 

Dec 25, 2017 05:52 AM
Nathan Gesner
American West Realty and Management - Cody, WY
Broker / Property Manager

Thank you for sharing this. Lou will be sorely missed.

Dec 25, 2017 06:23 AM
Robin Wells
WellSwept Chimneys - Victoria Harbour, ON
Giving Peace Of Mind One Chimney At A Time

Great Post.  Thanks.  Lou was one of many great contributors on here.  However, the place is not the same .. and we miss Lou being with us.  Have a great 2018.

Dec 25, 2017 09:01 AM
John Juarez
The Medford Real Estate Team - Fremont, CA
ePRO, SRES, GRI, PMN

Lou made - and has left - a positive impression on so many. He and his wise words will be missed. 

Dec 25, 2017 10:49 AM
Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

When I saw your headline I knew it looked familiar, it was a quote I shared on my FB page not so long ago.

What a lovely quote to remember Lou.

Dec 26, 2017 12:00 PM
Mike Reyman
eXp Realty - Media, PA
Delaware County Real Estate

What a heartfelt tribute by Sally K. & David L. Hanson.  Rest in peace Lou and may God have mercy on us all.   I am grateful for this community.

Dec 26, 2017 01:53 PM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Hi Sally and David

What a wonderful thought, whether one lights an actual candle or does so symbolically or in thought. I'm sorry to have missed this Christmas Eve - we had several white candles burning at our dinner table and in the house for that festive evening.

Jeff

Dec 27, 2017 08:36 AM
Maureen Bray Portland OR Home Stager ~ Room Solutions Staging
Room Solutions Staging, Portland OR - Portland, OR
"Staging Consultations that Sell Portland Homes"

Lighting white candles has been a new routine for me this Christmas ... they're beautiful and symbolize hope and peace for all of us in this troubled world.  I hope everyone reading your post will follow suit.

Dec 27, 2017 06:07 PM
John Wiley
Fort Myers, FL
Lee County, FL, ECO Broker, GRI, SRES,GREEN,PSA

With so many members on Active Rain it would seem that the passing of one member might go unnoticed. Thank you for making sure that Lou is remembered. 

We have benefited from his encouragement and the way he brought light into our lives.

 

Dec 28, 2017 06:39 AM
Marte Cliff
Marte Cliff Copywriting - Priest River, ID
Your real estate writer

I love your family tradition. Wonder if I have any white candles in the house...

Dec 28, 2017 02:10 PM
Mary Hutchison, SRES, ABR
Better Homes and Gardens Real Estate-Kansas City Homes - Kansas City, MO
Experienced Agent in Kansas City Metro area

What a beautiful post. I've not heard of that tradition but it's so memorable!  RIP Lou.

Dec 29, 2017 12:15 PM
Beth Atalay
Cam Realty and Property Management - Clermont, FL
Cam Realty of Clermont FL

Sally and David, this is such a beautiful post and a great way to remember Lou. 

Dec 30, 2017 07:11 AM
jameis falkcia

I really like this quote because I think that it showcases a positive way to live life. I also think that the addition of Scented Candles can add positivity to one's life. Scented Candles are pretty special.

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