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Under the Refrigerator........

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Services for Real Estate Pros with Referral Group Incorporated

When I first started in  real estate I had already two other careers: one in education and another in training for two different government agencies. I also waitress-ed at a time in my life when I should have known what I wanted to do when I grew up, particularly since I was a grown up.

So there I was in my thirties trying something new because carrying trays at eighteen was a lot easier than in my late thirties. I owned investment properties and was disappointed by the agents I worked with principally because they didn't listen and seldom acted in my interests.

And so I immediately knew that that there a lot more to being a good agent that simply passing a test and finding a place to hang my license.

When I came into the business, I was a good listener and a pretty good judge of character too. I knew what I didn't know but I also knew that there was no free lunch and I had to find some way or some one to follow. I had no mentor to learn from and if I were starting again today I would affirmatively find one. Within a few weeks of placing my license I was calling FSBO's and having others listen to me. What's wrong with this picture? Nothing really but I wish I had someone who could have helped me with the basics of writing a contract, filling in a listing, and insuring that I always had the best direction in presenting offers. I did not.

Did I ever think I had made a mistake in getting into real estate? The short answer is no I didn't. I had been an investor and knew what information I needed to make a good decision. What I didn't know were the regulations that impacted the purchase and sales. I learned these things on my own and I wish I had known them before doing business with clients and customers.

So what would I tell a new agent getting into the business today? 

1) Listen to everything you hear and then decide what feels right for you.

2) Don't wait for business to come your way: affirmatively search for it and don't let go until you cash the deal or have been told to go away and never come back.

3) And finally make sure to look under the refrigerator because there is often more than just lint and dirt there.

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When you think about real estate, it is time to focus. I have helped people for close to thirty years in all areas, and made the process not only simple but enjoyable. Why should you go it alone or settle for less? Call me and find a partner to help, direct and get you where you want to be.

Sheila Anderson

The Real Estate Whisperer...... Consultant, Trainer, Facilitator 732-715-1133

 

Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Thank you Hannah.     Sheila

Jan 05, 2018 12:28 PM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Hi Anna. I'm not a fan of bats and actually had them here. Under the refrigerator there is dirt but opportunity for growth too. TY      Sheila

Jan 05, 2018 12:30 PM
Paul S. Henderson, REALTOR®, CRS
Fathom Realty Washington LLC - Tacoma, WA
South Puget Sound Washington Agent/Broker!

I do search high and low for business and 2018 is looking real good so far. I'll check under the fridge Sheila Anderson 

Jan 05, 2018 10:56 PM
James Dray
Fathom Realty - Bentonville, AR

Morning Sheila.

Well I haven't checked under the fridge but, I have checked the cabinets making sure they were intact

Jan 06, 2018 02:19 AM
Patricia Feager, MBA, CRS, GRI,MRP
DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Selling Homes Changing Lives

Sheila Anderson - Thanks for sharing your story. All of us in this business had to start from somewhere and it's always interesting to learn a person's background. 

I hope the weather isn't as bad a it looks on my T.V. I checked on a friend of mine who lives on the Cape and was told, it wasn't as bad there as the Media made it sound. 

By the way, here in TX, everyone, says "hang your license," it's not an an age thing, it's what people say. Have a wonderful day!

Jan 06, 2018 03:32 AM
Joe Pryor
The Virtual Real Estate Team - Oklahoma City, OK
REALTOR® - Oklahoma Investment Properties

Besides the classic fridge the advice is spot on. Also use you power of observation.

Jan 06, 2018 05:20 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Thank you Paul and glad to hear it.     Sheila

Jan 06, 2018 06:04 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Thanks James. Good work.    Sheila

Jan 06, 2018 06:05 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Thanks Patricia. I never thought of the expression as age related. I'm in the western part of the state and our high today is two degrees.     Sheila

Jan 06, 2018 06:06 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Agreed Joe. TY       Sheila

Jan 06, 2018 06:07 AM
Debbie Reynolds, C21 Platinum Properties
Platinum Properties- (931)771-9070 - Clarksville, TN
The Dedicated Clarksville TN Realtor-(931)320-6730

Hi Sheila, I have cleaned behind and beside of refrigerators getting ready for open houses but failed to look under. :) I'd do things differently now if I was getting started. I felt lost as can be though I had an air of confidence and let's do it.

Jan 06, 2018 07:21 AM
Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
Retired New Hampshire Home Stager

Well done Sheila! You answered the questions and your information will be valuable to those just starting out!

Jan 06, 2018 07:49 AM
Gayle Rich-Boxman Fishhawk Lake Real Estate
John L Scott Market Center - Birkenfeld, OR
"Your Local Expert!" 503-739-3843

Oh, the mentor is HUGE in my book, Sheila. So, we have some things in common, as in restaurant work way past our expiration (!) and investing in properties, I bought my first house at 26 (getting out of an abusive relationship, thank God), and then becoming a realtor way far down the road (at 50). 

So, what ELSE is under the frig??

Jan 06, 2018 12:51 PM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Thank you Debbie.      Sheila

Jan 06, 2018 12:51 PM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Thanks very much Sharon.      Sheila

Jan 06, 2018 12:52 PM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Hi Gayle. There is a great deal under that refrigerator but you need to be flexible and strong to move it. TY      Sheila

Jan 06, 2018 12:53 PM
Georgie Hunter R(S) 58089
Hawai'i Life Real Estate Brokers - Haiku, HI
Maui Real Estate sales and lifestyle info

I once found something very important that had slipped under the fridge and was nowhere else to be found!  Now I remember to look there.

Jan 07, 2018 09:02 PM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400
HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 - Pikesville, MD
Sell Your Home With Margaret Rome

 

 

Good contest entry Sheila Anderson 

"Listen to everything you hear and then decide what feels right for you." 

And...always consider the source

Jan 10, 2018 09:31 PM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Hi Georgie. There are always lots of things under the refrigerator both figuratively and literally.

Jan 11, 2018 06:20 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Thank you Margaret.        Sheila

Jan 11, 2018 06:21 AM