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The Six Ghosts of Fear - Offspring of Indecision & Doubt

Your can make up your mind so make it free from worry and fear and be you.

Organek Food For Thought Dr. Joe Tichio Book Cover QuotesToday's daily dose of Organek Food for Thought combines Think and Grow Rich's Chapter 15 on The Six Ghosts of Fear and Uta Hagen's quote about not being a "People Pleaser".

"We must overcome the notion that we must become regular, it robs you of the chance to be extraordinary and leads you to the mediocre." - Uta Hagen

Quote #34 from Dr. Joe Tichio's book.

Greatest Inspirational Quotes: 365 days to more Happiness, Success, and Motivation

 

Less than 5 minutes to mash them together and today's was pretty easy.  Thank God!

Think And Grow Rich's "The Six Ghosts of Fear" - A Personal Inventory.

Indecision is the root of the Six Ghosts of Fear.  Indecision leads to doubt.  Then, doubt and indecision make the offspring FEAR.  Ponder it and make sure you believe it before you read on.  If you need help, consider that although you may not fear poverty now, if you did, how did it start off?  In order for you to be afraid of poverty you needed to start with a "What if?" question.  That led to you pondering and pondering the good and bad things that could happen.  Instead of taking action on a good thing, you may have just kept pondering...Indecision.  Then, during the period of indecision, if you kept the pondering and indecision up, you start to doubt that you can do the things that you know will keep you out of poverty...doubt.  When you start having doubts about success or your ability to achieve it, you have Fear.  At that point, the ghost of "Fear of Poverty" has you frozen.  Fortunately, it is only a state of mind and you can change it at will.

The Six Ghosts of Fear are:

1.  The fear of poverty

2.  The fear of criticism

3.  The fear of ill-health

4.  The fear of loss of love of someone

5.  The fear of old age

6.  The fear of death.

Change your mind.

The Quote of the Day:  "We must overcome the notion that we must become regular, it robs you of the chance to be extraordinary and leads you to the mediocre." - Uta Hagen

Individuality Organek Food for Thought Think and Grow RichDon't be a people pleaser.  It is up to you and your mind to be whom you want to be.  Why should you worry about what other people expect you to do?  Why should you act the way you think they want you to act?  When you are with a client, be you. 
If you don't, you will exhaust yourself quickly trying to remember what image you need for what person you are encountering.  Wouldn't it just be easier to be you?

The mash-up:  Don't be a "People Pleaser"!  You know you want to be who you want to be.  Make that choice and focus on being you.  Be you to your family.  Be you to your clients.  Be you to you!

What are your thoughts?

Please enjoy today's Organek Food for Thought.

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Posted by

Mark Organek

RE/MAX Excalibur

mark@monopolyman.com

www.monopolyman.com

Thank you for taking the time to read this post.  Hopefully one day we can interact or meet soon.

Mary Jo Quay
H360homes.com - Minneapolis, MN
I Move You Home

It grips us all, and keeps circling until we break that circle of thought 

Jan 29, 2018 09:15 PM
Mark Organek

Very well put Mary Jo.  It isn't until we snap out of the circle of thought.  I learned today that the key is to look for other traces of fear that are deeply rooted and hidden away.

Jan 29, 2018 09:33 PM
Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

I think the only thing I fear (and I don't dwell on it) is that I might outlive my children or grands and I really hope it doesn't happen.  Lots of young people have been lost in my family.

But I love your quote.  I've always said I "dare to be different".

PS- loved the puppies playing around behind you.

Jan 29, 2018 09:30 PM
Mark Organek

Tammy - I really liked the way you put both points.  I'm no philosopher and I just want to say that you outliving anyone will be based on the choices you make as everything else is out of your control.  I know you said you don't dwell on it.  I just really liked the way you put it and I hope what you fear isn't real.


I'm glad you dare to be different and you stay away from mediocrity.  Have an awesome week!

Jan 29, 2018 09:37 PM