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The Potential Buyers Talked to the Neighbors

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Real Estate Agent with Cedar Rapids/Iowa City, IA KW Legacy Group S44645

This happens quite a bit in my market.  The buyers see a home that they like and they naturally want to know everything that they can about the neighborhood.  This is definitely a buying signal!

 

Now for a real life example, Buyer comes through my listing with their agent.  Based on the agent's perception and conversation with the buyers at the end of the showing, he completed the feedback requested by ShowingTime.  His feedback was that the yard was a dealbreaker for them, but they really liked the house.  Less than an hour later, my seller called me.  They had talked to their neighbor.  The neighbor was out shoveling his driveway and the potential buyers stopped to talk to him after their agent had already left.  They told the neighbor that they loved the house and that they were planning to make an offer.  So my sellers knew more than the buyers' agent!  Several hours later, the agent contacted me to let me know that they were writing an offer, which I already knew, but I did not tell him that.  

Thumbs down lady

 

Long story short, the sellers and I knew WAY MORE about the buyer's situation than we should have.  We knew from the offer that their current home was under contract.  But we also knew why they were moving and that they had not been able to find any other homes that they could agree on.  Do you think that the seller accepted their initial offer?  Nope, they countered at a higher price because they knew that the buyers are in a difficult position with little to no other options.

 

When I represent buyers, this is why I educate them on things to say or not say, do or not do.  I don't want them all over social media talking about how much they love the house.  You never know how many "friends" that you and the sellers have in common.  I don't want them in the open house in front of the sellers' agent placing their furniture and gushing about the house.  If you do those things, be prepared to lose your ability to negotiate and you may pay more than you should. Just like talking to the neighbor who then tells the seller everything about you!  You just never know. 

 

Lesson learned and reaffirmed.  Mums the word until the paperwork is signed, accepted and delivered.  Then you can scream it from the top of the mountains!  There is a time and place for sharing your experiences and in this case, it is later!

 

Keep smiling!

 

Karen

 

 

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Karen Feltman, REALTOR®, ABR, AHS, CHMS,                                                                      CNE,CRS, e-Pro, green, GRI, SRES, TRC

Keller Williams Legacy Group

4850 Armar Drive SE Ste B

Cedar Rapids, Iowa 52403

Email: karenfeltman@gmail.com

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Gloria Valvasori, Accredited Senior Agent
BETTER HOMES AND GARDENS REAL ESTATE SIGNATURE SERVICE - Mississauga, ON
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Hi Karen Feltman this is a lesson I try to instill into my Buyers all the time.  Never talk to anyone about how much your love the house.. you could be putting yourself at a disadvantage when it comes to to submit an offer.

Feb 11, 2018 03:24 PM
Mary Jo Quay
H360homes.com - Minneapolis, MN
I Move You Home

Amen, good advice.  I once had an 88 year old widow who told everyone in church that she 'had to sell' her home.  The first family came over, and sighed, rolled their eyes about how much work it was. (1978 rambler on a half acre fronting a small recreational lake). Then the church manager came over, he used to be a plumber.  He offered the price of the land, complained about how much work he'd have to put into it. I thanked them both, then told the widow that I was going to duct tape her mouth. "Gracie, that last conversation in church almost cost your $75000. Say NOTHING, tell them to talk to me." I was happy to be able to tell both offers that we were in multiple offers, and if they were interested that they would have to increase their offers by $75-$100K. Then I told the widow not to tell anyone until after closing what we sold it for. That would be a sin, and make the other church goers very jealous, and they might say mean things about her. She really struggled to keep quiet.

Feb 11, 2018 04:09 PM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400
HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 - Pikesville, MD
Sell Your Home With Margaret Rome

Karen Feltman Loose lips helped you get the best price for the sellers. So to that I say congratulations!

Feb 12, 2018 01:40 PM