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I Don't Take Bad News Very Well. . .

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Real Estate Agent with RE/MAX Realty Services

I have always joked that if my Husband, Mike, left me I would be devastated, but if my assistant Maria left me I would be a mess.  Mike is staying and Maria is leaving me.  I am heart broken.  She is my right hand in everything that I do.  She makes my office and business run like a well oiled machine.  My Maria, that is what I call her.  I not only enjoy working with her, I just love her as a person as well.

On top of being dependable, smart and the cutest thing you have ever known she is in love.  She is going to move to Florida with her boyfriend at the end of July.  I just have to accept and understand these things.  We will start to look for her replacement soon and Maria will help train her replacement.

I just don't know if you can train someone to have heart?  Maria has a huge heart and that is part of why it will be so difficult for me to let her go.  I understand she needs to grow and explore new things, but I think they should be right here in Montgomery County Maryland, not Daytona Beach Florida.

I can truely say that Maria's help and support has helped me keep my business steady and on an even keel even during this market.  She does all of my marketing, keeping my name out in front of the masses so I may dedicate my time to caring for my clients. 

She is so wonderful, whenever I am on my way out the door, she has all the forms and information I need right on my desk ready for me to grab and go.  She is the best.

If you have never had an assistant, I will take this time to tell you they will make you more productive and usually more than pay for themselves.  You should explore the possibilities of hiring someone.

The next thing I will say is if you are an agent in the Daytona/ Ormond Beach area of Florida and are considering an assistant , or know someone who needs an assistnat, I have one to hand over on a Golden Platter, Maria Carpenter.  I am really sad to see her go. 

Donna Yates
BHGRE - Metro Brokers - Blue Ridge, GA
Blue Ridge Mountains

How true it is in the first comment left for you.  I wish Maria great success and happiness and I hope you are fortunate enough to find another gem to take her place.

May 21, 2008 09:51 AM
Audrey June-Forshey
RE/MAX Realty Services - Darnestown, MD
GRI, Gaithersburg, MD

Duane, I can't wait to tell Maria, she will be thrilled.  Thanks!

Donna, Jim said it perfect, didn't he?  She will be missed for sure.

May 21, 2008 10:46 AM
Cynthia Tilghman, Realtor® Onslow County NC Home Specialist
Kingsbridge Realty, Inc - Hubert, NC

June,
I am sorry for you but happy for Maria.  Your loss will certainly be someone else's gain.  Good luck to both of you. 

May 21, 2008 11:45 AM
Rebecca Levinson, Real Estate Marketing and Online Advertising Consultant
Real Skillz-Clear Marketing for Your Real Estate Vision - Lake Geneva, WI

Audrey,

Having lost my nanny in February I know how you feel.  It's like losing family.  But she read my post here on Active Rain and guess what, she might be coming back to us in the summer.  Things change, but sometimes things do change for the better.  Either way, I know you will be o.k.

May 21, 2008 03:19 PM
Lynn Johnson
Coldwell Banker Home Connection - Owatonna, MN
Owatonna, MN Real Estate

Audrey - Good luck with finding a great replacment for Maria.  She sounds like a perfect hand for your business.  Best wishes for both of you.

May 21, 2008 03:29 PM
Kathy McGraw
CELLing Realty - White Water, CA
Riverside County CA Real Estate

Audrey I just saw this....how sad that she is leaving.  Sad for you not her :)   Been there done that and still don't have my "maria' back yet after several years.....I keep hiring but it's hard to replace someone that is that efficient and learns your personality so well that they are an intrical part of your team.

May 21, 2008 06:34 PM
Audrey June-Forshey
RE/MAX Realty Services - Darnestown, MD
GRI, Gaithersburg, MD

Rebecca, I remember reading your post about your nanny.  Maria is like my kid, growing up and leaving the nest. . .  I will miss her.

Lynn, She finishes my sentences for me and already has my "stuff" ready for me as I am walking out the door?  Thanks for stopping by.

Kathy, I am sad for me too :).  I thought if one of the Daytona agents needs an assistant, she would be perfect.  I am afraid I will be like you and have a struggle to find the next "Maria".  Maria is so funny because she is out in force seeing if any of her friends with licenses would be interested in coming to work for me so she can train them.  I think she has already lined a few up?  See what I mean?

May 22, 2008 12:42 AM
Melody Botting
Broker Associate PenFed Realty - San Antonio, TX
You Deserve The Best

She sounds like a awesome person.  I know how hard it is to find someone like her.  I am sure you will survive it.  Good luck!

May 22, 2008 12:46 AM
Clint Miller
Real Estate Pipeline, Inc. - Missoula, MT

Good help is sooo hard to find...    I just lost my asst here at the office as well.  I will be hard pressed to find someone that has that skillset.

May 22, 2008 12:47 AM
Maria Carpenter
Audrey June-Forshey, RE/MAX Realty Group - Gaithersburg, MD

Audrey you are the best I love you and I blogged! I hope I did it right and you can see it LOL.

xoxox

May 22, 2008 02:01 AM
Audrey June-Forshey
RE/MAX Realty Services - Darnestown, MD
GRI, Gaithersburg, MD

Melody, she is the best, I hope I can find someone even close to Maria - it wont be fair to the other person to have such big shoes to fill.

Clint, It is so true.  I know that I can leave something to Maria and it is handled exactly how I would want it done!

Maria, you made me cry!  I will miss you!  XO

May 22, 2008 02:11 AM
Anonymous
Anonymous

Peter I was thinking the same thing lol

I'm sorry to hear you are losing such a valued team member though.

May 22, 2008 04:46 AM
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Vickie McCartney
Maverick Realty - Owensboro, KY
Broker, Real Estate Agent Owensboro KY

Audrey~ OH!  I know that is a bittersweet situation.  and gosh, PETER, is too crazy! LOL.  I guess he does have a point!  Things like that happen every day, but thankfully not to you (or me) :)

May 22, 2008 07:41 AM
Audrey June-Forshey
RE/MAX Realty Services - Darnestown, MD
GRI, Gaithersburg, MD

Vickie, that Peter is a funny guy.  When I read that I just laughed, not that it couldn't happen, but how the post sounds when I read it later.  I feel sorry for her replacement, not really.

May 22, 2008 09:38 AM
Jesse Clifton
Jesse Clifton & Associates - Fairbanks, AK

Audrey - It's heck losing a great assistant, isn't it?  It's hard enough to get them trained for them to train me, that I would be lost for certian if ours left.  Hopfully you'll be blessed enough to find another great right arm!

May 22, 2008 10:46 AM
Peter Nikic
Broad & Bailey Realty LLC - Valhalla, NY

Hey, I wasn't trying to be funny :-) but just one look at Maria's picture and the first two lines of your blog, and I just thought, maybe it's better that she's leaving (alone;-).

see you in Daytona, Maria:-)

May 22, 2008 02:39 PM
Ray Boss, Jr.
RE/MAX Realty Group - Gaithersburg, MD

It's rather bittersweet that you miss a couple days of blogging and you feel like you've missed SO much, but at least you can catch up on it...I'm SOOO sorry that Maria is leaving.  I know she is your pride and joy and you've enjoyed working with eachother.  While I know you can't imagine a better person to fill her shoes, I'm sure the same is true on her part.  She will be greatly greatly missed and I wish her nothing but the best!

May 23, 2008 04:32 AM
Audrey June-Forshey
RE/MAX Realty Services - Darnestown, MD
GRI, Gaithersburg, MD

Jesse, you are right about the part where they have US trained!!  Maria is a good girl, I will miss her!

Peter, You are right, maybe I should have gotten rid of her a long time ago!1;)  She is a hottie if I do say so myself!!

Ray Ray, I am sad to see her go?  Can you imagine the office without her?

May 23, 2008 09:36 AM
The Dave Ruwe Homes Team
Re/Max Lakeshore - Grand Haven, MI
Realtors

Audrey, What a nice going away present to your assistant. I hope she had the chance to read how you feel about her. Sound like somebody in Florida is going to pick get a charm. Sorry for your loss, sound like she will be hard to replace...and you are right...you can't train someone to have heart.

Dave

May 25, 2008 01:00 PM
Debbie Summers
Charles Rutenberg Realty - New Smyrna Beach, FL

Audrey - I'm sorry to hear that she's leaving for Florida...  She sounds like she is a real treasure.

May 29, 2008 03:34 AM