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Smoking Causes What?????

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Real Estate Agent with Long and Foster Real Estate VA License # 0225089470

I have been spending quite a bit of time with my 76 year old mother lately.  She was diagnosed with a swollen retina that would ultimately lead to macular degeneration.  Not seeing well enough to keep from driving a grocery cart into fellow shoppers, she relinquished the keys to her car,  It has thus become my duty to drive her wherever she needs, or wants, to go. 

Surprisingly, on her very first visit with her Retinal Specialist, she was told that her years of smoking had probably caused the problem and that she should stop.  The constriction of blood vessels from smoking  causes the blood in your eye to find another path.  This leads to "leaking" and ultimately, macular degeneration, slowlly destroying your vision and causing blindness.

The only possible remedy for her problem of blood collecting behind her retina would be a shot in the eye to dry to the fluid.  One shot would be terrifying enough, but the doctor told her that she was probably going to have to endure four to six shots, at a rate of one per month.

The time between hearing that and going for the very first shot was a time where my brother and I hit Mom hard to stop smoking.  However, she thought that the shots would correct the problem, and she would not have to put herself in the uncomfortable situation of trying to stop smoking.  The shots ended up not being so scary after all, but we learned today that not only is the problem not getting better after four shots (four months), she is developing the problem in her good eye.

Her doctor came down hard on her today.  He insisted that she must quit smoking, or she would end up losing her vision in both of her eyes. 

My father died of lung cancer after smoking for the majority of his life.  I have been amazed that my Mom continued smoking after watching his slow demise due to this horrible form of cancer.  Somehow, the thought of going blind is what did it today.  We stopped by Costco and got her some patches, and she had me throw out all of her remaining cigarettes.

I know the next few weeks and months will be tough for Mom because she has been smoking for 60 years.  I hope she can stick with it, regain her vision in her bad eye, and maintain her vision in her good eye.  This will enable her to get back to the independent life she has been missing for the last six months. 

If you are a smoker, I hope this will resonate with you, and you can stop now before you too may be facing macular degeneration as a result of years of smoking.  I hope it helps someone not have to face losing their vision and independence in their later years. 

Comments(12)

Vickie McCartney
Maverick Realty - Owensboro, KY
Broker, Real Estate Agent Owensboro KY

Chris~ I know you are glad your mom has decided to quit smoking.  Boy, that will be tough after 60 years. I hope she does well with it and that the eyes improve quickly. 

May 27, 2008 04:03 PM
Linda Lipscomb
Linda Lipscomb RE/MAX Lexington Henderson County TN - Lexington, TN
731-695-1118, Lexington TN Homes

Chris,

Good luck with your Mom.

I quit smoking about 4 years ago.  It was hard and it's still hard.

Will power....lots of it.

 

May 27, 2008 04:03 PM
Gretchen Faber
The Kentwood Company at Cherry Creek - Denver, CO
LifeStyleDenver

I'm sorry to hear about your mother.  My grandmother has macular degeneration and can't see at all.  It was slow, but difficult to come to  terms with.  She now listens to books on tape.

May 27, 2008 04:03 PM
Ron Tarvin
Residential, Investment properties, rehab projects, property management, luxury homes, new construction! - Katy, TX
Broker, Katy, Houston, Cypress 77450,77494,77095

Hope she does well with quitting. 

People can see how insanely addictive this is and how incredibly dangerous cigarettes are and yet, somehow they continue to be legal.  Isn't that the reason that other "drugs" are illegal is the addictive qualities and the danger the impose?

Crazy....

May 27, 2008 04:10 PM
Chris Ann Cleland
Long and Foster Real Estate - Gainesville, VA
Associate Broker, Bristow, VA

Vickie: I am hugely relieved, but waiting to see if it will stick.

Linda:  Glad to hear you kicked the habit yourself.  Good job.

Gretchen:  Was your grandmother a smoker?

Ron:  Mom and I talked about this today.  I guess if there was a narcotics lobby, things would be different.  Let's face it, tobacco companies are sinking too much money into politicians to ever be made illegal, and it's disgusting.

May 27, 2008 04:20 PM
Mary Warren
Las Vegas, NV

Chris - good luck to your mom on her no smoking, it will be hard to do after all this time but the rewards will be worth it...especially her eyesight!

May 27, 2008 04:27 PM
Chris Ann Cleland
Long and Foster Real Estate - Gainesville, VA
Associate Broker, Bristow, VA

Mary:  I think I might actually be forced to give up chocolate if I was told I would lose my eyesight if I continued to eat it.  I think she'll be able to do it. 

May 27, 2008 04:29 PM
Richard Weisser
Richard Weisser Realty - Newnan, GA
Richard Weisser Retired Real Estate Professional

Chris Ann...

It's hard to changes such an addictive habit after so many years, but I hope that your mother will be strong ... for YOUR sake. Good luck and God bless you both.

May 27, 2008 10:43 PM
Karen Anne Stone
New Home Hunters of Fort Worth and Tarrant County - Fort Worth, TX
Fort Worth Real Estate

Chris Ann  Both my parents were life-long smokers.  It was just the normal thing to do for them way back when they were teens and then into adulthood.  Mom died at 65 and Dad at 69... both of them way too young.  I myself never smoked... hated it... but could not talk either of my parents into stopping.  It made me an "orphan" much sooner than I thought would happen.  My best to you and your Mom.  Take care... you two will be in my thoughts.

May 28, 2008 06:17 PM
Chris Ann Cleland
Long and Foster Real Estate - Gainesville, VA
Associate Broker, Bristow, VA

Richard & Karen Anne:  Thanks for the kind thoughts.  She's doing okay so far, but those nasty little things are terribly addictive. 

May 29, 2008 12:41 AM
Gary Woltal
Keller Williams Realty - Flower Mound, TX
Assoc. Broker Realtor SFR Dallas Ft. Worth

Chris Ann, a great warning and something to add as another incentive for my wife to stop smoking. She's down to like four cigarettes a day but it is still too much. I hope your Mom stops.

May 29, 2008 03:33 PM
Chris Ann Cleland
Long and Foster Real Estate - Gainesville, VA
Associate Broker, Bristow, VA

Gary:  Good luck with your wife.  I know it's hard for people to stop, and for Mom, I could have told her ten years ago that someone else's Mom was near to going blind as a result of smoking and she would have blown it off.  It really hits home when it's happening to you. 

May 30, 2008 02:44 AM