Special offer

The Top 3 Self-Imposed Business Pressures

By
Education & Training with The Lones Group, Inc.

The Lones Group, Inc.

The Top 3 Self-Imposed Business Pressures

And how they can keep you from taking the action you need!

I work with different clients with different personalities every day. Although there are sometimes personal challenges that cause them to lose their mojo, what I find more often is that agents get paralyzed by themselves. They get in their own heads and so overwhelmed that they find themselves unable to take any action that propels them forward.

Here are the top three challenges that I see agents struggle with:

#1: Getting Ready to Get Ready

I'm all for being organized, having your materials ready to go and having everything in its place. I'm a self-confessed control freak and color-coding organizational junkie. So I understand the tendency to want to “get ready to get ready” – but too many agents waste valuable money-making time doing just that, while avoiding the most important parts of their business.

It's like the person who goes to the beach and spends hours setting up their umbrella, their chair, putting on sunscreen, adjusting and re-adjusting their towel, getting their cooler packed and positioned for their next snack. But they never actually make it into the beautiful water because they are too busy getting their surroundings ready.

Your surroundings do not make you successful in real estate: your client connections do! So stop spending hours creating the perfect client connection document only to find at the end of the day that you haven't connected with anybody. I know very successful agents who are disorganized nightmares and they are makings lots of money. It's because they are CONNECTING with their clients. There has to be a balance between getting ready to get ready and getting the job done.

#2: Lack of Focus

By nature, many agents are impatient. They want results and they want them now. This leads to a severe lack of focus and a tendency to not give something enough time to become fruitful. This could be the agent who jumps from geographical farming to open houses to direct mail campaigns to social media marketing to event marketing to online lead generation, etc.  Any one of these things could be extremely successful, but if you don't give anything enough time you will find yourself wandering from one unsuccessful venture to another. Be patient, give it time, do what you do well – and you will have success.

#3: Perfectionitis

I can't tell you how many times an agent has said to me that they have a newsletter that never went out because by the time they got it the way they wanted it, it was out of date. What should have been their fall newsletter is now nothing more than spring garbage.

I understand the need to want things to be perfect, but I can emphatically tell you that my clients who make the most money and are the most successful are the ones who replace the need to be perfect with the ability to take action. If you keep looking at something with a critical eye, you can always find something to pick apart. Instead, keep one eye on perfection – and the other eye on the clock. Because one without the other will never bring you success.


If you have identified with any of our procrastination personalities it is time to get out of your own way and take action. Make a plan, stay on target, give yourself a deadline, and connect!

Comments(13)

Janice Zaltman
United Realty Group - Boca Raton, FL
Energy Efficient And Eco-Friendly Homes in Florida

How true. And the funny thing is that when we go past our wanting to be perfect, there may be someone who expresses criticism towards us. That is the true test as to how we will handle it and keep moving forward!

Sep 14, 2018 07:36 PM
Denise Lones

Breaking past criticism can take a solid personal core, the ability to believe you are doing the right thing and taking action that moves your business forward.

Sep 17, 2018 10:35 AM
Joyce Marsh
Joyce Marsh Real Estate LLC - Daytona Beach, FL
Joyce Marsh Homes

Denise, these are all valid points and I am probably guilty of all three myself. Over the years I have taken a more relaxed approach and business continues to come my way. 

Sep 15, 2018 06:29 AM
Denise Lones

Habits like these three can be like a safety blanket to the anxious agent. They are not strictly necessary. Relaxing makes your business more agile, more open to opportunity, more stress-free.

Sep 17, 2018 10:38 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Hi Denise- all true and I'm sure that I've been guilty of all three.  This is why many need someone like yourself to help keep them on track. 

Sep 15, 2018 08:21 AM
Denise Lones

Accountability is great for getting stuff done, for making and sticking to changes in a business for the better. Escaping the mental games that people play against themselves, like the above, also take time and constant reminders. Habits are hard to change, but it is worth it.

Sep 17, 2018 10:41 AM
Kimo Jarrett
Cyber Properties - Huntington Beach, CA
Pro Lifestyle Solutions

I believe we develop ourselves as we journey in our business and have experienced the stages you illustrated. You realize your achievements when your systems have been perfected like a machine on steroids. People like machines need a maintenance person to tuneup and update the system and that takes action, doesn't it? Great post.

Sep 15, 2018 11:10 AM
Denise Lones

Kimo - I like it. The outside perspective, consultant, helps people stay in tune and updated. - Denise

Sep 17, 2018 10:42 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

              

                          Thank you, Denise.

Sep 15, 2018 05:28 PM
Denise Lones

Thank you Kathy!

Sep 17, 2018 10:42 AM
John Henry, Florida Architect
John Henry Masterworks Design International, Inc. - Orlando, FL
Residential Architect, Luxury Custom Home Design

Excellent thing NOT TO DO in any business.  Thanks Denise.

Sep 16, 2018 04:44 AM
Denise Lones

You're welcome John, good to see you here.

Sep 17, 2018 10:43 AM
Gita Bantwal
RE/MAX Centre Realtors - Warwick, PA
REALTOR,ABR,CRS,SRES,GRI - Bucks County & Philadel

Thank you for sharing the great tips. I am always focused but have been guilty of 3 on occasion.

Sep 16, 2018 05:13 AM
Denise Lones

We all have, myself included. Thank you Gita!

Sep 17, 2018 10:43 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good morning Denise Lones,

I'm so glad that Kathy Streib featured your post in her "Ah-ha" moments for the week as I missed it. These are excellent reasons of things NOT TO DO in your business.

Sep 16, 2018 05:58 AM
Denise Lones

Kathy's "Ah-ha" column has great content from all over ActiveRain, it's wonderful to be a part of it. Glad you enjoyed this one Dorie, see you here again soon.

Sep 17, 2018 10:45 AM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

These are good points. We shouldn't do these things!

Sep 16, 2018 08:46 AM
Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
Retired New Hampshire Home Stager

All true! Excellent points Denise! I had a friend years ago that spent so much time in prep that the actual project rarely got done. So frustrating!

Sep 16, 2018 03:42 PM
Denise Lones

Agreed. You can't succeed if you never get started!

Sep 17, 2018 10:54 AM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

There are a number of important points here!  #3, which I also think of as "Better Done than Perfect" remains an issue for me that I am always focused on. #1 speaks pretty loudly, too!

Jeff

Sep 16, 2018 08:26 PM
Denise Lones

Often, getting it done teaches lessons faster for doing it better than trying to perfect it on the first try - and delivers results at the same time. Standing on the sidelines doesn't create results.

Sep 17, 2018 10:56 AM
Mary Hutchison, SRES, ABR
Better Homes and Gardens Real Estate-Kansas City Homes - Kansas City, MO
Experienced Agent in Kansas City Metro area

Planning keeps you focused and gives you a sense of accomplishment--essential in any business!

Sep 17, 2018 09:26 AM
Pat Starnes-Front Gate Realty
Front Gate Real Estate - Brandon, MS
601-991-2900 Office; 601-278-4513 Cell

Bravo! I don't have to worry about number 3, but do have issues with the first and second items on the list. Procrastination could fall under the first point, couldn't it? That's probably my worst habit. Delaying to the last minute what I could have checked off the list hours sooner if I would only focus (#2).

Sep 17, 2018 01:34 PM