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Go Commando or Go Home

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Mortgage and Lending with Mad Mortgage World

"He's just not that in to you."

My wife loves Sex and the City. She is going out with her girlfriends this Friday night. They have rented a limousine, booked a table at local hotspot and, have picked out 6 outfits with two alternates - each.

So in preparation for her night out she has been watching old episodes.

Every night.

For 4 weeks.

Last night she watched an episode that included the phrase "he's just not that in to you."

Four women were sitting around a table with one guy. One of them details out a date she had the previous night. She had a great time. He kissed her... TWICE. He said he had an early morning meeting. He said he'd call.

All 4 of the dynamic "sex and city" gals gushed over the story. The singular guy at the table, looking uncomfortable, spoke up, "he's not gonna call. He's just not that in to you."

It got quiet and awkward fast - the truth does that.

We go out into our days. We date Real Estate Agents. Tall. Short. Guy. Girl. Fat. Skinny. Boring. Sometimes Funny. We buy lunch and drinks. We call and talk shop. The conversations all end the same.

"Yeah, sure, I'll toss you a deal... the very next one. I'll call you."

Then we wait. He's gonna call. Do I call Him? She said it'd be the very NEXT deal. Should I call her? Has it been long enough?

HE'S NOT THAT IN TO YOU!

SHE'S NOT THAT IN TO YOU!

Move on and find your soul mate.

She's out there. He's hoping you'll call. She's looking for you. He/She needs what you have.

He doesn't want your cheesy "broker open" emails- he wants loyalty. She doesn't want a script -she wants a trusted relationship.

He wants information. She wants valuable strategic ideas.

So... if you want to get lucky... throw away your freaking 100% No DOC flyers and go commando.

Comments (2)

Mana Tulberg
805 County Real Estate - Camarillo, CA
Real Estate Agent - Camarillo CA

Daniel, very well put. I am more straight forward, I tell them ahead of time you can buy me what ever you want, but I already have my guy!!! :0)

May 29, 2008 05:13 AM
Stanton Homes
Stanton Homes - New Home Builder - Raleigh, NC
Design/Build Custom Home Builder in North Carolina

Daniel - thanks for a very different take!  Building a relationship can involve sharing information of value - and taking the time to find out what there is that is of value to that person.  There's one great Active Rain lender in our area who does an amazing job with that - and is building business. 

May 29, 2008 05:25 AM