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4 Ways to Learn to Love Yourself

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with Arizona Resource Realty BR518926000

Ever felt like so lost with all those whirl wind of emotions? Being drowned in the abyss of thoughts may drive you crazy. Losing your sanity may be tragic, yet you need to get out inside the pit you’re encaged.
One thing is for sure, every individual must love themselves. But how are you going to love others, if you don’t know how to love yourself? This question may be hard. Sometimes you have to over think situations which turn into doubt, guilt, and self-hatred. Hence, there are still questions that are lingers and quite confusing.


Without further here are the ways to love yourself.
Learn to Live and Let Go
Live life to the fullest – past regrets and mistakes can’t be changed. These mistakes serve as life lessons that can prevent us in doing it again.
In addition, acceptance is the key. Leave those worries from behind. Everything you did from the past doesn’t count on how you make the present and the future. Enjoy every single moment with your friends and family.


Meditate
Meditation is another way to love yourself. It is a technique that helps you to be focused and mindful in everything you do. It also helps you have self-awareness and mental clarity.
An example of it is by strolling around the beach. Enjoy the warm rays of the sunlight and the fresh breeze of the air. Relive every happy moments you have.
Another way is to focus in the things that you want to achieve. Set for a specific realistic goal that can get you busy. As you strive for your goals, hurdle may be present. Yet, as you endure the pain, you’ll achieve the highest peak you aim for.


Stop Procrastinating!
Stop making excuses. Do what you have to do. Stop complaining that life is a crap. Man up!
Life always comes with unexpected challenges. As you take a drive on the road, you’ll pass by on the bumpy pathway. There might be those stops and goes.
Compared to life, there might be some ups and downs. Still, you need to continue. Sometimes people need to take a risk in order to attain the desired goals. No pain, no gain!


Live Life with Contentment and Happiness
Every man desires to conquer the world, money, fame, and success. Once you achieve these three, greediness makes you hungry for more. Seeking for more power makes you un-contended with what you have. Hence, you become more self-centered than before.
In order to find happiness, try to look at the simple things you have. Appreciate all the good things in life. Never doubt the things you’ve done.


Overall, every person needs to accept all their imperfections. No human is created to be perfect. We may live in a judgmental society; still we are the ones who truly know ourselves.

Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

Tamra, might I be able to repost this one? This would be an excellent choice to use as a re-blog. Great stuff to the max! :)

Dec 09, 2018 10:36 PM
Tamra Lee Ulmer

No problem, thanks for appreciating it! 

Dec 10, 2018 10:31 PM
Cynthia "Cyndi" Cook
Keller Williams Realty Alabama Gulf Coast - Orange Beach, AL
Residential Real Estate Sales and Vacation Rentals

I love this one, learn to live and let go. Great advice (: 

Dec 09, 2018 10:51 PM
Tamra Lee Ulmer

Thanks for appreciating it! Have a great day! 

Dec 10, 2018 10:31 PM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

I have to revisit this one and just weird to me how much meditation has helped me! Highly recommended! Love and light! :)

Dec 11, 2018 11:33 PM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

I’ve had to really learn in the past years to be honest with myself and let go of a lot of baggage and really be guided by the stuff that helps me. Cynthia "Cyndi" Cook

Dec 11, 2018 11:36 PM
Cynthia "Cyndi" Cook

You're awesome! Keep the negative energy out of your life and keep up with the good vibes (:

Dec 12, 2018 07:12 AM