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Big Rocks??? Sand??? Maybe Just Maybe.....

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Real Estate Agent with Keller Williams Realty Chesterfield

                                   

We all look at things in different ways.  We each have our perceptions about how we have done our job and those that are our brokers, clients, customers and prospects see them totally different!  Dad burn it, why is it like that I know I did everything possible to get the house sold.  Now everybody is telling me that I could have done more now the listing has gone some where else.  My buyer tells me that I didn't stay in touch.  I was sending them the wrong information so now they have found another agent.  When is the next shoe gonna fall? What can I do to change the way I am seeing things?   Maybe just maybe we can learn a lesson from a wise teacher. Maybe just maybe this will help.

The Big Rocks of Life!

One day a wise teacher was speaking to a group of his students. He pulled
out a one-gallon, wide-mouthed mason jar and set it on a table in front of
him. Then he produced about a dozen fist-sized rocks and carefully placed
them, one at a time, into the jar.

When the jar was filled to the top and no more rocks would fit inside, he
asked, "Is this jar full?"

Everyone in the class said, "Yes."

"Really?" he asked. "Let's see." He reached under the table and pulled
out a bucket of gravel. Then he dumped some gravel in and shook the jar,
causing pieces of gravel to work themselves down into the spaces between
the big rocks. Looking carefully from face to face, he smiled
benevolently and asked again, "Is the jar full?"

His class was catching on quickly. "Probably not," one of them answered.

"Very good!" he replied. He then reached under the table and brought out a
bucket of sand. He started dumping the sand in and it went into all the
spaces left between the rocks and the gravel. When he was finished he once
again asked, "Is this jar full?"

"No!" the class shouted.

"Excellent!" he replied. Then he grabbed a pitcher of water and poured it
in until the jar was filled to the brim. Once again looking intently into
the eyes of each student, he asked, "What is the point of this illustration?"

One eager beaver raised his hand and said, "The point is, no matter how
full your schedule is, if you try really hard, you can always fit some more
things into it!"

"Aha, that's very good!" the teacher replied, "But let us look a bit
deeper. This illustration also teaches us a higher truth: If you don't put
the big rocks in first, you will never get them in at all!"

What are the "Big Rocks" in your life? Financial freedom? A project that
YOU want to accomplish? Time with your loved ones? Your faith, your
education, your business? A cause? Teaching or mentoring others?

Remember to put these BIG ROCKS in first or you'll never get them in at all.

Here's how to grow a little. Tonight just before you go to bed, or first
thing tomorrow morning take a moment to reflect on this short story, and
ask yourself this question: What are the "Big Rocks" in my life or
business? Put those in your jar first.

Author Unknown

Here's to growing and knowing what your BIG ROCKS are.

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Don Rogers is a licensed REALTOR® in Missouri.  I specialize in St. Charles County Missouri and have called O Fallon MO my home since 1993.  If you are looking to buy or sell or you are relocating to the area and would like information about the St Charles County MO area do not hesitate to give me a call at 314-954-6775 or if you would prefer to send me an email.

 

Comments(12)

Richard Weisser
Richard Weisser Realty - Newnan, GA
Richard Weisser Retired Real Estate Professional

Don...

Oh wow, that was interesting ... gotta get the big rocks in first ... I'm going to think about that!

Jun 02, 2008 12:34 AM
Don Rogers
Keller Williams Realty Chesterfield - O'Fallon, MO
Realtor, Broker, CDPE, GRI, OnullFallon MO & St Charles County MO homes

I get it turned around backwards sometimes and want to do this in reverse.  How do I know you are going to get that mason jar out of the cupboard and test this out???? ;-)

Don R.

Jun 02, 2008 12:44 AM
Steve Homer
The HBH Group (Keller Williams affiliate) - Round Rock, TX

Gary Keller of Keller Williams has taught the "Big Rocks" concepts for years as a way to build your 4-1-1 list (CLICK HERE to see a 4-1-1 form).  It absolutely keeps you focused in ways that target what IS REALLY important in your business.  Real Estate has a way of yanking your priorities all over the map, but the successful agents are HIGHLY FOCUSED on only the things that matter!

Jun 02, 2008 12:47 AM
Don Rogers
Keller Williams Realty Chesterfield - O'Fallon, MO
Realtor, Broker, CDPE, GRI, OnullFallon MO & St Charles County MO homes

Steve,

Thank you for the information.  You are so right about real estate and how it yanks you around.

Don R.

Jun 02, 2008 12:50 AM
Charlie Ragonesi
AllMountainRealty.com - Big Canoe, GA
Homes - Big Canoe, Jasper, North Georgia Pros

Love the post thanks. It is really cool I wonder if the author can be tracked down

Jun 02, 2008 12:55 AM
Don Rogers
Keller Williams Realty Chesterfield - O'Fallon, MO
Realtor, Broker, CDPE, GRI, OnullFallon MO & St Charles County MO homes

Charlie,

I don't know how we could go about finding that our but it would be nice to know.  Thank you for coming in and commenting this morning.

Don R.

Jun 02, 2008 12:57 AM
Terry & Bonnie Westbrook
Westbrook Realty Broker-Owner - Grand Rapids, MI
Westbrook Realty - Grand Rapids Forest Hills MI Re

Why not just fill it with concrete and get it over with?  I'v e heard the story before and agree we some time think we have a full jar and then someone adds the water.

Jun 02, 2008 01:59 PM
Don Rogers
Keller Williams Realty Chesterfield - O'Fallon, MO
Realtor, Broker, CDPE, GRI, OnullFallon MO & St Charles County MO homes

Terry,

Thank you for stoppin in this evening and commenting.  I just hate it when someone adds the water after I have the jar filled with what I think makes it full.

Don R.

Jun 02, 2008 02:39 PM
Kathy Clulow
Uxbridge, ON
Trusted For Experience - Respected For Results

Don - Perhaps that is why some people are all wet ... they put the water in first then try to fill it with rocks stones and sand

Jun 02, 2008 03:22 PM
Don Rogers
Keller Williams Realty Chesterfield - O'Fallon, MO
Realtor, Broker, CDPE, GRI, OnullFallon MO & St Charles County MO homes

Good evening Kathy,

I think you just may have a point. :-))

Thank you for dropping in and commenting.

Don r.

Jun 02, 2008 03:31 PM
Amy Campbell
RE/MAX Sunset Realty - Sunriver, OR
Broker, Sunriver Real Estate

I remember reading this years ago - thank you for bringing it back to the front of my mind - it is so true!  Have and exceptional day and enjoy all the "big rocks".

Jun 05, 2008 08:32 PM
Don Rogers
Keller Williams Realty Chesterfield - O'Fallon, MO
Realtor, Broker, CDPE, GRI, OnullFallon MO & St Charles County MO homes

Good morning Amy,

Thank you for stopping by and commenting and you to have a BIG ROCK day!!!

Don R.

Jun 06, 2008 12:10 AM