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Rising Tides, The Abundance Mentality

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Real Estate Agent with Woodland Management Service / Woodland Real Estate, KW Diversified #1 in Forest Land Mgmt

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A while ago I watched an interview of Bill Gates where the interviewer asked him how he felt about all the people in Asia who were openly selling pirated copies of Windows and other Microsoft products.

Bill's reply was something to the effect that this is a good thing, now these people will be able to use this software to launch prosperous businesses and they will eventually be able to come back and Buy my products, and probably buy multiple copies for their employees.

He did not get bent out of shape over the lost revenue from these sales, after all most of these buyers could not afford his product now anyway, he did not spend millions to try to prosecute these people who again could not afford his product anyway, instead he used this as an opportunity to grow a future customer.

Bill has an abundance mentality, rather than a scarcity mentality!

getting along and making the world betterDo you find yourself feeling upset because your competitors are doing well or do you feel happy for them knowing that they are making your profession look good and knowing that they are doing things that you can learn from (both their successes and failures)?

Do you get along with your competitors, or do you threaten to sue every time that you feel that they stepped on your toes?

Do you disparage your competitors name around clients or do you complement and defend them, one of these techniques will destroy your profession, and the other will build it up, guess which one politicians use?Kent Mercurio creative commons

Do you get upset when someone on active rain breaks a rule, or does something for the points, or do you applaud them because they are at least trying to better themselves and the profession, remember many others are doing a lot less than these folks are doing to improve themselves and your profession?

Don’t get upset with your competitors, applaud them, get along with them, work Together to build up your profession, and then there will be more people who will use Real Estate agents and there will be more work than either of you can handle.

When you disparage each other, the public sees this and thinks poorly of you, and before you know it you are thought of in the same light as the used car dealers and mudslinging politicians.

Remember to always choose an Abundance Mentality over a Scarcity Mentality, which ever you choose, that is what you will get!

Comments(11)

Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

Living with an abundance of good will is the way I would summarize this post. Operating in a way that sees the good in any situation will bring good things.

Apr 08, 2019 03:17 AM
Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Chicago, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Bob. Must say focusing on the positive, leaves you unable to chatise the competition. You can learn from them. Enjoy your day!

Apr 08, 2019 05:03 AM
Carol Williams
Although I'm retired, I love sharing my knowledge and learning from other real estate industry professionals. - Wenatchee, WA
Retired Agent / Broker / Prop. Mgr, Wenatchee, WA

Hi Bob,
I love the abundance approach to business... and life.   You've been Featured in the Bananatude Group. 

Apr 08, 2019 05:35 AM
Carla Freund
Keller Williams Preferred Realty - Raleigh, NC
NC Real Estate Transition & Relocation 919-602-848

Hi Bob, Nice post. I love seeing people try. I know as humans we will make mistakes. I'm happy to help someone vs. turn them in when they do. However, I will say, I don't like it when people purposely do something that will hurt others. 

Apr 10, 2019 05:05 AM
Debb Janes
Nature As Neighbors - Camas, WA
Put My Love of Nature At Work for You

Absolutely, and when we focus on abundance, we attract it. When we focus on scarcity - guess what?  Have a great weekend, Bob. D 

Apr 13, 2019 07:06 AM
Barbara Todaro
RE/MAX Executive Realty - Happily Retired - Franklin, MA
Previously Affiliated with The Todaro Team

Good morning, Bob Crane what goes around comes around...I do marketing and it's competitive.... some folks have no results, others just the opposite...I'm helping a competitor to get her business off the ground again.... she messed up!!

Apr 20, 2019 03:49 AM
Grant Schneider
Performance Development Strategies - Armonk, NY
Your Coach Helping You Create Successful Outcomes

good morning Bob - living with an abundance mentality and having an attitude of gratitude will get you want you want.

Apr 20, 2019 05:50 AM
Sheri Sperry - MCNE®
Coldwell Banker Realty - Sedona, AZ
(928) 274-7355 ~ YOUR Solutions REALTOR®

HI Bob Crane - This is a great post for those who have that scarcity mentality. 

I don't - A rising tide floats all boats!  I want all of us to do well. 

Happy Easter!

Apr 20, 2019 06:56 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good afternoon Bob Crane ,

I'm so glad Carol Williams featured you post in her Second Chance Saturday series! What a great Philosophy to to share. The thing I like the most about our office is we come from an Abundance mentality..there is plenty of business for everyone. Zig Ziglar said it best " You will get all you want in life, if you help enough other people get what they want." 

Apr 20, 2019 02:03 PM
Bob Crane
Woodland Management Service / Woodland Real Estate, KW Diversified - Stevens Point, WI
Forestland Experts! 715-204-9671

Thank you all for stopping by, delighted that you enjoyed this.

And special thanks to Carol Williams for featuring this twice, in Bananatude and on her Second Chance Saturday post!

Apr 20, 2019 09:01 PM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

I think the abundance philosophy IS the right way to live our lives. Being jealous or resentful of others because of what they have or what they have achieved does not accomplish a thing.

Apr 21, 2019 08:10 PM