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Blogging Buddy kills 125........What!!! Turn it up Joe

By
Real Estate Broker/Owner with CELLing Realty CalBRE #01445865

Killing 125, why is it that we turn up the TV to hear this type of news or click on the links to read about it online? Why is it that we want to know about this awful occurence, even though it's not necessarily relatable. What happened? Who did it, and where was it?  Our emotions churn and we want to know more.  Add to that the number 125 and our senses are overwhelmed.....Who, What, Where, When, Why, and How....this is all we want to know.

Sometimes we trip and fall

 

Joe Blow  killed 125 people 

Would you take the time to read that?  You bet you would.  But change that headline now, get rid of the sensationalism: Blogging Buddy writes 125 posts in 6 months....

Would you stop what you were doing to read that?  Would you give that more than a cursorily glance if you saw it online?  How about "I just passed 125,000..." would you stop to read that if you didn't know the person?  Probably not....

 

If it didn't affect you, or me, and it probably didn't, we just give it half an ear or half a glance and move on. If we knew who the Buddy was, we might read it if we had time.  Something has to make us listen or read.

Remember those Journalism classes, where we were taught the 5 W's. Answer those questions and do it in the first paragraph if possible.  "Put all the important information in descending order, with the least important information last."  However, emotions rule most people, not logic.  Who killed who.....do I know them?  Where was this, and where are my kids, my family, my friends.....are they safe? 

These are the emotional reactions that have us click on a headline, or stop what we're doing to listen to the news, call a service person, etc. Many of our initial reactions are based on emotion, logic doesn't seem to come into play until later, with some people never seeming to get to the logical part of a decision.

Alright, alright.....is this another preaching post or another how to?  Nope......it is only my midnight thoughts :)

I have been giving a lot of thought to my new  "Outside Blog" and what I want it to be for. It is moving one step closer every day to becoming a reality.  That is what woke me up...a million thoughts going through my head....what do I want this blog to do?  What is my focus.....am I even focused? And what do I write that will be something that people will even want to read.  To Subscribe to the blog.............

What motivated me to wake up, turn the computer back on and write this.........what emotion?  Fear!  Fear and the desire to be accepted, to have my blog be "good enough" in that big  blogosphere outside the safe confides of my friends here on Active Rain.

 

 

***Sometimes we trip and fall when making our decisions on emotion only***

I might have doubts, and I know I am losing sleep thinking.......but no matter what, I will have my outside blog soon.  And I will work towards making it something useful, a place people want to come to, but tonight....well tonight I'm going back to bed.......... LOL :)

 

Please share what you like to read on a blog, and if you have one off Active Rain ,what lessons have you learned with it?  Links are welcome.

 

By: Kathy Mcraw - CELLing Realty 

Kathy McGraw
CELLing Realty - White Water, CA
Riverside County CA Real Estate

Cynthia- thanks friend....I am laughing at your last comment on giving advice....:)  Yes, I have to be me, that's all there is to it, or I will never keep up with the blog :)  Soon I'll give you the URL.....it is more broad than my area, but something that gave me the flexibility I wanted :)

Sally- Hey, you're the one that "sleeps well at night" not me, I do most of my thinking then.....and a whole lot of computer work. I used to joke that I was like Mark Twain...I always have gotten up in the middle of the night with one thought or another....:)

looking forward to your Real Estate review :)  Should I try to guess which movie LOL :)

Shannon- I am so glad you came by to say hello....this was really about "thinking, outside blogs and what makes us do what we do."  but a friendly hello from Sannon LaFlave (smile) is perfect....I hope all is well with you and yours.. I saw you had a couple new posts and also wanted to come by, but so far have been side-tracted....maybe good minds think alike :)

Jun 05, 2008 09:35 AM
Palm Coast Homes
100 Plus Realty LLC - Palm Coast, FL
Palm Coast/Flagler County Real Estate, The Ross/Co

I would like to put more effort into my outside blog.  If Iwere your target audience...i would be looking for local information, neighborhood info etc.  I am considering completely redoing my outside blog and moving from a free typepad account to a wordpress...still looking into this...too much to do...too little time ;-)

Jun 05, 2008 09:40 AM
marti garaughty
garaughty.com - Montreal, QC
a highly caffeinated creative type...

 hi K... re "was all red, then it was different colors... I saved it but it says index not the url :)  That must mean what you are saying about unsettled"...

 Exactly, it takes a few days for the domain to be recognized throughout the net, by the weekend it should be totally stable. The construction page was showing earlier now the "coming soon" image shows. Once it's stable I can start to install everything and then the graphics.

 Re "I also saw you have some more things on your Blog Artist Blog... Is this the blog that you are working on or another one?"...

 Right now I'm sort of like the shoemaker without any shoes, I'm so busy with projects for other people I don't have time to work for myself. But people know my work so that isn't an issue, eventually it will get done, then again... I keep telling myself that one day I'll have time to do a large painting just for me, yeah right!

Jun 05, 2008 10:08 AM
Kathy McGraw
CELLing Realty - White Water, CA
Riverside County CA Real Estate

Kristi- look at martis comment....a shoemaker without any shoes :)  Yep everythin is so much to do and so little time....very understood by probably everyone.

marti- one day you will have golden shoes :)

Jun 05, 2008 10:25 AM
Marchel Peterson
Results Realty - Spring, TX
Spring TX Real Estate E-Pro

Kathy, I have added an outside blog to my website.  I started personally but from there it has been mainly a localism site.  Not sure why, I guess sometimes it seems kind of lonely out there with it. 

Jun 05, 2008 01:07 PM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

Kathy, You are an absolutely wonderful writer, I have no doubt your outside blogs will be as good as the ones on here.  I was on several other blogging sites before AR, now I just don't have the time but I will get back to them when I can.  I guess I just try to teach and inspire.

Jun 05, 2008 01:09 PM
Kathy McGraw
CELLing Realty - White Water, CA
Riverside County CA Real Estate

Marchel- I hear you.....I just went and looked at your blog.  I have to figure out how to put mine on both my websites, as well as it standing alone....I guess if we use the outside blog as an "added value" and keep our AR one we et the best of both worlds :)  Thank you for sharing this.....

Carole- What did I do right to get such praise from you..... whatever it was I'll gladly continue.... LOL :)  Teaching and Inspiring....yes I think you are a gracious teacher....and sometimes we never know what forum we are meant to teach from :)

Jun 05, 2008 02:57 PM
Todd Clark - Retired
eXp Realty LLC - Tigard, OR
Principle Broker Oregon

You would be happy to know that I didn't comment on this post because of its title, I commented it on it because I saw my friend Kathy had written a new post and when she writes, she writes from the heart and I had to check out what she had to say today.

I subscribe to you because you write with such compassion that even though I know sometimes you can't get everything you have in your mind in to a post and it doesn't always come out like you hoped, but I still feel your passion and I know you are always going to be a good read.

Can't wait to see your outside blog and see what you decide to do with it.

Jun 05, 2008 05:49 PM
Kathy McGraw
CELLing Realty - White Water, CA
Riverside County CA Real Estate

Todd- Thank you for that feedback.....I know why I read someone but never know why others read mine.  Like you I don't like to write on demand, but prefer to write as it comes to me.  I have been looking for that tip you gave me on writing. 

Thanks Todd.....I am putting together my first articles/posts/ideas right now.  Getting the blog ready for when it's ready :)  Any ideas?

Jun 05, 2008 06:18 PM
William Johnson
Retired - La Jolla, CA
Retired

Hi Kathy, would you compare this to having a baby? OK, I am not totally serious but it does raise many concerns for you , especially because you want it right from the beginning and it mostly will be , I am sure. These anxieties are part of the investment and why this will be so good when you finally launch. Because you care and want it the best! I remember as many others will,  because we haven't been doing this for years and years. it is still a new effort for most of us.

Make your blog part of your past clients experiences  as well as servicing new prospective clients. Ask if you can use your experiences as a way of illustrating value added service. They will will like it and so will your new prospects. Just an idea.

Jun 05, 2008 08:28 PM
Kathy McGraw
CELLing Realty - White Water, CA
Riverside County CA Real Estate

Hi William, Yes in some ways it is like havin a new child....we want them to have the best of everythin, while being a good member of the family/community :)  Thank you for that advice.....sounds ood to me.  I love your outside blog.....how is it doing?

Jun 06, 2008 04:43 AM
Mike Jones
SUNSTREET MORTGAGE, LLC (BK-0907366, NMLS 145171) - Tucson, AZ
Mike Jones NMLS 223495

The longer I'm here, the more I enjoy reading posts to Localism.  Localism is the "Blue Highways" of the continent, where I can meet real people and read about their local happenings!

Mike in Tucson

Jun 06, 2008 04:31 PM
Kathy McGraw
CELLing Realty - White Water, CA
Riverside County CA Real Estate

Hi Mike- You are right Localism has some great local posts.....and the essense of this Post was on the thoughts of making an outside blog :)

Hope all is well with you.....

Jun 06, 2008 04:41 PM
Ann Heitland
Retired from RE/MAX Peak Properties - Flagstaff, AZ
Retired from Flagstaff Real Estate Sales

One of the lessons for my outside blog, I learned from you!  Have a pattern -- then people will develop a habit of looking at the blog on the day they expect to see something. For me, it's market reports by the 5th of the month, listings and market updates every Monday, Things to Do in town on Friday, household or safety tips mid-week, neighborhood news whenever. Financial mortgage news whenever the media is screaming bad stuff (I try to put it in perspective). Check it out at Flagstaff Real Estate and Community News.

As with anything, the goal is not always met, but having the goals - in this case, a schedule, makes it more likely to happen.

Jun 08, 2008 04:48 AM
Kathy McGraw
CELLing Realty - White Water, CA
Riverside County CA Real Estate

Ann if I was there right now I'd kiss you.....boom.... after these past several weeks of reading all that word press stuff, not understanding or wanting a basic template, and all the other "thinking thinking" to do this......well this came at just the perfect time.  This morning was for the little details like when to write....etc.

I am doing mine different than my AR one in that there will be Posts from others, and I have divided the State into half .....heck why not they've been trying to do it for years :)  Anyway, your comment re-enforces many of the others, but gives me what I want....black and white what works for someone else.  Thank you so much for leaving your link, I will go over there spit spot ...yes I said spit spot  it's that kind of morning LOL:):)

I have not forgotten about the super 8 either, I just made myself stay off AR to finish the details of my first Posts to my new Blog :)

Jun 08, 2008 05:33 AM
Rebecca Levinson, Real Estate Marketing and Online Advertising Consultant
Real Skillz-Clear Marketing for Your Real Estate Vision - Lake Geneva, WI

Kathy,

I would read your outside blog too.  I, like Ricardo, enjoy your Monday/Tuesday editions, I can always anticipate and look forward to them.  You have a good rhythm.

I think what you'll have found to have been tremendous help from A/R is your blogging voice.  You have a distinctive one and I really get to know who you are with each post.  That's a great attribute to any reader who sets foot on your outside blog.

Jun 08, 2008 07:06 AM
Kathy McGraw
CELLing Realty - White Water, CA
Riverside County CA Real Estate

Hi Rebecca- Thank you.....:)  After reading Anns comment I have tried to figure out how to not have duplicate content.....if I have the Monday and Tuesday one on here, do I also want it on the other one?  Isn't that duplicate content, and if you are used to seeing it here, you wouldn't go there to read it also :)  So, I came up with an even better solution...

I have asked a couple specialists across the country to add content to the Blog for their area of specialty.  See I know I am going to Market my blog differently than my websites.. (tomorrow's Post will highlight one of the people who has agreed). So there will be different content at different times.  Me, I picked Wednesdays as the day I will write my non Real Estate Stuff, and the other day I haven't figured out yet :)  I will be very happy to see you on my outside blog.....it will be launched very soon :) I am like a kid in a candy store...can't wait :)

Jun 08, 2008 10:54 AM
Mara Hawks
First Realty Auburn - Auburn, AL
Inactive-2012 REALTOR - Homes for Sale Auburn Real Estate, AL

Kathy - I left a comment for you somewhere recently. anyway, I've missed reading your blogs & have a lot of catching up to do! Headlines... more like heartlines... mostly heartATTACKlines... yep, I try to think of it like food... is it organic? Do I want it in my body of awareness today? Is it something that is going to require me to set aside additional time to pray to regain  both inner & outer peace?? Otherwise, I'll be carrying the weight of concern & anxiety--- just so much static & interference, ALL DAY!  (btw, will you be going to Inman??)

Jun 08, 2008 03:53 PM
Roland Woodworth
Blue Cord Realty - Clarksville, TN
Blue Cord Realty

Kathy.. A Good catchy tile will always draw readers attention...  a not so good title will gain less readership

Jun 08, 2008 04:09 PM
Kathy McGraw
CELLing Realty - White Water, CA
Riverside County CA Real Estate

Mara- I know....this Title was something that popped into my mind in the middle of the night, sort of, but the Post itself is really different.  I like what you said though, and had not thought about it exactly like that.....very good food for thought :)

No, I'm not going to Inman, are you?  I will be on a small vacation with my mother at that time.......are you in Calif  yet?  I wanted to meet up with you if you have time (in Encinitas :)  Oh, and if you left me a comment somewhere, I haven't found it :(  Hope all is well with you.

Roland- you are right......and I think this Title was a mistake, but it's here now and so be it.  Thanks, your comment made sense.

Jun 08, 2008 04:43 PM