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Motivational Monday...Stop Those Knee-Jerk Reactions

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Motivational Monday...Stop Those Knee-Jerk Reactions

 

Sadly, I have to plead guilty to this. Just Sunday morning we had just started our walk. There on one of the ponds was a couple in a rowboat kissing.

 

It was 7:30 on a Sunday morning!!! Good grief, I thought. Get a room!

 

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It was at that point that Larry pointed to the photographer on the dock taking photos of them. He was directing them to row to another location.

 

It’s so easy to jump to conclusions when we see, read, or hear something. Our adrenalin kicks in and our minds and mouths react before we’ve had the chance to take a minute to assess what is happening.

 

As a stager, I know that I’ve assumed certain things when speaking to a client over the phone before meeting them.

 

The great retailer, Stanley Marcus, taught his salespeople not to assume that the man walking in with jeans and cowboy boots couldn’t afford to shop at Neiman Marcus. In fact, this new, very wealthy oilman could probably buy the whole store.

 

Jumping to conclusions and having knee-jerk reactions are things I’m constantly working on.



People who jump to conclusions rarely alight on them. Philip Guedalla

 

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Comments(23)

Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Chicago, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Kathy. Must agree with Donald Urschalitz especially in Florida. That guy in flip flops, shorts and a T-shirt just wanted to buy a multi-million dollar waterfront property. Nobody thought about it so I took the chance. Taught me a valuable lesson! Enjoy your day.

Jun 10, 2019 04:55 AM
Barbara Todaro
RE/MAX Executive Realty - Happily Retired - Franklin, MA
Previously Affiliated with The Todaro Team

Good morning, Kathy Streib real estate agents do that all the time....they see a buyer walk into an open house, and they label them by what they're wearing or how their hair may look....  and that buyer could easily afford to do his/her own subdivision!

Jun 10, 2019 05:10 AM
Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty
Waves Realty - Melbourne, FL
Florida Space Coast Homes

It would be nice if we could right our ship and never jump to conclusions. This is a really good post.

Jun 10, 2019 05:47 AM
Kristin Johnston - REALTOR®
RE/MAX Platinum - Waukesha, WI
Giving Back With Each Home Sold!

I must admit I do this too occassionally.....great reminder/lesson!

Jun 10, 2019 06:22 AM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Kathy,

What a nice reminder, jumping to conclusions can be erroneous...Wishing you a delightful week ahead.  A

Jun 10, 2019 08:15 AM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Kathy - eliminating knee-jerk reactions and practicing proper spelling A-S-S-U-M-E makes a difference.  

Jun 10, 2019 08:19 AM
Lottie Kendall
Compass - San Francisco, CA
Helping make your real estate dreams a reality

Getting rid of knee-jerk reactions is something most of us need to work on I believe. One of my morning affirmations is "I am kind." When I focus on this I find I'm much more patient and charitable.

Jun 10, 2019 09:13 AM
Grant Schneider
Performance Development Strategies - Armonk, NY
Your Coach Helping You Create Successful Outcomes

Good morning Kathy - people make assumptions all the time.  Making assumptions about people is usually bad advice.

Jun 10, 2019 09:52 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

Little Miss Judgy Judge, haha.  I am guilty of jumping to conclusions incorrectly as well, but I often catch myself before saying something out loud and I reprimand myself for being judgemental.

Jun 10, 2019 11:06 AM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
HomeSmart Real Estate - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

It looked kind of sweet to me Kathy! I see couples holding hands hiking at times and it's lovely.  Oh yes, I remember my Dad saying something like you can't judge a book by it's cover. In MN there were so many wealthy farmers that didn't look like millionaires but they were. I always like that most of them were really down home folks with no uppity airs about them.

Jun 10, 2019 03:14 PM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 FHA, CHFA, VA Mortgages - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Kathy one of the riches man here in town, dresses in a work jump suit, and looks like he does not have enough money for his next meal.  Looks can be very deceiving.

Jun 10, 2019 04:00 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Kat Palmiotti join the club!!! I continue to work on it.

Sham Reddy CRS Thank you!!! Everyone does it. 

Donald Urschalitz you are so right. The first agent I met in Florida had on nice shorts and a Polo shirt. I'd just moved from Houston and was taken aback by it. 

Jun 10, 2019 05:55 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Wayne Martin you are so right. As we grew up hearing...don't judge a book by its cover. 

Barbara Todaro we are all guilty of it. I can remember going shopping when I was in college in my hippie days. Some clerks wouldn't give me the time of day. 

Jun 10, 2019 05:58 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Thank you Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty Larry balances me because I am prone to jump in and have knee-jerk reactions. 

Thank you Kristin Johnston - REALTOR® Everyone does it and it's something that we have to constantly work on. 

Jun 10, 2019 06:02 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Ron and Alexandra Seigel Thank you. It slapped me in the face and was a wake up call the other morning. 

Michael Jacobs I had a boss years ago who would always use the ASSUME saying. 

Jun 10, 2019 06:04 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Lottie Kendall that is excellent!  I find myself saying to myself "be kind."

Grant Schneider there are assumptions we have to make in life about a lot of things, right? But we have to learn when it's better not to. 

Jun 10, 2019 06:54 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Brian England Oh you!!! I am constantly talking to myself and reigning myself in. 

Anna Banana Kruchten CRB, CRS 602-380-4886 the funny thing is I really don't care about things like that. 

Jun 10, 2019 06:56 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

George Souto they really can. It's best to let things evolve first. 

Jun 10, 2019 06:56 PM
James Dray
Fathom Realty - Bentonville, AR

Morning Kathy.

We've all been there, goodness knows I have.  Problem is, from time to time, I still do

Jun 11, 2019 01:24 AM
Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
Retired New Hampshire Home Stager

I didn't read the other comments....

engagement photos I assume?

I bet the photos will be gorgeous.

Jun 11, 2019 03:44 PM