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You can overcome your fears like I did!

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with Hamm Homes

We all had some kind of fears growing up that we all overcome.  Mine was at a early age stuttering and talking in front of people.  I had speech lessons and I would stutter so bad, I would always say I I I I I I and others.  People would make fun of me all the time, call me names and were rude.

Getting up and talking in front of others was not a option and I would avoid during that.  I do not know but by the time I was 15 I got over it and was okay to talk in front of others.  

I have been in front of 500 people and had to give speeches and was fine to talk to them as long as I pick a spot in the back to look at and had a microphone in my hand that I could walk and talk.  

What fears did you have growing up?

Grant Schneider
Performance Development Strategies - Armonk, NY
Your Coach Helping You Create Successful Outcomes

Will - mine was meeting people one to one as a child.  I certainly got over that since I am always meeting people.

Jun 25, 2019 12:31 PM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Will,

Bravo for doing that.  That is monumental.  I have not encountered any fears recently, and the last one was going on a zipline.  A dear friend soothed me into trying it, and I cannot wait to do that again...A

Jun 25, 2019 12:43 PM
Bill Dean
Haggerty Team St. Louis, Mo. - Fenton, MO
William Dean - Broker, Salesperson

Will,

Congratulations on overcoming your fear of public speaking, to this day I get nervous if I have to speak to a crowd of more than a dozen people.

Mine was fear of swimming pools, when I was very young one of my cousins almost died and several other people when a local pool had a chlorine mishap.

Several people had to be taken to the hospital.  For years you could not get me near a pool, I did learn to swim eventually many years later.

 

Jun 25, 2019 01:19 PM
Sheri Sperry - MCNE®
Coldwell Banker Realty - Sedona, AZ
(928) 274-7355 ~ YOUR Solutions REALTOR®

Hi Will Hamm - What an outstanding job you have done to overcome your stuttering.  This is probably one of the toughest fears to overcome.  

Jun 25, 2019 02:06 PM
Myrl Jeffcoat
Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Realtor - Retired

I have a close family member who stuttered significantly as a child.  And, then one day when he was about 7, my mother noticed that he was speaking perfectly.  She asked him how he overcame it.  He said a teacher at his school had told him to slow down, breathe and think out his words before he spoke them.  It worked.

Jun 25, 2019 04:01 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Hi Will- well shame on those who made fun of you, and good for you for overcoming your stutter. Did you ever hear of the country western singer Mel Tillis? He had a stutter but you had no idea when you heard him sing. Like many, I used to have a huge fear of speaking before a large group of people. 

Jun 25, 2019 06:00 PM
Jane Chaulklin-Schott
TEAMCONNECT REALTY - (407) 394-9766 - Orlando, FL
TeamConnect Luxury Homes - Orlando, Florida, 32836

WOW, Will, to overcome a speech disorder such as stuttering is quite a successful accomplishment;  congratulations!! I have watched many of your Denver Market Report videos and never would have suspected you once had to overcome the disorder;  Wonderful.  I do have a life-long fear and it is of taking tests, exams, etc.  Through the years I normally ace all exams - perfect 100's, straight A student grade school through college, but lots of stress and for darn sure, there probably hasn't been a test that I didn't over study.  Thank Heaven I was born a Virgo and have a very helpful memory...:)

Jun 25, 2019 08:31 PM
James Dray
Fathom Realty - Bentonville, AR

Morning again Will.

My biggest fear is that of snakes, still hate them.  My mom hated them, she taught me to do the same.  

Jun 26, 2019 02:17 AM
Norma J. Elkins
Elite Realty Group - Morristown, TN
Realtor - Elkins Home Selling Team

I am not much of an animal person because I guess I wasn't around any growing up.  I am afraid of big dogs, cats and snakes to name a few.  

Jun 26, 2019 06:15 AM
Will Hamm
Hamm Homes - Aurora, CO
"Where There's a Will, There's a Way!"

Hello Larry and Sheila,  I use to be afraid of water also but got over that.

 

Jun 26, 2019 09:47 AM
Will Hamm
Hamm Homes - Aurora, CO
"Where There's a Will, There's a Way!"

Hello Norma J. Elkins,  Snakes, I do not blame you.

 

Jun 26, 2019 09:48 AM
Will Hamm
Hamm Homes - Aurora, CO
"Where There's a Will, There's a Way!"

Hello James Dray,  Snakes, I am not a flame of at all.

 

Jun 26, 2019 09:48 AM
Will Hamm
Hamm Homes - Aurora, CO
"Where There's a Will, There's a Way!"

Hello Jane, it was bad but I got over it and glad I have.

 

Jun 26, 2019 09:49 AM
Will Hamm
Hamm Homes - Aurora, CO
"Where There's a Will, There's a Way!"

Hello Kathy Streib, I was so mad at them making fun of me.

 

Jun 26, 2019 09:50 AM
Will Hamm
Hamm Homes - Aurora, CO
"Where There's a Will, There's a Way!"

Hello Myrl Jeffcoat,  It happens that one day it stops for most of us but I have a frient that is 48 and still has the problem.

 

Jun 26, 2019 09:51 AM
Will Hamm
Hamm Homes - Aurora, CO
"Where There's a Will, There's a Way!"

Hello Sheri Sperry,  I know it took me so long to get over it.

 

Jun 26, 2019 09:52 AM
Will Hamm
Hamm Homes - Aurora, CO
"Where There's a Will, There's a Way!"

Hello Bill Dean,  Lots of people have a fear of water also.

 

Jun 26, 2019 09:53 AM
Will Hamm
Hamm Homes - Aurora, CO
"Where There's a Will, There's a Way!"

Wow A a Zipline,  good for you.

 

Jun 26, 2019 09:53 AM
Will Hamm
Hamm Homes - Aurora, CO
"Where There's a Will, There's a Way!"

Hello Grant Schneider, I can not see you being afraid of one on one.

 

Jun 26, 2019 09:54 AM
Will Hamm
Hamm Homes - Aurora, CO
"Where There's a Will, There's a Way!"

Hello Sheila Anderson, well I know you are not afraid of riding horses.

 

Jun 26, 2019 09:55 AM