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Are you holding yourself back?

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with Pareto Realty TN #251071

“Perfectionism is a form of self abuse.”

The above is a quote from the NINJA Selling weekly email.

As often happens . . . synchronicity . . . This message is timely and relevant.

The theme for this week seems to be all about ways people in the their own way of seeking success.

The NINJA message went on to mention the importance of focus on improvement over time . . . not perfection . . . because . . . odds are not in your favor that you will achieve perfection, so that expectation will indubitably result in “Failure” – That is – abandonment of the mission due to frustration with yourself.

The trap is one of FEAR!

This is deep seeded fear of “shipping” a flawed product resulting in embarrassment in the event your “critics” identify a flaw and pass judgement on you.

The older I get, the more I realize that the most important actions are “Start” and pledge to “Finish” and commit to Focus on continual improvement. Ship when any client steps up to receive.

To some degree, I see folks exhibiting another odd phobia . . . of success.

Weird, eh?

These are the folks who worry about getting too busy thereby creating conditions that lead to “dropping balls” or less than perfect product or service delivery.

So . . . They fail to ship or stall lead generation efforts.

OUCH!

A better way . . . find leverage – Technology – Systems – People – to lighten the “back end” load . . . or refer the business that’s not your “sweet spot” (Niche)

Embrace growth and stop holding yourself (and your business) from realizing your full potential.

 

Published by Barry Owen

Strategist-CEO of Pareto Realty Real estate sales Professional Inviter-Facilitator-Practicer of Open Space Technology Opening safe space for people & organizations to self-organize around issues & opportunities BarryOwen.US Invite-Listen-Love

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Barry Owen

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Pareto Realty
Nashville, TN

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Comments (4)

Lottie Kendall
Compass - San Francisco, CA
Helping make your real estate dreams a reality

Super post, Barry. As our business coach has said on more than one occasion. "Ready. Fire. Aim."  If one doesn't take action, nothing is accomplished.

Jun 27, 2019 07:29 AM
Barry Owen
Pareto Realty - Nashville, TN

BINGO! 

Thank you Lottie Kendall 

Jun 27, 2019 08:05 AM
Francine Viola
Coldwell Banker Evergreen Olympic Realty, Olympia WA - Olympia, WA
REALTOR®, In Tune with your Real Estate Needs

I agree - fear is such a big challenge to overcome, and it's silly when you think about it.  Thanks for sharing the Ninja insight!

Jun 27, 2019 10:19 AM
Myrl Jeffcoat
Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Realtor - Retired

Fear is certainly one deterrent to success.  Another trait I find in some is one's own battle of resistence.  Folks often form their ideas on emotional thoughts rather than intelligent ones.  And, then they tell themselves fairytales to try to get their intelligence and emotions to align!

Jun 27, 2019 05:21 PM