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A Random Act of Kindness

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Real Estate Agent with eXp Realty of California, Inc. CA DRE #01490977

A Random Act of Kindness

 

“No act of kindness – however small – is ever wasted.”

(Aesop)

 

We just returned from vacation in Maui during which we also celebrated our anniversary. It was wonderful, without too much work to do, but now it’s getting life back to the normal routines both personal and business.

 

We had dinner at Gannon’s Restaurant at the Wailea Golf Club in Wailea, a recommendation of a professional colleague of ours. It was everything we hoped for and expected, with terrific ocean views and excellent food.

 

We were seated outdoors, to enjoy the views of the golf course and ocean, and of course the balmy weather, and were seated near another couple. We struck up a short conversation and learned they, too, were celebrating their anniversary, although theirs was earlier in the week.

 

After a couple minutes, with casual pleasantries completed, we each returned to our respective dinners and enjoying the evening.

 

Wailea Sunset in Maui 2019 

 

When our server brought the check he informed us that the gentleman at the adjacent table had bought us each a glass of wine in celebration of our anniversary, but did not want us to know until they had left the restaurant. We were so pleasantly surprised at this bit of kindness out of the blue. It brought a glow to an already wonderful day and evening!

 

Interestingly, it made me start thinking about kindness, and the many opportunities we have to show it every day – to those we know, to strangers, to people who have assisted us in one way or another, and so on.

 

A single act of kindness throws out roots in all directions, and the roots spring up and make new trees.”

(Amelia Earhart)

 

It could be as simple as a friendly smile, a few simple words of thanks and appreciation, holding open a door, or letting someone go before you in the grocery line. And of course it could be much more.

 

You simply have to watch and be aware of the opportunities, and then be kind in some way, without any expectation or hope for something in return except the joy of having done something kind  for someone else.

 

And perhaps step out of your comfort zone and do something you might not ordinarily do.

 

What kindness have you shared or experienced recently?

 

Try to be a rainbow in someone’s cloud.”

(Maya Angelou)

 

rainbow

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Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Hey Alan May  I agree with you on that! And that's a pretty good bolt of lightning!

Jeff

Aug 12, 2019 09:11 PM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

That's a cool thing to do John DL Arendsen .

And those feelings are what it's all about.

Jeff

Aug 12, 2019 09:12 PM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Hi Gregory Manns 

Thanks for stopping by.

That sounds like a pretty cool study...make sense to me!

Jeff

Aug 12, 2019 10:17 PM
John Wiley
Fort Myers, FL
Lee County, FL, ECO Broker, GRI, SRES,GREEN,PSA

Jeff, what a wonderful reminder of the power of kindness, especially a random act.

I am inspired.

Thanks

Aug 13, 2019 02:15 AM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Hi Marte Cliff  - thank you for visiting! There IS plenty of good, it just seems we hear more about the bad, especially on the news!

Jeff

Aug 13, 2019 08:02 AM
L. Scott Ferguson
Ask4Ferguson - Your House-SOLD Name in Real Estate - West Palm Beach, FL
Sunny Florida Real Estate Professional

Awesome post and happy belated anniversary!

 

Once I started to genuinely pour love into everyone I meet, everything just locked it's flow.  

 

Blessings to you!

Aug 13, 2019 08:19 AM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Hi John Wiley 

Thank you! Interesting how kindness does that!

Jeff

Aug 13, 2019 08:41 AM
Dana Basiliere
Rossi & Riina Real Estate - Williston, VT
Making deals "Happen"

Jeff,  Happy Anniversary and thank you for the story.  That couple probably got as much joy out of the giving as you got in the receiving.  They were gracious and classy by withholding the the act until they left. It shows that it was a selfless act!   

Aug 13, 2019 09:40 AM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Hi L. Scott Ferguson 

Thank you for your kind words.

Jeff

Aug 13, 2019 12:33 PM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Hi Dana Basiliere 

It really was selfless and such a simple thing to do. I'm glad we at least chatted with them, even though we did not get to thank them for their kindness. As you say in some ways that was even more special.

Jeff

Aug 13, 2019 12:55 PM
M.C. Dwyer
Melody Russell Team at eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Felton, CA
MC Dwyer-Santa Cruz Mountains Property Specialist

What a lovely post, Jeff - I'm so glad it was featured!    Although in your story you and your wife were enjoying yourselves in a wonderful place when the other diners treated you, other times, when we are kind to someone, they could be having a tough day (week/month/year), and our kindness could give them a special lift from their circumstances.     Either way, it's worth the effort.

Great quote I hadn't heard: 

A single act of kindness throws out roots in all directions, and the roots spring up and make new trees.”

(Amelia Earhart)

Aug 14, 2019 08:44 AM
Sally K. & David L. Hanson
EXP Realty 414-525-0563 - Brookfield, WI
WI Real Estate Agents - Luxury - Divorce

Love Maya....and have enjoyed Hawaii...everyone should go there at least once !

Aug 14, 2019 09:29 AM
Carol Williams
Although I'm retired, I love sharing my knowledge and learning from other real estate industry professionals. - Wenatchee, WA
Retired Agent / Broker / Prop. Mgr, Wenatchee, WA

Hi Jeff,
I'm a little late to the party but it won't stop me from saying a belated:

So glad you had such a wonderful and memorable Anniversary trip to Hawaii. 

Aug 15, 2019 03:47 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400
HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 - Pikesville, MD
Sell Your Home With Margaret Rome

Happy Anniversary Jeff Dowler, CRS Hawaii is a magical place and it is fun to remember how much we enjoyed that trip.

Aug 18, 2019 07:50 AM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Hi M.C. Dwyer 

Thank you, and that's such nice way to look at being kind - you just never know how it can impact the other person.

I hadn't heard that quote either but once I found it I knew I had to share it.

Enjoy the rest of your weekend!

Jeff

Aug 18, 2019 02:31 PM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

No argument from me Sally K. & David L. Hanson  - we have now been 8 times...of course we are not ALL that far away.

Jeff

 

Aug 18, 2019 06:27 PM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Hi Carol Williams 

Thank you so much! It was a wonderful place to spend our anniversary, and the random act of kindness was a special treat!

Jeff

Aug 18, 2019 06:28 PM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Thanks Margaret Rome, Baltimore Maryland 

We like both Maui and Kaui'i although for different reasons. Magical indeed!

Jeff

Aug 18, 2019 06:30 PM
Jan Green - Scottsdale, AZ
Value Added Service, 602-620-2699 - Scottsdale, AZ
HomeSmart Elite Group, REALTOR®, EcoBroker, GREEN

Love this post and so glad I saved this to read.  You are so right. Wonderful to share a random act of kindness.  Thinking of the couple and how they felt sharing that extra toast with you in absentia, nice thoughts!

Aug 20, 2019 09:24 PM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Hi Jan Green 

It was certainly a nice experience, and equally enjoyable to share with others. It IS a nice thought to think about how that couple must have felt.

Jeff

Aug 22, 2019 07:58 AM