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I am a dog person, was since I was a child and will be until I take my last breath. On July 6th I lost my best boy Billy the Kid, and I have been devastated ever since. He was very special and died too soon. I knew he was ill, he had kidney disease and at the end, other things too. Because he was a rescue I don't know exactly how old he was, but the best guess is twelve or thirteen. I had him for ten and a half years and they were big years for me.

I have three others dogs and they know he is gone. I was away traveling and when I got back, as if he were waiting for me, we were only together two days before he died. When we went to the Vet that Saturday I didn't know I would be saying goodbye. I brought him home so the others could see him and know. I buried him in my yard and have since planted a garden around him. 

My others understood and now I understand that they need special attention too. I recently took these pictures of Margie, Finn and Chico. These are the first shots I have taken since Billy died. It was hard but important to remember to cherish the ones I have with me still. I still cry and grieve for Billy but I can't help him anymore and the others are always looking for my love and attention. Here are my three now.

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Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Pets can become family members. Treasure your fond memories.

Sep 30, 2019 01:59 PM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Hi again Roy. My pets are family........TY      Sheila

Sep 30, 2019 02:06 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

HI Sheila- our pets most definitely are members of our family. Larry and I still miss our Brittanys and they will always be missed. 

Sep 30, 2019 07:08 PM
Myrl Jeffcoat
Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Realtor - Retired

It is always really hard to lose a beloved pet.  It takes time to adjust from their absence.  You other three buddies are all really adorable.  I'm glad you have them!

Sep 30, 2019 07:32 PM
Marte Cliff
Marte Cliff Copywriting - Priest River, ID
Your real estate writer

Yes, the others need you more than ever, because they miss their friend as much as you do.

I compltely understand your grieving - when we lost Murphy 5 years ago, my husband and I both had a very hard time. Every time a store clerk wished me a good day I wanted to scream that it wasn't possible - my Murphy was gone.

Now - I still miss him, and I think of him every day, but I can smile and cherish the memories of the joy he brought into our lives. He was absolutely the naughtiest, most wonderful dog I'd ever known.

I love every dog who came before him and love the ones who share our lives now - but just like people, each is an individual. No one can replace any of them.

Sep 30, 2019 09:16 PM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

Good morning, Sheila... having lost my Oliver in February I totally understand how long the grieving process continues... in spite of the fact that I now have my Mr. Marlow, whom I love to pieces. Our dog, Gracie, died three years ago now and I still miss her and we are only now ready to thing about getting another dog.

Sep 30, 2019 10:07 PM
James Dray
Fathom Realty - Bentonville, AR

Morning Sheila.

We lost our Jessie earlier this year.  I still want to see her and love her again.  When I pass her ashes are going to be with me.

Oct 01, 2019 12:42 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Thanks Kathy.     Sheila

Oct 01, 2019 05:29 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Thanks very much Myrl.     Sheila

Oct 01, 2019 05:30 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Hello Marte. It nevers ever gets easier. I have lost many and the pain is just the worst. TY     Sheila

Oct 01, 2019 05:32 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Thank you Nina. I am thinking about it too but I will never get over that feeling of loss. TY    Sheila

Oct 01, 2019 05:34 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Oh James, I didn't know. I am soooooooo very sorry.       Sheila

Oct 01, 2019 05:35 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

I know how much you love your dogs and I am sure they realize it as well, you give them such a good life.

Oct 01, 2019 07:31 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Thanks very much Brian.      Sheila

Oct 01, 2019 07:40 AM
Paul S. Henderson, REALTOR®, CRS
Fathom Realty Washington LLC - Tacoma, WA
South Puget Sound Washington Agent/Broker!

My daughter's dog,  OLY, passed this past weekend when a tumor on his spleen

ruptured. We are all in morning Sheila Anderson 

Oct 01, 2019 08:14 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Oh Paul, I am sooooooooo very, very sorry. No words, just tears.          Sheila

Oct 01, 2019 08:17 AM
Debb Janes
Nature As Neighbors - Camas, WA
Put My Love of Nature At Work for You

Aw, these three can certainly keep a heart full. And there is nothing wrong for saving that space for Billy the Kid...you are both lucky to have shared that special bond. 

Oct 01, 2019 09:13 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Thank you Debb. Billy will never be forgotten.      Sheila

Oct 01, 2019 09:21 AM
Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
Retired New Hampshire Home Stager

 I appreciate animals and I enjoy seeing the cute pics of pets of others. I just am not a pet person, although I do understand the love and the loss...had and lost pets when I was younger. I hate to hear of anyone losing a pet. So sad.

Oct 02, 2019 12:29 PM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Thank you Sharon. My pets are my family and it hurts a lot.      Sheila

Oct 02, 2019 12:32 PM