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SPEECHLESS SUNDAYS - Queen Charlotte

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SPEECHLESS SUNDAYS - Queen Charlotte

Our sweet Charlotte has been struggling for several months but, this last week has been the worst. She doesn't appear to be in any pain but, just won't eat. She has struggled with hyperthyroidism and kidney disease and is now on blood pressure medication. Her blood pressure is totally out of control and we are not able to get her to eat. 

 

Queen Charlotte

 

We know she's 17 years old but selfishly, we're just not ready to say goodbye to our little girl. Sadly, we feel the time is nearing. 😔 

 

© Debe Maxwell | The Maxwell House Group | RE/MAX Executive | CharlotteBroker@icloud.com | SPEECHLESS SUNDAYS - Queen Charlotte

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Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Oh, Sheri Sperry - MCNE® how lucky were you to have had Mittens for 20 years - that's incredible as more often than not, 10 years is 'average' and that's just so quick. We spent much of last night cuddling with her and reminiscing about our time with her - she was one special kitty.

Our children and their friends and their friends' parents all knew her and no one could believe how 'dog-like' she was. She wasn't shy or skittish and always wanted to be part of the party. Someone was always carrying that cat around like a baby...and she loved it! So, today was, as you said, one of the hardest days of my life. I was definitely feeling your pain of 4 years ago. 

We also opted for the same post-mortuary treatment as you. We have her first buddy, Snoopy (a dog who raised her!) in the same box and with a clay paw print. Every time I see Snoopy's paw print, it puts a smile on my face; I only hope to get to that point with Charlotte's clay print. Right now, I just can't stop the tears. 😢 

Nov 11, 2019 10:28 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

And we did, George Souto. I don't think that cat could have been loved more - she was such a special kitty!

Bob Crane, yes, that is ultimately what got Charlotte as well - it just came out of nowhere too. Such a sad day - I can't tell you how many tears we cried today.  

Nov 11, 2019 10:32 PM
Endre Barath, Jr.
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices California Properties - Beverly Hills, CA
Realtor - Los Angeles Home Sales 310.486.1002

Debe, words can not express how Diane & I felt reading your words in FB.... hang in there and be strong, Charlotte is now making friends in Rainbow Bridge ......Endre

Nov 11, 2019 11:21 PM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Oh Debe. With tears flowing I have no words. I do get it and wish you peace and grace. She was a beautiful girl body and soul. 

Nov 12, 2019 04:11 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

Debe Maxwell, CRS good morning, Debe... now you have me crying... I am so sorry to hear the news. Takes me back to February when I had to make that decision for my Oliver.... I stayed with him till the end and I have the comfort of knowing he passed peacefully. I have no doubt that he greeted Charlotte at the end of the rainbow bridge when she passed over. I also have no doubt that he played a role in bringing Mr. Marlow into my life. I'll just bet that Charlotte already has a new kitty in mind for you.

 

Nov 12, 2019 04:27 AM
Myrl Jeffcoat
Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Realtor - Retired

That's the first time I've seen a cat actually nap when a bird was so near!

Nov 12, 2019 07:59 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

You guys are so sweet, Endre Barath, Jr. Thank you both for your love and support - it means the world to me.

As Diane said, it's the intuitiveness that we all love about cats...and their antics, compassion... Gosh, I miss her so very much.

Nov 13, 2019 08:38 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

She truly was, Sheila Anderson - I've never had a cat like her.

Nina Hollander - I'm so glad that you were able to stay with Oliver until the end; so many people just can't do that. For me, it was such a relief to be holding her and know that she passed in peace. 

Nov 13, 2019 08:50 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

OMG, Ray and I got a chuckle out of your comment, Myrl Jeffcoat - thank you for that!

Nov 13, 2019 08:50 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

I haven't mentioned this here before but, will later write a post. I had a quick 'listing' meeting to see how much the seller had done to prepare for the market on Thursday. We were doing our tour of the house and looking out on the patio (it was warm outside so, don't think anything negative!),  I spotted a black & white cat in her yard. I asked whose cat it was and she said hers but, she was going to have to take it back to the shelter! She is my age and never knew that she was allergic to cats but, is severely allergic - so much so that the allergist can't give her shots for it!

 

So, after this meeting, I was taking Charlotte to the vet and asked him if he thought she would be able to tolerate us adopting another cat. He said Charlotte probably didn't have too much longer to live (at the pace she was losing weight) and that it may not be a good idea. "She needs your undivided attention now but, if you can keep them separated, then, yes." 

 

I wasn't going to hurt Charlotte at all so, of course, I didn't bring the other kitty home. It also wouldn't have been fair to bring a new baby into the house and then the humans be totally focused on 'the other kitty.'

Someone is keeping the cat until Ray and I are ready to take her. She's a bit older (5 years old) but, is so darned sweet. She'll fit in well with our fur baby boys (dogs) too.

Nov 13, 2019 08:58 PM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Oh Debe. I am crying big time again and yet happy that the black and white girl will soon be in a better place and help you and Ray honor your beloved Charlotte.  I still cry daily for my Billy the Kid, but my new old girl DD, who is 13, does need me and makes me laugh too. She is learning new things in a new world and I genuinely hope we help one another. G-d bless you.

Nov 14, 2019 04:28 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Oh, Sheila Anderson, I'm so sorry you're still hurting. I really don't believe that pain ever goes away - it may take on a new direction but, that hole is still in our hearts. I'm so happy to hear that DD is settling in well - I had no doubt - you're an amazing fur baby mama! And, you're right, I think she's helping you as much as you're helping her. 

I think Elizabeth is going to pick up the kitty today for us - I figure every day we leave her there is another day that she'll be missing out on all of the love we have in our hearts to give. 

Hugs to you, Sheila! ❤️ 

Nov 14, 2019 05:26 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Hi again Debe. Special furkids provoke special feelings that are hard to ignore no matter how much time has passed. Billy was like that and I can't shake that feeling or him. I know I can't help him anymore and adopting DD was important for me. Incredibly, despite her age, many wanted to give her a home and I am grateful I was able to bring her home. I really can't wait to see this new kitty you are helping and hope that she feels your love too.

Nov 14, 2019 06:00 AM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Good Friday morning, Debe.

Have a great day and a very special weekend.

Nov 15, 2019 04:47 AM
Joan Cox
House to Home, Inc. - Denver Real Estate - 720-231-6373 - Denver, CO
Denver Real Estate - Selling One Home at a Time

Debe, I am in tears too, so sorry for your loss of Sweet Charlotte.   I can relate completely --- Mia is 19, have to hydrate her now every few days, and know the day will come to say goodbye, and will be heart-wrenching.  I have had her since she was 4 weeks old.

Nov 15, 2019 12:37 PM
Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400
The Top Team @ Charles Rutenberg Realty 255 Executive Dr, Plainview NY 11803 - Plainview, NY
Long Island Condo and Home Specialists

Those that are not fortunate enough to have the love of pets in their lives do not know what they are missing. So sad to read this Debe. I think we all feel your pain...

Nov 15, 2019 05:06 PM
Tammy Lankford,
Lane Realty Eatonton, GA Lake Sinclair, Milledgeville, 706-485-9668 - Eatonton, GA
Broker GA Lake Sinclair/Eatonton/Milledgeville

that's the most difficult decsion ever.  And I do understand the aging thing.  Skitty is 17, Ittle Bitty is 15 and Laney our lab is 12.  They are all old, slow and we are just being careful to make sure we don't think they are in pain at this pont and like you said... still eating.  In the past two and half years we've said good bye to two of our beloved furry kids. We've even made the decision to not add more tot he herd because in a few years I want to be able to travel without worry about the pets at home.  Fortunately I also have some grand pups to love on.  I'm so sorry about your Charlotte.  I know she was so special and you've got an ache that will be with you always.  I'm sure glad Ray was home to love on her in person before it was time.

Nov 15, 2019 09:10 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Me too, Tammy Lankford, - I'm still crying at every turn but, know it will get easier but, never go away. She's gone and left a big ole' hole in my heart!

I'm so sorry I missed you and didn't phone you back. I was just a wee bit overwhelmed this week - with grief and work.

Nov 15, 2019 10:49 PM
Georgie Hunter R(S) 58089
Hawai'i Life Real Estate Brokers - Haiku, HI
Maui Real Estate sales and lifestyle info

It always hurts so much to lose a precious pet.  Good thing there are more on the horizon!

Nov 29, 2019 12:41 PM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
HomeSmart Real Estate - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Hi Debe so sad to hear.It’s so hard to watch a fur baby struggle and there’s not much we can do to help them. We had our ‘Kitty’ for 20 years and we miss him still. Maybe she will
make a turn and get better. Kitty did when he was 18. I hope so!

Dec 12, 2019 07:55 AM