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HOW TO KEEP SCORE IN LIFE

By
Real Estate Broker/Owner with people first...then business Ran Right Realty 636943 licensed to thrill

Sometimes we get so lost in our ambitions that we forget to enjoy the obvious i.e. what is presented to us in the moment wherever we are. Picture a compass point. It is broken down into 360 degrees of observations or points that when turned to gives us a view of that segment we are observing. One cannot even name all that they see and that's only one compass point

THE ANSWER TO THE POST TITLE

The best way to keep score and I maintain the only way to do it is: SO FAR...SO GOOD. Look how simple that is and we tend to either ignore it or fail to respect it. All you have to do is realize it is there and you receive the reward of the score. So far, so good does not let you down but instead informs you

WHEN THINGS ARE NOT SO GOOD

What if things are not good? Well, you made this far didn't you? Enjoy HALF of the statement and if you must lament and I do not fault you if you do the alternative is far worse. Pain only visits with the living plus there is always another phrase that helps us along that doesn't let down ever. Read on to this encouragement

HOPE FOR THE BEST

No matter what is going on in your life or whatever you believe in or don't, HOPE is always present & ready to work with no strings attached. It is not discussed enough either. The gift of hope is under-rated & under-used yet it still delivers & even becomes more valuable when acknowledged. Hows that for a friend?

THIS TOO SHALL PASS

I have called upon the "this too shall pass" so many times I have lost count. I remember being young and down in the dumps too many times when I discovered this worthy and powerful statement. I read the story of how it was created and let me share because it is relevant in its formation-creation stage at its inception

POWERFUL & WEALTHY KING

This King had power, money and fame and was not happy at times and didn't know how to handle those moments. He commanded his counselors, wise men and stewards to give him something that would always make him happy, content and at peace even when he was not. Something that would never fail and always come through no matter the circumstances. They found his request daunting & no one ever refused the King anything. They went to work on this dropping all other matters. Things came to a standstill

DAY & NIGHT SPENT

The entire Kingdom was put into this command by the King and after an exhaustive and what appeared to never-end challenge the solution came and the many were relieved when it did. Why? You shall see in my next paragraph. Meanwhile they couldn't wait to tell the King and the entire Kingdom was assembled

MY LORD KING

Your request for an answer on how to handle any worst situation that could visit with you is at hand. The King being anxious and happy sat eagerly waiting as the elite of the wise counsel said unto him: My Lord, no matter what comes about or takes place, whether it be distressing, painful or appear without end we say unto you the following:

THIS TOO SHALL PASS

The King repeated back what he was told and it held! He saw the power of the words and the truth it invoked and from that day forward built his entire life upon it. Of course way before he did, his counselors did being relieved that they were able to use it when they needed it the most "this too shall pass" & it did...

WATCH THE THINKING

Thinking too much takes so much when you do. The most effective way to deal with thoughts is to treat them like a passing parade presented to you to just observe & to focus on what is of interest & to just watch the rest as it parades by. The key is to not give over power to the thought parade. It then serves the observer

THE FORMULA FOR LIFE

At some point in a young persons life, they are wanting to have the question that plagues all young people i.e. how to proceed, what to proceed on, why to do it, when to do and how to as well as a where. The question never goes away and visits with all mankind. Two things will happen as follows:

1. Everyone will get their answers when they arrive at these questions. Approach them and they speak

2. Everyone gets the answer that is for them. They even get to see others getting or searching while they do

THE END RESULT

You will get your answers by living your questions because the questions only unlock doors and clear the paths for the answer to arrive and go to work. Trying too hard sometimes stalls the progress and not trying enough slows it down. It is then we are encouraged with this simple ABC of life: SO FAR...SO GOOD

James Dray
Fathom Realty - Bentonville, AR

Morning Richie,

I've had some bad days in my life, those pasted and now, for the moment I'm having fun everyday.  Life is good, make the most of it...

Dec 09, 2019 01:54 AM
Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Chicago, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Richie. I like your line of thinking. So far, so good! And more to come! Enjoy your day!

Dec 09, 2019 04:30 AM
Richie Alan Naggar
people first...then business Ran Right Realty - Riverside, CA
agent & author

                                                         HELLO BOYS

James Dray ...it is as simple as you say James...we don't have to add to simplicity

Wayne Martin ...your comment supports effortlessness....so soothing

Dec 09, 2019 06:58 AM
Debb Janes
Nature As Neighbors - Camas, WA
Put My Love of Nature At Work for You

This too shall pass is a very helpful reminder - especially when we are experiences times that may be difficult to understand. I like your discussion about thoughts - I think of them as clouds floating overhead ( in my head ) and as you mention, do my best to observe and not react by getting caught up in something that doesn't serve a purpose. 

Dec 10, 2019 12:12 PM
Richie Alan Naggar
people first...then business Ran Right Realty - Riverside, CA
agent & author

Hello there Debb Janes EcoBroker and Bernie Stea JD ...well said & shared

Dec 10, 2019 05:36 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Hi Richie- what a wonderful post. I remember, especially when I was a lot younger, doing the what's my score dance. It's different for all of us at different points in our lives. The best answer  "So far, so good." is so appropriate because we and life go through so many changes. 

Dec 14, 2019 10:55 AM
Richie Alan Naggar
people first...then business Ran Right Realty - Riverside, CA
agent & author

Kathy Streib ...the best part about "so far so good"...it involves no thinking!

Dec 14, 2019 11:12 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

what i learned

                                                  Thank you, Richie

Dec 14, 2019 06:20 PM
Richie Alan Naggar
people first...then business Ran Right Realty - Riverside, CA
agent & author

Kathy Streib ...exercising her grey poupon tastes....

Dec 14, 2019 07:58 PM
Barbara Todaro
RE/MAX Executive Realty - Happily Retired - Franklin, MA
Previously Affiliated with The Todaro Team

Good morning, Richie Alan Naggar I say "so far, so good"..... and that's a positive for all that surrounds us today.

Dec 15, 2019 04:18 AM
Cindy Edwards
RE/MAX Checkmate - Johnson City, TN
CRS, GRI, PMN - Northeast Tennessee 423-677-6677

Good morning Richie, I find myself thinking about each of your examples to a point in my life.  I think the one that speaks to me the most is "This too shall pass".  And , it does...

Dec 15, 2019 04:39 AM
Doug Dawes
Keller Williams Evolution - 447 Boston Street, Suite #5, Topsfield, MA - Topsfield, MA
Your Personal Realtor®

We all live in situations where these examples apply Richie Alan Naggar I've bookmarked it.

Dec 15, 2019 05:27 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Good morning Richie. I don't believe in keeping score. I think you suggestions are great but scoring isn't ever my bottom line.

Dec 15, 2019 06:27 AM
Richie Alan Naggar
people first...then business Ran Right Realty - Riverside, CA
agent & author

Hi there Barbara Todaro ...it is as simple as that dear alady...

Cindy Edwards ...it even applies to positive examples to. Amazing set of words

Doug Dawes ...my like kind thank you

Hello little Sheila Anderson ...no score! got it! Thanks for coming over Sheila

Dec 15, 2019 07:10 AM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
HomeSmart Real Estate - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Somebody asked a question the other day in Q & A something like,do you believe in superstitions?  No I said I don't. Everyone has a choice to think and believe or not. It's a choice.  Loved your use of  THOUGHT PARADE......it's simply a thought parade and you either put energy on it or not.  Choose again if you  don't like whatever your choice was....and again and again. Next. Enjoy your Sunday Richie Alan Naggar

Dec 15, 2019 09:55 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good afternoon Richie Alan Naggar ,

I'm so glad that Kathy Streib featured your post for her "Ah-ha" moments for the week. I love  "So Far ..so good!" It fits so perfectly..don't over think or you'll miss the parade going by so you can pick and choose!! 

Dec 15, 2019 11:02 AM
Richie Alan Naggar
people first...then business Ran Right Realty - Riverside, CA
agent & author

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Hello Anna Banana Kruchten CRB, CRS ...its nice to see "Santa" getting gift

Hi there Dorie Dillard CRS GRI ABR ...this tool in your hands performs D.D.

Dec 15, 2019 11:05 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

So far, so good, Richie! And, the positive in me always tends to pass along the advice, "this too shall pass" - and it does!

Dec 15, 2019 09:30 PM
MichelleCherie Carr Crowe .Just Call. 408-252-8900
Get Results Team...Just Call (408) 252-8900! . DRE #00901962 . Licensed to Sell since 1985 . Altas Realty - San Jose, CA
Family Helping Families Buy & Sell Homes 40+ Years

So far so good is much better than oops I made a big mistake.

Dec 15, 2019 11:52 PM
Richie Alan Naggar
people first...then business Ran Right Realty - Riverside, CA
agent & author

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Debe Maxwell, CRS ...living & demonstrating the post points thank you

MichelleCherie Carr Crowe Just Call...408-252-8900 ...reasons it out

Dec 16, 2019 07:27 AM