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Did you ever send an email and immediately want it back. I did this last night. When I re-read it this morning I was sorry I sent it but alas it is too late. I am hoping that the recipient gives me credit for who they know I am. Sometimes the moment takes over and I say things I wish I had not. Funny it wasn't mean it was just telling. Enjoy your day.

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When you think about real estate, it is time to focus. I have helped people for close to thirty years in all areas, and made the process not only simple but enjoyable. Why should you go it alone or settle for less? Call me and find a partner to help, direct and get you where you want to be.

Sheila Anderson

The Real Estate Whisperer...... Consultant, Trainer, Facilitator 732-715-1133

 

Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Sheila,

We have been there with family that caused a big feud, and a gigantic misunderstanding...and they did not want to hear what really was going on.  They wanted to hang on to their position...  So now, we both read and reread what we write, mostly very bland stuff...LOL A

Feb 22, 2020 10:44 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Thank you Alexandra.      Sheila

Feb 22, 2020 10:46 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

I must admit, I have never done that, Sheila. I read and reread and reread my emails before I hit the send button. I've heard too many horror stories about people who weren't so careful so now I probably over-compensate.

Feb 22, 2020 11:31 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

I am generally careful as well Nina but I was pretty fortcoming yesterday and probably should not have been. TY    Sheila

Feb 22, 2020 11:34 AM
Debb Janes
Nature As Neighbors - Camas, WA
Put My Love of Nature At Work for You

Well it sounds as if you were just quite honest about something, and wish you'd been a bit more cautious about sharing the information. If you don't want to clarify or modify the message - hopefully the other person knows you well enough to understand. 

Feb 22, 2020 11:44 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Thank you Debb. I hope so too.     Sheila

Feb 22, 2020 11:46 AM
Paul S. Henderson, REALTOR®, CRS
Fathom Realty Washington LLC - Tacoma, WA
South Puget Sound Washington Agent/Broker!

I hope your email doesn't cause you any grief...

Happy Saturday Sheila Anderson 

Feb 22, 2020 12:18 PM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Hi Paul. I hope so too. TY       Sheila

Feb 22, 2020 12:21 PM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Hi Sheila:

Well, I have made a few goofs in the past but now try to always re-read a couple of times before sending. Hope the recipient of your email was understanding.

Jeff

Feb 22, 2020 01:53 PM
Joe Pryor
The Virtual Real Estate Team - Oklahoma City, OK
REALTOR® - Oklahoma Investment Properties

Knowing you it couldn't have been that bad and hopefully there is understanding of the other person.

Feb 22, 2020 02:24 PM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

I hope so too Jeff. TY     Sheila

Feb 22, 2020 02:33 PM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Thank you Joe. It wasn't bad just a bit obsessive.    Sheila

Feb 22, 2020 02:34 PM
Myrl Jeffcoat
Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Realtor - Retired

Emails have a way of getting into mischief sometimes.  I do know when I am heated up over something, and write an email, I let it sit and mellow for awhile before hitting the send button.  That tactic works sometimes. . .Sometimes, it doesn't!

Feb 22, 2020 04:39 PM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

That's true Myrl. This was just a strong expression. In retrospect I wish I hadn't been as forthright as I was. TY         Sheila

Feb 22, 2020 05:07 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Hi Sheila- you know what...we've all been there. And I know that you feel badly about it. It will pass. 

Feb 22, 2020 06:47 PM
James Dray
Fathom Realty - Bentonville, AR

Morning Sheila.

It all depends on the recipient, and of course what was written.  

Feb 23, 2020 01:27 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Hi Kathy. It wasn't bad, it was just maybe too pishy. TY   Sheila

Feb 23, 2020 05:25 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Hi James. That is true.    TY    Sheila

Feb 23, 2020 05:25 AM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

Ugh. I hope everything worked out fine! 

Feb 24, 2020 05:53 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Hi Kat. Me too. Thank you.     Sheila

Feb 24, 2020 05:57 AM