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I Had Almost Forgotten.............

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Services for Real Estate Pros with Referral Group Incorporated

I stopped actively listing and selling real estate about eight years ago. I knew then that the time was right. For the most part I have been good with my decision but every once in awhile I wish I could work with someone I know, enjoyed or both. Yesterday, I tried to help a relatively new friend by responding to a question he initiated. Turns out he is looking to buy in my old area, but knows little about it.

I was honest about a home he had looked at in an area where I wouldn't live if I was given a home. He found an agent on Trulia who is neither proactive or well thought of in the area where he is looking. I wanted to refer him to a colleague at my old firm and he was receptive but still believed that the home he found on his own was a good buy. 

I had almost forgotten how stressful it is to hear someone who is clueless decide they know better. I am glad I don't need to do this for a living anymore.

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When you think about real estate, it is time to focus. I have helped people for close to thirty years in all areas, and made the process not only simple but enjoyable. Why should you go it alone or settle for less? Call me and find a partner to help, direct and get you where you want to be.

Sheila Anderson

The Real Estate Whisperer...... Consultant, Trainer, Facilitator 732-715-1133

 

Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

Watching people go against solid advice and falling flat on their faces seems to happen more often than not these days.

Feb 26, 2020 09:35 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Thank you Brian.      Sheila

Feb 26, 2020 09:38 AM
Doug Dawes
Keller Williams Evolution - 447 Boston Street, Suite #5, Topsfield, MA - Topsfield, MA
Your Personal Realtor®

I'll give you the same answer I gave Scott GodzykSheila Anderson as Forest Gump would say "Life is like a box of chocolates, you never know what you're gonna get" Real Estate is that way too.

Feb 26, 2020 09:40 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Thank you Doug.         Sheila

Feb 26, 2020 09:43 AM
Will Hamm
Hamm Homes - Aurora, CO
"Where There's a Will, There's a Way!"

Hello Sheila,  Sometime people get hook on some home and does not want advise from people in the know.

 

Feb 26, 2020 10:21 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

I guess Will, but it is stupid. He will over pay and have difficulty selling when e is ready. TY      Sheila

Feb 26, 2020 11:16 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Hi Sheila- while it can be rewarding helping someone sell or buy a home, especially when it's a friend, there are some griefs we don't need. 

Feb 26, 2020 11:38 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

I guess Kathy. TY        Sheila

Feb 26, 2020 12:28 PM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
HomeSmart Real Estate - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Sheila you did your best to steer him in a good direction. He'll figure it out at some point.....

Feb 26, 2020 01:48 PM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Thanks Anna. I'm not sure but I am not going to worry about it. Thanks my friend.      Sheila

Feb 26, 2020 01:51 PM
James Dray
Fathom Realty - Bentonville, AR

Morning Sheila.

I'm so happy doing what I am now.  With the little bit I get for being the broker, it's enough that I don't actively look for buyers or sellers.

Feb 27, 2020 12:37 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Good for you James. TY    Sheila

Feb 27, 2020 04:12 AM
Norma J. Elkins
Elite Realty Group - Morristown, TN
Realtor - Elkins Home Selling Team

All you can do is give your best suggestions and hope that you can get through.  I am sure I will probably be in your shoes when I decide to hang it up.  Until then I can just hope and pray for the best with each and every one of my clients.

Feb 27, 2020 05:29 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Thank you Norma.      Sheila

Feb 27, 2020 05:48 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

Hi Sheila... I go by the SWSWSWN philosophy to my work to keep stress down... some will, some won't, so what...next.

Feb 27, 2020 07:07 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Thank you Nina. Good for you.      Sheila

Feb 27, 2020 07:42 AM
Carol Williams
Although I'm retired, I love sharing my knowledge and learning from other real estate industry professionals. - Wenatchee, WA
Retired Agent / Broker / Prop. Mgr, Wenatchee, WA

That's too bad, Sheila. Some people only hear what they want to hear... making decisions with their heart instead of their head.  I hope it works out for him.  You tried and that's all you can do. 

Feb 27, 2020 08:15 AM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Thanks so much Carol.     Sheila

Feb 27, 2020 08:45 AM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Being clueless definitely can be stressful, especially for the person who IS clueless. This is a great opportunity for the right agent to educate and guide!

Jeff

Feb 28, 2020 07:55 PM
Sheila Anderson
Referral Group Incorporated - East Brunswick, NJ
The Real Estate Whisperer Who Listens 732-715-1133

Hello again Jeff. I fear I may have lost a friend. I hate stupid. TY   Sheila

Feb 29, 2020 03:32 AM