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Thankful Thursdays...For Not Being Alone

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Thankful Thursdays...For Not Being Alone

 

Since this whole stay-at-home thing, I’ve been trying to contact my friends who live alone, especially those who don’t have family nearby. friends

 

The other day I spoke to my good friend of over 40 years. She lives alone in a beautiful high rise condo in a prime area of Houston (near the Galleria). While she still works, up until two weeks ago, she’s been working from home. 

 

It was her choice to go back into her office. She was getting tired of the same view and as she is a social person, she missed interacting with people other than on the phone or Zoom. 

 

So my Thankful Thursday is that I not only have Larry who will listen to my incessant babbling but also family nearby who I can wave at from my car while in their drive-way when we drop off baked goods or dinner. 

 

If you have a chance, pick up the phone and check in on someone you know who is on their own. Perhaps you can drop off something to them, even if you spend 10 minutes catching up in their driveway, it’s 10 minutes they’ll really appreciate. 



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Comments(21)

Lottie Kendall
Compass - San Francisco, CA
Helping make your real estate dreams a reality

Wonderful thing for which to be thankful, Kathy, and a good reminder for us to take the time to check in with others.

Jul 23, 2020 06:42 AM
Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty
Waves Realty - Melbourne, FL
Florida Space Coast Homes

I do like my alone time, that being said are we ever really alone? Some would say yes.

Jul 23, 2020 07:39 AM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Kathy,

What a lovely post, and a caring suggestion to check on those who are alone.  I am noticing a friendlier world, with many strangers striking up conversations as we move through our day!  A

Jul 23, 2020 07:46 AM
Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
Retired New Hampshire Home Stager

I'm happy to have Rick stuck here home with me through all this too. Honestly, I can't think of anyone I know who is in this alone, except one friend. But, she is a realtor and is working pretty steady and sees people almost every day.

Jul 23, 2020 07:56 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

You are lucky to have Larry and I am sure that he feels very lucky to have you too!

Jul 23, 2020 09:20 AM
Jeffrey Richman
Immediate Home Solutions - Waxhaw, NC
Creative Real Estate Specialist

Hi Kathy,

You are right.  Everyone should reach out to someone that is alone and say "hi".  People, in general are social in nature.

Jul 23, 2020 09:33 AM
Myrl Jeffcoat
Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Realtor - Retired

I know that since the pandemic I have really enjoyed time out in my garden.  I have wondered about those who live in high-rise apartments, condos, etc., that need to leave their home space to get to some form of nature space. 

It is important to reach out to those, who live alone!

Jul 23, 2020 10:01 AM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Chatty Kathy - I am sure your constant babbling was enhanced by those driveway visits. 

Your message is a good reminder.  Any time.  

Jul 23, 2020 10:36 AM
Sheri Sperry - MCNE®
Coldwell Banker Realty - Sedona, AZ
(928) 274-7355 ~ YOUR Solutions REALTOR®

Hi Kathy Streib - We do have friends that are in their 80's and 90's so I make it a point to give them a call regularly. I call to find out if there is anything I can do for them as well. 

They can not take a chance.  

Jul 23, 2020 11:56 AM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 FHA, CHFA, VA Mortgages - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Kathy we have been trying to stay in touch with some of our friends who live by themselves.  They do feel disconnected, so picking up the phone and calling them helps.

Jul 23, 2020 12:08 PM
Grant Schneider
Performance Development Strategies - Armonk, NY
Your Coach Helping You Create Successful Outcomes

Hi Kathy - this is an excellent idea.  I am going to pick up the phone and call someone right now.

Jul 23, 2020 12:46 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Donald Urschalitz that is so kind of you!!!! I'll bet they are so happy to get a call from you. 

Lottie Kendall I know I would go nuts if I couldn't get out or if I were in my very first apartment, which was only 725 square feet!

Jul 23, 2020 01:58 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Hi Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty I too need my "me" time but I also need to have some kind of contact with others. 

Ron and Alexandra Seigel now that's the USA I love!!!

Jul 23, 2020 02:02 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Sharon Tara I have a few friends here and in Florida and I do call to check in with them. 

Brian England I think we're both blessed. And you have your family near you as well. 

Jul 23, 2020 02:10 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Jeffrey Richman all of us are...although some more than others. 

Exactly Myrl Jeffcoat just like my friend in the high rise condo! You and I are lucky to have our "space."

Jul 23, 2020 02:13 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Michael Jacobs I have a photo of me standing in my crib babbling. 

Thank you Sheri Sperry - MCNE® that is very thoughtful of you!!!

 

Jul 23, 2020 02:19 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Thank you for doing that George Souto And I know your friends appreciate it. 

Grant Schneider Thank you for doing that!!!

Jul 23, 2020 02:21 PM
James Dray
Fathom Realty - Bentonville, AR

Morning Kathy.

Still having 504 issues, I wonder when, if ever, they will fix it.  Having said that, great post.  Now, AR won't let me like a post.  The saga continues.

Jul 24, 2020 01:35 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

Hi Kathy... I've never had issues being alone. And then there are those days when I wish I was alone! :) Fortunately, even when my husband is not around I always have a cat and dog to keep me company, so I guess I'm not really alone.

Jul 24, 2020 07:53 AM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

Great idea about contacting friends who are alone, just to check in and give them some company.

Jul 25, 2020 05:03 AM