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Monday Musings: Be Selfish and Love Yourself First!

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We, as a nation, as a world, as a group, or as an individual are brilliant when it comes to telling others what they should be, do, or have.  For whatever reason, whether it is being labeled as selfish, self-centered, or uncaring, many persist in sacrificing or neglecting their well-being for someone else's happiness and well being.

 

"Love is the capacity to take care, to protect, to nourish. If you are not capable of generating that kind of energy toward yourself - if you are not capable of taking care of yourself, of nourishing yourself, of protecting yourself -

It is very difficult to take care of another person. In the Buddhist teaching, it's clear that to love oneself is the foundation of the love of other people. Love is a practice. Love is truly a practice."

~ Thich Nhat Hanh

 

"It's surprising how many persons go through life without ever recognizing that their feelings toward other people are largely determined by their feelings toward themselves, and if you're not comfortable within yourself, you can't be comfortable with others."

~ Sydney J. Harris

 

"You are the most important part of the family. Take care of yourself first. Then you'll be able to take care of everyone else even better."

~ Deepak Chopra

 

Wishing you all a wonderful Monday and a great week ahead!

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Comments (31)

Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

Great advice for the start of a week, and whilst I like all your quotes, this was my favourite roday.

"It's surprising how many persons go through life without ever recognizing that their feelings toward other people are largely determined by their feelings toward themselves, and if you're not comfortable within yourself, you can't be comfortable with others."

~ Sydney J. Harris

Aug 31, 2020 12:35 PM
Myrl Jeffcoat
Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Realtor - Retired

I like your thoughts, and your quotes, Alexandra.  I think it is important to be comfortable with ourselves.  After all, we are our own ground zero!

Aug 31, 2020 01:26 PM
Sharon Lee
Sharon Lee's Virtual Assistance - Jonesborough, TN
Retired and loving life

I love all the quotes but the first one really resonates with me.

Aug 31, 2020 04:46 PM
Endre Barath, Jr.
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices California Properties - Beverly Hills, CA
Realtor - Los Angeles Home Sales 310.486.1002

Alexandra loved your headline and indeed if you do not love yourself how could you love others? We are in agreement again:))Endre

Aug 31, 2020 05:46 PM
James Dray
Fathom Realty - Bentonville, AR

Morning Alexandra.

Cannot argue with logic, I was looking for a star for this one, sigh.

Sep 01, 2020 01:08 AM
Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400
The Top Team @ Charles Rutenberg Realty 255 Executive Dr, Plainview NY 11803 - Plainview, NY
Long Island Condo and Home Specialists

I'm so against people finding faults with others. Something at our broker's remote office happened the other day, and it was very disappointing...

Sep 01, 2020 05:54 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

Good morning, Alexandra... I've long believed that if you don't love and respect yourself, it's impossible to love and respect someone else. Loved this quote.

Sep 01, 2020 06:09 AM
Maria Gilda Racelis
Home Buyers Realty, LLC-Manchester, Bolton. Vernon,Ellington - Manchester, CT
Home Ownership is w/in Reach. We Make it Happen!

Good Morning Ron and A... I have not been seeing your posts for quite some time but that doesn't mean that I am tired of reading your blogs. I will never get tired of it.

FLY is the basic principle to be able to love others. Thank you for the post and picture.

Sep 01, 2020 06:24 AM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Debb Janes EcoBroker and Bernie Stea JD Thank you for the kind words, and wish you a wonderful Tuesday. A

Sep 01, 2020 07:28 AM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543 I agree with you that Sydney Harris's quote is so true.  It was my favorite.  Happy Tuesday.  A

Sep 01, 2020 07:31 AM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Maria Gilda Racelis It is good to hear from you also.  Wishing you a spectacular September.  A

Sep 01, 2020 07:31 AM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Nina Hollander Some feel it is selfish to love yourself.  They love the idea of self-sacrifice more.  A

Sep 01, 2020 07:33 AM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400 I understand, it is disconcerting when things like that happen.   A

Sep 01, 2020 07:34 AM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

James Dray Thank you, and we wish you a superb Steptember.  A

Sep 01, 2020 07:35 AM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Sharon Lee I am glad you liked the first quote best.  As you no doubt know, I am a big fan of Thich Nhat Hanh.  A

Sep 01, 2020 07:37 AM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Myrl Jeffcoat Brilliant comment, "we are our own ground zero!"  Exactly,  A

Sep 01, 2020 07:38 AM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Endre Barath, Jr. Always delighted to be in agreement with you.  Wishing you a superb September.  A

Sep 01, 2020 07:39 AM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

What a thoughtful and inspiring message to start of the week (even though I'm a day late!!), and a wonderful reminder to take care of ourselves!!

Jeff

Sep 01, 2020 09:18 AM
Ron and Alexandra Seigel
Napa Consultants - Carpinteria, CA
Luxury Real Estate Branding, Marketing & Strategy

Jeff Dowler, CRS Thank you for your kind words, and it does not matter what day it is, we should all take care of ourselves beyond brushing our teeth...LOL Wishing you a great September. A

Sep 01, 2020 09:26 AM
Patricia Kennedy
RLAH@properties - Washington, DC
Home in the Capital

People shouldn't "should" on themselves, and certainly not on other people!

Sep 04, 2020 08:40 PM