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Why I'm growing a garden this summer.......and why it has NOTHING to do with veggies!

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Real Estate Agent with Silvercreek Realty Group

gardenI read a post by Jonathon Washburn today and it reminded me about something I have been trying to teach my children.

In his post, Jonathon said "...Real estate sales and business are still very hard. It has also been my experience that everything I attempted to do in business is always 300% harder than I thought it would be when I began."  I was glad to hear that things didn't work out exactly like he thought they would, but he didn't give up!  It seem to me that "quitting" has become an epidemic in our society today.  So that is why I decided to plant a garden.....to teach my children about the Laws of Nature and the Laws of Success.

  • Delayed Gratification.  When you plant a seed in the ground, it takes weeks if not months before you get to eat the fruit.  You don't get the reward immediately after you put out the work.  So many people quit when they are just about to make it over the 'hump' and start reaping the rewards.  People in general need to learn more patience.  Growing a garden teaches you patience!  We ate our first radish out of the garden today, and we planted those about a month ago.  Radishes are a quick growing vegetable.  Most of our crops are months away from harvest.  Do we give up on the peppers, rip them out of the ground and say "This gardening thing doesn't work!" ? Of course not, so why do we do that in our businesses? 
  •  Faith.  When you plant seeds, you don't know if they will come up or not!  You need to have faith that if you plant enough seeds and take care of them, you will have a harvest.  In Real Estate, we don't know which of our prospects will 'bear fruit', but we need to keep trying.  If we plant enough prospect 'seeds' we will get buyers and sellers-the sweet fruit of Real Estate. 

 

 

  • Consistency.  When you plant a seed, you must almost immediately start watering that seed.  But you can't just water the seed here and there whenever you feel like it.  Your garden needs to be watered consistently, weather you feel like it or not!  Business is much the same way.  The small daily habits are what separate the Top Producers from the Low Producers

 

 

 

  • Managing Emotions.  In nature, nothing is guaranteed.  This is an important lesson to be learned.  Sometimes we can do everything right-great soil, great seed, consistent water, ample sun-and then comes a horrible storm that wipes your garden out!  And so it is in life and business.  Sometimes you can do everything right and the deal may fall through.  Don't beat yourself up! Some things are out of your control.  Just pick yourself up and start all over again. 

 

  • Invest in Yourself.  When you plant a garden, it takes money to buy the seeds, plants, and fertilizer.  In business it takes investment in knowledge for you to produce great results! Remember; don't eat your seed wheat! 

 

 

I grew up on a Potato Farm in Idaho, and I know my childhood farming experiences taught me a lot about living a successful life.  As our society has gotten away from it's agricultural roots, we have come up short on some important life lessons. 

So if you have children, you may want to consider the following.  Go down to Home Depot, buy a pot, some soil, a plant and enjoy the fruits of your labors this summer! 

Pam Pugmire
Silvercreek Realty Group - Meridian, ID
Meridian Idaho Real Estate

Audrey  Not being in control is the worst huh? 

Connie They're kids so of course they don't listen! ; )  I think some will seep in via osmosis!

Dick  Thanks for your kind words

Brian I think volumes could be written on the subject!  One of my favorite gardening analogies is the parable of the sower in the New Testament. 

Thanks for all the comments!

Jun 20, 2008 12:02 PM
Pam Pugmire
Silvercreek Realty Group - Meridian, ID
Meridian Idaho Real Estate

George, my Active Rain mentor!  Thanks for your kind words!  It means so much-especially coming from someone who is such a talented writer!  Thanks for all of your advice and help!

Jun 20, 2008 12:05 PM
Andy Laughlin
ConnectRealty.com - Bellingham, WA

Thanks for sharing the blog. That is a great comparission.

Have a great  weekend!!

Andy Laughlin

Connect Realty

Jun 20, 2008 12:07 PM
Pam Pugmire
Silvercreek Realty Group - Meridian, ID
Meridian Idaho Real Estate

Andy  Thanks for visiting!  Have a great weekend also!

Jun 20, 2008 04:19 PM
Irene Woodworth
Color and Redesign Academy & Redesign Boise - Garden City, ID
Color-Redesign-Staging, Trainer & Motivational Speaker - Idaho

Hi Pam,

Great post and wonderful message.  Loved the analogy and your colorful pictures were wonderful, too!  Looks like this post got Featured, also!  That is fantastic, having another Idaho Gal getting recognized on the AR Community.  Way to go...

Have a Colorful Day!

Jun 21, 2008 10:27 AM
Pam Pugmire
Silvercreek Realty Group - Meridian, ID
Meridian Idaho Real Estate

Irene- Thanks for the kind words!  Congratulations to you also!  It was fun to see Idaho represented on the daily AR email! 

Jun 21, 2008 12:43 PM
Missy Caulk
Missy Caulk TEAM - Ann Arbor, MI
Savvy Realtor - Ann Arbor Real Estate

Pam, I do not have a green thumb, but the lesson is true nevertheless. Thanks to Gary who featured you in week in review for bringing me here.

Jun 22, 2008 03:16 AM
Lenn Harley
Lenn Harley, Homefinders.com, MD & VA Homes and Real Estate - Leesburg, VA
Real Estate Broker - Virginia & Maryland

I'm a compulsive gardner.  If I could only control the rain. 

Jun 22, 2008 03:36 AM
Carol Culkin
Diamond Partners Inc - Overland Park, KS
Overland Park Residential Real Estate

Great lesson for the kids!

Jun 22, 2008 05:04 AM
Susan Mangigian
RE/MAX Preferred - West Chester, PA
Chester & Delaware County Homes, Delaware and Ches

I loved these analogies between gardening and life.  Very well done!

Jun 22, 2008 06:10 AM
Irene Woodworth
Color and Redesign Academy & Redesign Boise - Garden City, ID
Color-Redesign-Staging, Trainer & Motivational Speaker - Idaho

Pam,

Congratulations on being selected on your post this week by Gary on Week in Review post!  That is wonderful.  Amazing we both got selected as gals from Idaho!  Very exciting.  I rejoice with you. 

Life is so full of lessons in our everyday life.  Again, I appreciated your insights on this post.  Great job!!

Have a Colorful Day!

Jun 22, 2008 07:18 AM
Anonymous
Li Read

Thank you!     Great post!

 

Li Read, RE/MAX Salt Spring, B.C., Canada

liread33@gmail.com

Jun 22, 2008 12:56 PM
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Pam Pugmire
Silvercreek Realty Group - Meridian, ID
Meridian Idaho Real Estate

Missy~I'm not so sure that my thumb is very green, but we're trying! 

Lenn~Let me know when you get that figured out.  We could start a joint venture! 

Carol~I'm still trying to learn these lessons too!

Susan~Thanks for stopping by Ms. Hooligan! ; )  Catwoman

Irene~Right back at'cha!  Us Idaho gals need to stick together!

Li~Thanks for reading! 

Jun 22, 2008 05:15 PM
Susan Mangigian
RE/MAX Preferred - West Chester, PA
Chester & Delaware County Homes, Delaware and Ches

Pam, if it wasn't so early on a Monday, I would send up the bat signal and see if we can get the party started over here!!

Jun 22, 2008 11:28 PM
Maui Real Estate - Lisa B. Miller R(S)
Keller Williams Realty Maui - Kihei, HI

Great post!  I do not have a green thumb to save my life, but I wanted to start growing my own herbs and tomatoes, which I planted 3 weeks ago.  I, too, had taken note of the similarity between growing a garden and growing a business.  I am still in the early stages of gardening efforts, but I certainly had that excitment, eagerness to learn, and even the fear of failure like I did when I started my business.  And what a great thing to do with your children!  It not only teaches them about hard work, patience, and responsibilty, but where our food comes from.

Jun 23, 2008 01:33 PM
Pam Pugmire
Silvercreek Realty Group - Meridian, ID
Meridian Idaho Real Estate

Lisa~good luck with your garden!  Herbs are some of my favorites to grow.  There in Hawaii you could grow things all year long!  Thanks for commenting.

Jun 23, 2008 04:44 PM
Carolina Zepeda - REALTOR® Houston Texas Real Estate - www.carolinazepeda.com
Champions Real Estate Group - Cypress, TX

I loved this post, great analogy about growing our business garden!
www.carolinazepeda.com

Jun 26, 2008 12:08 PM
Hope Goss
Ventura Property Shoppe - Ventura, CA
Ventura Real Estate

Nurturing a garden is a great lesson for kids.  My 4 year old gets so excited to plant a new veggie or a flower in the garden.  He loves being outside and discovering new plants, animals, and even the weeds!

Jul 18, 2008 03:14 AM
DeVerie Riley
Associated Real Estate - Tehachapi, CA
Helping Buyers in Tehachapi & Bakersfield

Great blog! My kids loving watching our seeds grow and the excitement in there eyes is priceless. Good luck with the gardening! :)

Jul 18, 2008 07:55 AM
Cheri Smith
Prudential Gary Greene, Cypress TX - Cypress, TX
Realtor Prudential Gary Greene

Great blog. You are correct. Gardening teaches kids a lot of life skills. We grow jalapenos, tomatoes, cilantro, lemons, aloe and some onions.

Jul 23, 2008 04:54 AM